Well I'm 20 weeks today and my 5 year old daughter keeps calling me 'fatty' so we decided to bite the bullet and tell my kids (aged 5 and 3) that they are going to be big brother and sister! I am now terrified as we don't have our anomoly scan until next week - what if something dreadful is wrong and I have to tell them bad news? I am so worried - I just want to protect them from any pain. But my daughter was soooooooo happy! She actually said 'its like getting the best christmas present now' I hope I haven't tempted fate or I'll never forgive myself for putting my kids in that postion.