I started off by defending older mums, am I not allowed to have an opinion on it because it's about over 35's. My mum had me when she was 42, so in earlier posts I was defending older mums and empathising with what it is like to be judged. There has also been numerous digs at young mums in this thread. But I am not going to sit here and argue. Good luck with your TTC x
I think it's nice that a mom is sticking up for other moms - I think that's what we all should be doing, instead of tearing one another apart.
Me? If I'd had a kid at 19....wow. My mom had two by the time she was 21 (it was, though, the fifties) so if you're handling it, hats off to you. Really, you're probably juggling no more and no less than I hope to be...I'm active duty military, an officer in the USAF and a nurse, so my DH could and will eventually be left as the sole caretaker when and if I'm deployed later on.
I think a baby WILL be a huge challenge for DH and I. Unless you're fifteen (and I think everyone knows what I mean), there's not really a truly GOOD age to have a kid...we know this will be stressful (and we're talking about the after TTC!), we know it's going to be an upset, and I'm sure there will be nights I'll think,
really, this is what I wanted? Really?
I know I'm new here, but I don't think she meant any harm. Pillory me if you must, but I don't think we need to attack each other. We're all stressed out enough.