I've got my anti-witch spray!

[linz143]

Oh, and you two with your readings!! Lol! I had another friend on here go to Ruby and she didn't get her reading for like a week either and got upgraded for free, too. I wonder if she just has a lot of people asking or something going on in her personal life right now. Mine was done exactly at the 3 day mark as advertised.

Haley I hope it happens for you sooner, but if not... July is not that far away!

 

[nats77]

Hi ladies, well i saw the specialist fri and they are going to do a laparoscopy to see what they can see, will be anytime from now till 4 months so i guess that's good news. At least i'll know whats going on, On another note i think my chances of EVER getting another bfp have just about gone! What i mean is me and the oh have been rowing all day today and i think its got to the point now where there's kind of no where else to go, we're going to talk tomorrow nite and see what we should do but i think he's had enough of me now and just want's to leave will let you know how it goes xxxx

Haley - Any news hun?? xx

 

[leia37]

Oh Nats hon, huge hugs. Glad you are going to get things checked out, hopefully you wont have to wait to long for your answers. Let us know how you get on. As for you and your OH, we all have days where we dont get on with our other halfs and to the point when we think thats it. I hope you both manage to come out the other side stronger. you must be feeling like crap right now so big hugs. x

Haley - still crossing fingers for you, not over till witch arrives x

 

[wishnhoping]

I haven't sent ruby an email since I wasn't sure thats what I was supposed to do but I'll do it at work tomorrow. Not really banking on it but it'd be nice to have some kind of hope

Nats- I'm so sorry. Ttc is so stressful and we get a little over consumed with it. I know I have pushed dh away so many times during this process. I hope you too work it out. Put things in perspective and see why you are both so at wits end. Good luck

 

[giraffes]

Nats - huge hugs. Maybe knowing that you're going to have a lap might take the pressure of you and OH for a while, which might make things a bit better? Hope your talk goes well and you can remember good things about your relationship too - not least your gorgeous children!

Haley - any news?

Linz - that's fantastic you've stopped being sick!!

Wishin - good luck with the reading!

 

[Haleytivet]

Hugs to you Nats! I hope everything gets better for you soon!!!

AFM, I got a negative HPT yesterday and this morning. I stop the meds tonight so unless a miracle happens and I get a positive in the next few days then AF will be here sometime this week and I start the next round of clomid!!! Yesterday was pretty rough! I sobbed on/off for most of the day! Sorry I didn't update yesterday but a part of me was hoping something would change from yesterday and today and I wouldn't have to be typing this!

Well on to the next! All my tears were spent yesterday so I'm fresh out as of now

Hope everyone else is doing well!

Wishin, I had to email her several times for her to get my reading to me. I'm not a big believer in it either it was just for fun to see what she would say versus what I would get. lol Something to help pass the time.

I'm starting back at the gym tomorrow. Hopefully that will relieve some tension

 

[wishnhoping]

Haley- Sorry about your bfn

I emailed Ruby and hopefully will get a reply soon. But it said she was out of the office all weekend so I am sure she has a ton of backlog. I believe in mediums and all that stuff I just dont know how she is supposed to "read" me over the computer...but hey wth!

 

[Haleytivet]

Well I can't wait to see what she says Again something to pass the time and look forward to!! A little hope goes a long way!!!

 

[giraffes]

Haley - big big hugs.

AFM - I'm going to fess up now as well, I did two crazy things when we were TTC that I would never have thought I'd have done before we started that journey...!!
1) I got one of those fertility spells (I know it's nuts, you don't have to tell me!) and she asked was there anything in particular that we thought was preventing us from conceiving. I told her about my previous surgeries and that my tubes were probably blocked and she said she'd focus on that. Now I'm not saying it was this and this alone, but bearing in mind my consultant had said there was almost no chance of us conceiving naturally with my history it maybe helped???
2) I asked for a reading from Ruby. However, despite loaaaaaaads of emails she never got back to me. However, I was doing this while I was pregnant and didn't know it! So maybe she knew...???

