IVF until we all get our bfp! 2012-present *13 w/twins & 1 w/triplets!*

[Jenn76]

So today was the most horrific experience of my life...
I was at work getting ready to leave for lunch with my colleagues... I get up and felt something coming out from down there and rushed to the restroom... And to my horror... it was a gush of blood that had soaked my underwear and pants within the walk from my desk to the bathroom.... Needless to say I panicked... I just picked up my car keys and just started to drive home.. I called my doctor for an emergency ultrasound.. My husband rushed home as well.... We had the ultrasound some time ago and the baby is doing fine but the doctor thinks that the other sac which stopped developing couple weeks back is starting to shed... I still have bleeding but it is nothing like what it was this afternoon...
I am still nervous since for about an hour I had thought it was all over... Thank God the bean is doing ok!! But until this bleeding stops I am going to continue worrying.
I will do personals later.... Just going to put my feet up and rest for a while.

Sorry honey, that must have been horrible to go through. I'm glad everything is fine. Rest and relax let your DH pamper you.

 

[Jenn76]

Jenn - I wasn't here when you were stiming ... when I joined you had just gotten your bfp but okay.

Want - so sorry you had that scare

Actually you were, when I was posting about my stimming you had just found out your insurance wasn't going to approve your IVF without more IUI's. We were supposed to cycle at the same time. If you look back I commented to you on your insurance issues. I honestly didn't care then and I don't now, I'm just saying if you are going to call us out and say we aren't supporting you I think you should look at the support you have provided us.

 

[ashknowsbest]

I just looked back and I didn't join the thread until around August 20ish something and you found out you were pregnant before that right? You're 14 weeks? I'm not going to argue with you, if you look at the past 2 weeks, there wasn't as much support as there was when I first joined. Period. That's my opinion and I'm entitled to feel how I wish.

 

[MrsC8776]

Jenn~ Thank you so much!

ash~ You joined back in June... June 18th to be exact.

 

[Jenn76]

Hi Ladies, TGIF!!!!

Hope all is well with everyone.

MrsC: Congrats on getting your official great beta too! can't wait to hear what you get on Monday.

Haj: I saw that chalkboard on pintrest it is so cute. I checked out her blog she made that herself. Are you going to do that?

Chellesama: How are you feeling? Do you have any children of your own? I see this is your second surrogacy. I think it's great that you are doing this for these guys that can't do this on their own. It must be hard, that's a lot to go through.

Angie: How did your class today go? Not so bad is it.

Blue: How are you feeling?

Welcome Ksluice Good Luck!

Swepakepa: Good Luck tomorrow with your appointment, FX for good news.

Southaspen: Congrats on being PUPO I am still amazed in the testing that you can do. That is so interesting and I am excited for you to get your BFP! Rest up, hope you feel better.

Oneof: on getting started again. I believe this cycle will give you your BFP!! I think your doctor sounds like he knows what he is doing.

Ash: So sorry to hear about your insurance issues. When I was debating my options my RE said I could do 6 IUI's and have the same likelihood of BFP as 1 IVF. So if that's the same for you odds are you will get your BFP this time or next. You should stick with this group it's about TTC not just IVF we will all support you through this too.

Wantababy: Good luck on Tuesday, I just had mine last week. It was very informative. They also gave us a video explaining everything which I watched before doing my first injection.

Michelle: One month will fly by and you'll be PUPO soon after.

Babyonmyown: Good luck on Sunday hopefully you will get to trigger that night.

Tella: Great to hear your results are improving, I hope August brings you great news.

TTCwithPCOS: Good luck on Monday I hope you get a ER date, I can imagine it is uncomfortable having so many follicles that are growing. My nurse indicated that our ovaries can go from the size of walnuts to baseballs through IVF. Crazy

Kelly: I bet the line is lingering because you are pregnant. When is your test with your clinic? I know you said they don't do betas, that's too bad. So do you hope to move back home one day?

AFM: So I did my first injection last night. It was harder then I expected. My protocol is 2 vials of Bravelle and 2 vials of Menopur all mixed together. The first part was easy, drawing up 1ml of solution and mixing it with the first vial of Bravelle. Where I found it to get hard was drawing it up and continuing to mix it with the other three vials. Little bits of liquid kept escaping each time and by the end I had only about 3/4 of what I started with. I found it so stressful because I kept thinking it won't work if I don't capture all of it. Argh! I'm determined to do a better job of it tonight. Any of you not so novice ladies have any tips?

Other then that it didn't hurt at all, weird since it did in my injection class.

I just looked back and I didn't join the thread until around August 20ish something and you found out you were pregnant before that right? You're 14 weeks? I'm not going to argue with you, if you look at the past 2 weeks, there wasn't as much support as there was when I first joined. Period. That's my opinion and I'm entitled to feel how I wish.

