Holy moly, you guys managed some good prices on your weddings! Well done. I had thought I was doing pretty well at about $8000.
We had the ceremony in a national park in the mountains (just showed up, no charge for that!). And the reception was a buffet with no DJ (just used Sirius as background music). Got my dress for $300 and rented tuxes. Had my mom and sis make the wedding cloaks, which saved loads. I think flowers and food were the most expensive by far!
Turned out lovely and perfect for us, though!
I also swore for years that I wasn't getting married -- ever. But finally this guy changed my mind at the age of 32. It is still new, but I love it. He has been sweeter than ever since the big day.
As for HEAPS of movement... Otter has actually slowed WAY down in the last week or so.
I'm trying not to worry.
And I don't know how to tell if I am getting BH -- my bump always seems hard, especially where he lays! Maybe it is one of those things "you know it when you get it."