Plex, Yay, some good news, and reason to hope for more perhaps?
lol yeah hopefully! Im praying for more lil follies to grow and have lovely mature eggies in each one too
How r you doing? I remember you saying that you had your appointment put back to Feb - is this still right? Has AF got you yet too? Im wishing the time away for you hun - im impatient to hear how those apps go!
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Buny -
It sounds like everyone is doing well. I've been reading but don't have time to fully catch up, so I'll send out one of these to everyone.
Sending
right back to you hun
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Good ultrasound and appt with regular and high risk OBs today!! They indeed performed NT scan and combined with blood tests, we are good to go, no issue. Very relieved. Babies were quite active (mommy had to eat between appts). Actually baby A was covering its face and tech had a hard time getting a pic of nasal bone. Baby B was super bouncy and tech couldn't get the heart rate. Lol little troubles.
Exciting!! Sounds like you all crammed a lot of appointments, tests, scan into one day, dont blame you for needing to eat in between! Are you eating much more do you think? I wouldve thought all symptoms were double a singleton pregnancy. Sounds like theyre starting as they mean to go on
bet youll have ur hands full with them when theyre born (in a good way of course!!) xx
Plex! !!! Woohoo!! I'm so happy for you! !
I got my base line today! ! My E2 came back 5.1 , at least 5 follicles so far, my uterine 6 is very thin. . They said all of that is excellent. . So I start my stims tonight. Gonalf 225. My lupron got cut to 10 units. I'm so happy! ! But my new fear of the needles continues.
Good luck with the stimms hun!! xx
Update:
We ladies go through so, so much. To have anyone say that we're not good enough or mother enough or whatever is just horrible. People like that should not be allowed the friendship of women like us! We have gone through too much to ever deserve the kind of crap this girl has said to me.
On a positive note: Now that I realize how much of an affect her words and behaviors have had on me, I've been able to see that I DON'T actually blame myself for my m/c. That was her, not me. In fact, the depression I was feeling has changed over to feeling incredibly positive about this FET cycle. I feel like I'm stronger now for realizing what his girl has been doing- especially since I'm putting my foot down and saying NO MORE>
I am brave, I am strong, and I sure as hell am a mother- to both my angel-baby and to my little blastocysts who I will be seeing soon. If she does not choose to recognize my children, that's her problem, not mine! I will love each of them until the day I die!
Well said!!!
Just wanted to give you a BIG
she is so not worth you kind friendship
Also wanted to wish you tons of luck with you FET - will your hubby be able to make it to ET you think(i think i read earlier that you weren't sure)
Having such a rough night. DH and I came up to VA as I was invited to be here for a friend's pregnancy/birth, which she had originally invited me to before even getting pregnant, then talked all about it the last couple year. She was my first long-distance Childbirth Education Client during her last pregnancy a few years ago and we became really close friends after that.
During my short pregnancy she was super like: You have to be here!!! After I miscarried she started acting weird, but still asked me to be here (even though it's expensive for us to stay here, campgrounds in this area are expensive). Anyway, after we spent all that (non-refundable) money to be here, she started acting like she didn't really want me to come to the birth. Then a couple weeks ago, she made it really clear there would be no room for me at the birth.
Now, she's in labor telling me that if thing get busy she may want me to babysit her kids.
So not only am I not invited to the birth, now she wants me to watch her kids since she didn't bother to have a sitter or family member on call.
I really don't understand why, but I am incredibly hurt right now. It's like being shoved even further out of the Mommy's Only Club. It really meant so much to me that I could be there. And in some ways I knew it would be a really healing experience for me. (It would be the first birth I would have attended since my miscarriage. Actually, one of only a couple since our IF diagnosis when I quit working as a doula.)
Even worse: Even though I was this girl's Childbirth Educator during her last pregnancy and also acted as her doula in many regards, she told me the other day that she'd never hire someone who's not a mother (ie: ME, since apparently if you m/c your child, you're not a mother in her eyes). Wtf? I wasn't a mother before either.
I feel like I'm being punished for m/c'ing.
Sorry ladies. I don't understand at all why I am so upset right now.
Gosh what a cow! I would be feeling hurt, angry, betrayed and used. She certainly doesnt sound like a friend to me
Id be tempted to say that i was busy and not able to look after her kids the cheeky *****! Its also weird how she acting like your not good enough to help if youve not had kids which is complete bull. For all she know the doctors/nurses looking after her have none themselves
sorry thats made me mad for u
Yay for AF!!!
xx
Plex
why are they so worried this early? I had the same. Very small follicles the first scan (maybe the second, too) and they upped my meds and added a couple extra days. Can you ask your FS if he can do that?
Dont think they were worried, its me really. I think i should be doing better as i have pcos i thought id over respond not struggle to produce them
I asked for them to up my does on wednesday and they did so im now on 300iu of menopur which has helped grow my follies but not produce any more. xx
Sorry if ive missed anyone, i was just doing a quick couple o pages read back
to u all xx
Actually thats reminded me of something i didnt put in my original post - the nurse said that she thought i also had DOR which i didnt think was possible with pcos? Dont know if any of youve heard of that?
welcome Angela & Cntrygrl xx