OK, confessions over

 

[Haleytivet]

HAHA!!! You are too funny!

The things we do right? Hey whatever works to help de-stress us!!!

 

[wishnhoping]

lol it does make it a little more fun!

I am just waiting on the witch to arrive...she should be here anytime between tomorrow and saturday depending on whetehr I am having a 28 day cycle or 32...oh joy...i love these little surprises haha

 

[Haleytivet]

Wishin, sounds like we'll be on the same cycle this month. I'm also waiting for her to show and it should be here anytime between now and Saturday also...

And you're right about the surprises!! Ugggh! Lol

 

[wishnhoping]

yay, itll be fun to have the tww with someone! If we actually get any bding in...

 

[firsttimer30]

Hello Ladies....Long time. seems like I have been the only one MIA, been having problems with the internet not sure whats going on..anywho its good to be back..

Wishin-glad to hear your hubs is on the mends.

Nats-sorry to hear about the lap, I hope everything goes well and you get your BFP soon.

I hope that everyone else is doing great as well..

AFM- I am doing pretty good, belly getting bigger everyday other than the stretching of muscles and ligaments it has been a breeze, I finally got scheduled for an ultrasound so May 3rd I will get to see how much my bean has grown My Midwife seems to think from the heartbeat that it is a girl as I am hoping for a boy but either one as long as he/she is healthy I will be just fine..

 

[wishnhoping]

First- according to the old wives tale of the heartbeat my baby would have been a girl...I have a big beautiful baby BOY! So take it with a grain of salt

 

[wishnhoping]

Btw- anyone finding out the sex of their baby soon? I am lost on who will find out first!

 

[linz143]

I just got my gender scan appointment booked. It will not be until June 27th. Of course these other lovely ladies will find out before then, so I'd like to hear some dates, too!

Also have the 12 week NT scan booked for May 8th... looking forward to that and scared all at the same time!

 

[nats77]

Hey girls, firstly i just want to say thank you again for your never ending support! I've been a real miserable cow lately and not had much time for anything (and i'm ashamed to say anyone) so please forgive me!
I am however back! I'm feeling so much better now, had a good talk with oh and we've managed to sort things thru and he decided that he's goiing to put up with me after all
Also i've got the date for my little op, its the 16th of may so haven't got to wait to long at all, so maybe just maybe all will get sorted and my bfp wont be that far behind it all!?!?!?

So ladies how are you all doing ooooo are you all finding out what flavour your having?? i did with all 3 of mine and will again, it makes life so much easier i think.
So correct me if i'm wrong but i've worked out giraffes and first are the furthest along, with leia closely following then of corse linz, what an exciting time for you all to be going thru, cant wait to hear your updates xxxxx

 

[leia37]

Nats - so very glad you are back on track with oh and not long to wait for op. x

We wont be finding out the sex. We've saved it for a surprise everytime so will do the same this time . Have another doctor appointment on monday - have no idea what will happen probably just general check but should get forms to book 20 week scan, which finally is getting close. i cant wait to see baby again.

 

[firsttimer30]

Btw- anyone finding out the sex of their baby soon? I am lost on who will find out first!

Hoping to find out May 4th ..
I pondered on weither I wanted to know and my 7 year old step daughter has been wanting to go to the doctor with me and it's always been during school so she hasn't been able to go, so she made me this amazing card with a heart on the front saying " to-MOMMY, from-Your baby girl. and oin the inside a little note that says " Dear Mommy I love you so so so much and how was your day good I hop and tell me if you Have a boy or a girl were ther is a line when you fegrout!!!" _________ ______________
Boy GIrl

complete with a drawing of me and her with a giant star that says "OUR STAR" underneath it... she is such a sweet heart..

So I am going to surprise her and pick her up from school and take her with me..At times I am more excited for her getting to go with me then I am seeing my little bean..