Here's the post I mentioned, page 376. I'm not trying to be a bitch here. I really didn't care. In earlier posts we talked about being cycle buddies. Your cycle got derailed and I completely understand that you were distracted.

 

[ashknowsbest]

Yes when my cycle got derailed I didn't come back to the thread until August and at that point your bfp had passed and I'm sure I've congratulated all of women who succeeded in becoming pregnant. Wow this is just getting ridiculous. Drop it. It's over.

Talk about a lot of people ganging up on one person ... very sad.

 

[MrsC8776]

ash you can't get mad at people for expressing their feelings when you were allowed to do it. It's only fair. Yes theres a lot of feeling going around the last couple of days but that should be expected when something hurtful is said.

Edit... it's not people ganging up on you. You said something and everyone else is going to chime in. If someone said something hurtful or bothersome to you, you would reply to it correct?

 

[ashknowsbest]

I'm not mad that people are expressing their opinions. I'm mad that you guys are like picking on specific dates. I wasn't talking about the entire time I was on the thread, I was talking about in the last 2-3 weeks. Lets get it straight because I will not comment about this bullshit anymore.

I said my peace this morning, I said there were no hard feelings and it keeps going and going and going. I'm done with this topic of conversation.

 

[MoBaby]

Want: how scary!! I'm glad baby is fine! Sorry you had a scare!

Ash: I hate you feel the way you do about the support.. Sometimes ppl who are not pg yet do get lost on here but dont take it personal!!! There are over 900 pages of info and usually by the time I post/come to catch up there are like 5++ pages of posts. I usually have difficulty catching up on them all. I sometimes feel like im being left out also but I stay b/c everyone on here is great. I really wish we could stop posting argumentive posts (not just you) b/c it derails this thread and adds a negative vibe not mrsc intention at all!! I think ppl were just pointing out they did support you . Apologies were given. I hope we all can just move along. No one would ever want to do anything hurtful to anyone on this thread. We all want to see everyone get their bfps

Jenn76: the dr has been fine with transferring two all along. But right before last cycle he found my abnormal uterus. I thought at that time he would say let's do one b/c for a person with an unicornuate uterus carrying 2 is equivalent to carrying 3-4. He does think it is risky and I would need a cerclage and other high risk things. So he feels since we were lucky to get frozen this time and never before that going one at a time is best. I totally get where he is coming from. I trust him like no other. I really have to think about it. I'd rather have 1 healthy baby than 2 babies born at 28-30 weeks. Idk.

 

[ashknowsbest]

Mobaby - exactly, we need to stop with the nonsense. I said how I was feeling people posted about it yesterday I posted an apology and a very nice explanation that was supposed to be final but no, people have to pick on specific things. So I'm done talking about it, I'm not being rude, but any other posts about this topic and I will not be responding.

 

[TwoRdue]

Want - I am so so sorry you are going through this and its great that you have you OH to lean on as you will need it, I hope that you are feeling better and its only fair that you are worried.

Jenn - Thank you

Wow this place is full of life at the moment, its like a episode of Corronation Street lol
For time to time a post of mine has been lost in the mist but that dont worry me as I feel there is so much to try and keep up with here and all in all I feel everyone does a great job with the support to others ash sorry to say but I know I have not really said much to you (I dont understand the thing your on) but I have seen a lot of support and convo with you from other ladies here and trying to understand... I feel there support is shared around for all!!! I do hope that you find the support that you are looking for

 

[Jenn76]

Want: how scary!! I'm glad baby is fine! Sorry you had a scare!

Ash: I hate you feel the way you do about the support.. Sometimes ppl who are not pg yet do get lost on here but dont take it personal!!! There are over 900 pages of info and usually by the time I post/come to catch up there are like 5++ pages of posts. I usually have difficulty catching up on them all. I sometimes feel like im being left out also but I stay b/c everyone on here is great. I really wish we could stop posting argumentive posts (not just you) b/c it derails this thread and adds a negative vibe not mrsc intention at all!! I think ppl were just pointing out they did support you . Apologies were given. I hope we all can just move along. No one would ever want to do anything hurtful to anyone on this thread. We all want to see everyone get their bfps

Jenn76: the dr has been fine with transferring two all along. But right before last cycle he found my abnormal uterus. I thought at that time he would say let's do one b/c for a person with an unicornuate uterus carrying 2 is equivalent to carrying 3-4. He does think it is risky and I would need a cerclage and other high risk things. So he feels since we were lucky to get frozen this time and never before that going one at a time is best. I totally get where he is coming from. I trust him like no other. I really have to think about it. I'd rather have 1 healthy baby than 2 babies born at 28-30 weeks. Idk.

Sorry mo I didn't understand his reason, but now it makes sense. Tough decision I wish you the best in getting your BFP.

 

[Swepakepa3]

Michelle: Sorry to hear about your pain from the cyst, my cousin went through that too. Her doctor left it as is and told her it wouldn't interfere with her getting pregnant. I have dermoids ones in my two ovaries, they aren't painful though. I was able to complete IVF with them. I hope they don't delay your cycle.

Prayin: I'm glad you are still fighting, and I pray that you get your BFP soon. Are you doing another cycle?

Swepakepa: 11 is fantastic! Congrats! Are you doing a 3 day or 5 day transfer?

Two: Sorry to hear you weren't feeling well during your scan I know how that feels you want to be excited but you feel like crap. I had a reaaaalllly bad headache at my last one and I could barely focus. This should pass soon. This will be your forever baby!

Angie: I am so glad you are trying again! I was really sad when you said you were done. Everything is crossed for you.

Mobaby: Go for two, if you are ok with twins. My RE really tried to push for one too, but my thought was if I did that and it didn't work I would totally regret it. Not to mention the cost of the failed cycle. FX that AF cooperates. Good luck!

MrsC: You are the glue that holds this thread together, we all appreciate all the work you do here to keep the front page up-to-date.

Ash: When you posted your update yesterday you didn't give people time to respond it was only an hour later that you said you were leaving. Many of us didn't even see your post since we were at work. I would have replied to say that I hope AF arrives soon. You don't post in here everyday like many of us do and when you do you don't comment on all of us. You never commented once to me when I was stimming and got my BFP. I have commented on many of your posts, and you've never thanked me for my comments.

This is a busy thread and nobody should take to heart lack of responses to posts, we've all missed things. It is hard to do personals for everyone. I know that this process is hard and we all go through hormonal changes with this. I read through several posts in here and I don't agree that you haven't been supported. Many of us have commented on your posts. I'm sorry you feel this way I know that nobody in hear meant to make you feel unsupported. This is by far the best form in here, I've been in many others reading and I never see as many personals and support as this one has.

I don't know they said something to my DH about possible transfer on Sunday, but should know more tomorrow

 

[azlissie]

Swepa, congrats on 11 eggs! Fx'd for a great fert report

Mo, I'm really hoping you get your take home baby with this FET. I asked my RE the same thing about maybe there's a problem with my uterus and he said he didn't think that was the problem. It's so frustrating to be "unexplained"!

Angie, that is so exciting that you'll be trying again! I know it's scary to think about how something will be paid for or if it will work, but I think you would regret not trying. My great grandma used to say we don't regret the things we do, we regret the things we didn't do.

Jenn, how are things with your twinkies? Did I see something that you won't find out genders until the end of November? That seems so far away - I hope the times goes by quickly!

Michelle, I don't know much about cysts but I know there are different kinds (dermoid, chocolate, etc) so maybe you have a certain kind that's causing more pain? It sounds horrible - I hope you feel better soon.

Getting, thanks for the baby dust! I need it I hope you're doing well.

Bomo, how did your follow up go?

Stinas, best of luck with your FET! I'm sending strong baby vibes to your frosty.

To everyone else, hope you're doing well!

 

[Lindsay18]

Holy crap there has been a lot going on the past couple days. I have had parent teacher conferences but have read every single post. I chose to stay quiet about the "discussion" because I was afraid what might come out. I'm choosing to keep it that way too because I'm a little offended personally, Ash.
That's all I'll say

ANYWAY- it would be virtually impossible to do personals after all I've read and caught up on but I am here supporting everyone and want to give hugs to all of you!!! Xoxo

 

[wantbabysoon]

Swepa, yay on 11 eggs! good luck for a great fert report! Keep us posted.

Mo, Good luck with your FET.

AFM, I am just trying to take it easy but it's so hard not to worry! Does anyone know regarding losing one twin and how long the bleeding lasts?

 

[TwoRdue]

Want - Sorry I cant help you with that but wanted to give you a

 

[azlissie]

Want, I have no experience with your situation but I just wanted to tell you I'm so sorry you're having to go through this. I can't imagine how upset you must have been. I hope you can take it easy and things will calm down soon.

 

[Jenn76]

Swepakepa: FX for a good report tomorrow, I can't wait to hear.

Azlissie: yeah November 27, long time but oh well. How are you doing?

Want: I'm not sure, but I hope it ends fast for you.

Everyone: Sorry for adding to the drama in here, I'm not going to post anymore about it. It really wasn't my intention.

 

[MrsC8776]

Swepa, yay on 11 eggs! good luck for a great fert report! Keep us posted.

Mo, Good luck with your FET.

AFM, I am just trying to take it easy but it's so hard not to worry! Does anyone know regarding losing one twin and how long the bleeding lasts?

I don't have an answer but I hope it doesn't last long. I think sometimes there is no bleeding then other times there is. I would assume it wouldn't be long because the body would hold on to most of the bleeding. Maybe that is wrong though. When will you be going back to the RE or OB? Sorry again that you have to go through this.