sunshine- My clinic told me anywhere in the abdominal area is fine. I think they suggest staying away from the belly button because there is a vein that runs through there that they don't want you to hit. As long as you got it in fat and not a vein or muscle it's totally fine. I hope your ER goes smoothly tomorrow!
*UPDATE*
Home now. They transferred one 3AA blastocyst and are going to freeze a 3AB blastocyst. The third one is looking kinda not so good this afternoon at 3CD-ish, so they're going to let it try to grow another day and see what happens. If it improves they'll freeze it, if not then they won't.
I finally got a chance to talk with the doctor in charge of the clinic. He was insanely nice. And he really set our doctor stright bout what is and is not okay! From here on out, our doctor will not mention ICSI at all, and will be informing the embryologist that it is out of the question. I think the head RE really listened to us. If something goes wrong with a SA in the future, eggs will be frozen to fertilize later. He also let us go last today so that DH was allowed to go into the transfer with me, which is usually against clinic policy. (DH got to wear scrubs and it was totally cute!) The head RE even did the transfer himself and he did a wonderful job.
When we talked to the assistant embryologist today at our transfer, she said we needed to go down and pay for the vitrification process so they could do the freeze. So we went down to reception to pay and found out that we only had to pay $150 instead of $800! It looks like they took away the charges for the prolonged cultivation and daily monitoring and put that money towards our freezing. Also, we're not being charged for ICSI. I feel a lot better about that.
Oh! And we even got a pic of our blastocyst: