IVF until we all get our bfp! 2012-present *13 w/twins & 1 w/triplets!*

[MrsC8776]

jchic and want thank you so much! Theres no need to apologize. I do wish that the issue would have been brought up but theres nothing I can do about it now. I just wish that in the future if there is an issue someone please let me know or make a post here talking to the girls about it nicely. There is 900+ pages and we have all been through so much since this has started. I did mention to someone a few weeks ago that I worried about this happening but like I said I though it was going well. I'm actually pretty upset that things have turned out this way today and because of other posts I have seen.

ash~ It has been a while but I have asked about you. With all the posts I make in here it would be hard to find out the exact date of the last time. We have all been supportive. I feel like we have all done a very good job of checking up on each other. I think sometimes people have questions and they some how get skipped. It happens but that isn't anything personal. I wish you the best of luck and hope to hear of your bfp soon. I'll keep you on the first page in case you decide to update us with your great news. I don't want this thread to turn bad because of feelings today. If you would like to join us again it is always open to you. I'm sorry for what has happened.

 

[oneof14]

I know I dont post often, but I do follow you ladies, and wish everyone the best! MrsC, you've done a fabulous job with the up-keep! I thank you all for the support you've given to me, and I hope I provided some support for you as well!

 

[MrsC8776]

Thank you One! Are you leaving as well? I'm sorry if you are and wish you the best of luck.

 

[jchic]

One - I cant believe your cycle is so close now, this is really exciting! I have been following your progress on Michelles journal and cant wait for BOTH of you to get that well deserved, definitely coming up soon BFP!

 

[drsquid]

part of me sees where ash is coming from but... part of me also feels like... i know there are new threads for people doing ivf in october, november etc. many people who are continuing to do ivf join those threads too (i know i did). this thread is basically ivf over the summer. it still applies to those of us who did ivf those dates whether we suceeded or not. it has turned out to be a rather lucky thread and lots of people have suceeded. makes more sense to me to keep bringing new people and new ideas into new monthly ivf threads rather than asking people to leave a thread that is unlikely to pick up any new users. i am on other boards where they start a new thread each month and close the old one. then sure it makes sense to split into "grads" and "non grads". anyone who did ivf or assisted conception in the months above are welcome here (as well as people who didnt) but the hopeful eventual outcome of ivf is pregnancy..

 

[ashknowsbest]

drsquid - thank you for seeing where I was coming from but I do agree with you and didn't think about it this way that ... I should probably just move to a thread where they're doing fresh or fet's in november and december since this thread has members who are mostly finished with their ivf's and are either pregnant or decided to stay because they don't mind the pregnancy posts. You made me see it differently, thank you! I probably will be joining a different IVF thread where people are newly going through the process and haven't already gone through it!

but like I said before, thanks for having me on this thread, congratulations to all of the pregnant ladies and good luck to those of you getting ready to do FET's or fresh cycles.

 

[MrsC8776]

drsquid I also saw where ash is coming from. I guess other things that I saw upset me more than what was put in this thread. I just figured since we all started together we would all finish together. Now I feel like the ladies who are still moving forward are all going to leave. I don't want that to happen. I really wanted us to all finish together and move into pregnancy together. I felt like I built a friendship with everyone in here. I tried to have it inviting for all and make everyone feel comfortable. Like I keep saying... I just wish something was said before it got to this point thats all. I didn't want to have the girls with bfp's leave because that isn't fair. I didn't want to just limit the thread after everything everyone has been through. Everyday I look at the front page while doing update and get so excited to see that the list of ladies still moving forward to their bfp is shorter and shorter. Ash I'm sorry if something I said today upset you. I should have said that I see where you are coming from instead of trying to figure out why nothing was said earlier. I don't know what else to say... I just hope that everyone stays, continues to support each other and get support from others.

 

[oneof14]

Thanks Jess, I am hoping this time, I will be more relaxed and confident. I have been enjoying this time to just have fun, reconnect with my DH and work-out. My last IVF did a number on my body in terms of weight. I am trying to not make ttc my life, as I have in the past. I'm not quite ready to start thinking of other plans, if IVF doesnt work for me, but my DH and I have started to discuss it, I mean just recently. How are you feeling, aside from the ms? I still can not believe twins!!!! Awesome! Thanks for checking in on me. I follow your journal as well.

 

[oneof14]

Thank you One! Are you leaving as well? I'm sorry if you are and wish you the best of luck.

No, I am sticking around, love you ladies and I need support as well as give all the support I can!

 

[drsquid]

i certainly dont want anyone to leave and hope that anyone that does will check back in and keep us up to date!

 

[Jenn76]

Wow lots of Drama on here today! I just want to give my two cents worth. When I was going through IVF I really appreciated all of the support this group gave me. I wanted to stick around so that I could give the one's still trying the support they gave me. I also want to see everyone get their BFP. My protocol was different then anyone on here so often I can't answer questions asked about specific meds. I read every post and if I can provide some sort of support I do. I tried to join another group but I honestly feel so connected to the ladies in here it's not the same. I enjoy hear everything that you guys have to say. I'm sorry if some of the pregnancy talk upsets some people. I honestly try not to post much about myself for that reason.

 

[TwoRdue]

Ash sorry that you feel that way, I find that know matter what IVF tread you move to will all have there BFP and they will all be talking about it just like this thread here. I have gone through so much with pregnancy losses and my IVF and it always filled me with hope seen so many woman that have become pregnant and are continuing on with it.. Now its made me feel that I cant say what I wanted about my appointment today and I dont think anyone here that is pregnant or becomes pregnant or trying should not have to feel that way.

 

[ashknowsbest]

If I can't voice my opinion about how I feel then I don't know what to say ... I'm sure there are other people that feel the same way about hearing about pregnancy then I do. There are other threads where you can talk about IVF successes, as well as THIS THREAD. I was just saying how it made me feel and that I was going to go elsewhere. You guys can post whatever you'd like about whatever you're feeling but I should be able to do the same. I'm not here to fight ... I was just feeling like I was getting no support for the last week or so, because I'm only on lupron and I'm not stiming so I have no exciting news about how many eggs, or scans. Sorry. I did not mean to offend anyone, that is just how I've been feeling lately.

 

[Lulu 07]

Hey ladies!! I'm sorry I went missing for a week! I've started moving so have been very busy. I've missed chatting with you guys.

As for this thread, I have found this thread to be the most supportive out of all the threads I've thought of joining. I couldn't even get myself to join a 1st trimester thread because I started all this with you wonderful ladies and wanted to continue my journey with you as well. I've only had my BFP for a few weeks so the whole time before that I was still getting support and prayers from you which made it easier for me to keep going. Also, every BFP made me extremely happy and made me feel closer to my BFP. I especially loved getting advice from the ladies who went through this and got pregnant because they might have done something or taken something that helped their little beans stick. Like you MrsC, I always look at the 1st page and get excited to see that the list of ladies still TTC is growing smaller which makes me really excited. It also makes me pray for those ladies that are still trying and I know that they too will get their BFP. I can't wait until everyone that started off on this thread has their BFP. Thank you all for all the support you have given me and forgive me if I haven't supported each and everyone of you the way that I should but know that is not my intention. I love love love this thread and I hope everyone stays the same way they've always been, sweet, loving, caring, and very supportive.

Two ~ Please don't let anyone discourage you from sharing your wonderful news. We've always been here for each other through the good and bad and I think it's the good that keeps us going with hope that we'll have the same good news one day. please let us know how your scan went and how the little bean or beans are doing!

I'm really sorry for the ladies that didn't have the outcome they hoped for. My prayers are with you and you will have your BFP one way or another. Please stay strong!

I'm sorry not to do personals but I'll try to catch up with everyone if I get a chance soon!

 

[MrsC8776]

Thank you One! Are you leaving as well? I'm sorry if you are and wish you the best of luck.

No, I am sticking around, love you ladies and I need support as well as give all the support I can!

I'm glad you are staying! I love giving you ladies support and can't wait until you get started again. This is going to be your bfp!

Ash sorry that you feel that way, I find that know matter what IVF tread you move to will all have there BFP and they will all be talking about it just like this thread here. I have gone through so much with pregnancy losses and my IVF and it always filled me with hope seen so many woman that have become pregnant and are continuing on with it.. Now its made me feel that I cant say what I wanted about my appointment today and I dont think anyone here that is pregnant or becomes pregnant or trying should not have to feel that way.

Please share how it went! I have been wondering if you are having one or two. I want everyone to still be able to share how appointments went because we are all curious. So is it one or two?!?!

 

[Lulu 07]

MrsC ~ I forgot to say congrats on the 2 princesses!! i'm so excited for you! Girls are the sweetest! Also, thank you for working so hard to keep this thread as wonderful as it is!!

 

[MrsC8776]

MrsC ~ I forgot to say congrats on the 2 princesses!! i'm so excited for you! Girls are the sweetest! Also, thank you for working so hard to keep this thread as wonderful as it is!!

Thank you Lulu! We are so excited. Everyone just pats hubby on the back and says good luck but he is thrilled. Who wouldn't love to have 2 little daddy's girls?

I hope you are doing well and the move isn't difficult. Although moving is never fun.

 

[jchic]

Lulu- you are officially prego with twins is twindom sinking in yet?

Two- i bet there are two am I right?

Bubu- how are you? Hows everything going with the house??

Jenn- how are you feeling?

Bomo- how are you? What are the next steps?

 

[Lulu 07]

Haha.. I think dads enjoy having girls more because they are truly daddy's girls. I have never seen one that isn't.

I'm doing ok but the MS is slowing me down so much. DH is doing most of the work, i'm only doing the little things.. I hate moving!

 

[Lulu 07]

Jess ~ Haha.. The whole preggo thing didn't sink in yet, let alone twins. I think it'll be more real when I see HB's at my scan tomorrow. How are you feeling?