July 2009 buddies wanted!!

[shelleylu]

Hey ladies,

Sorry have been quiet, I have been on here - just feel like I needed a rest from constantly moaning to you all about things lol.

Only a couple of days left till the scan now, and I am incredibly anxious about it. Well, I am convinced now there will be nothing there as I 'feel' ok. No sickness for a day or so. I actually managed to eat my dinner without gagging last night. The only thing that I have is complete exhustion. I am shatteres all the time. I must have 2 naps per day. I have had a bit of the lurgy come back too, so have mostly been on the sofa all week, just sleeping and feeling sorry for myself lol.

Gem, apart from being tired my headaches have been unreal. They had gone by this mark last time, but they have been terrible this week. Ive been forced to take paracetamol everyday, but even they dont work for them. I was really down last night, and OH even offered to give me a massage - but I felt that crappy I couldnt. We just fell asleep on the settee again instead!!

Oh well, I know my mood will iprove Monday when I know what the hell has happened. I'll be so pleased either way, just so I can gain a bit of control again. I've been a loose cannon this week with emotions everywhere and its not been fair on DS and OH.

I really hope everyone else is doing alright. Welcome Twiglet and Lorien. Ill add you to our front page.

xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[jess_smurf]

mine is estimated 7th july

my first scan is on the 22nd dec so might have a change

 

[NikiJJones]

Welcome to the newbies and congrats!
Shelley: so sorry you are feeling so anxious. It must be hell for you. The symptoms are all a good sign though. I am hoping Monday comes quickly and brings lovely news for you.
I had another sicky night. Not convinced the tablets are actually doing anything to be honest except tasting absolutely FOUL when I vomit!!! (going to try without them today and see if there is any difference). Felt rotten till about midday, but then I had some tomato soup and it was lovely. Just having waves of nausea now. My sickness definitely seems to be falling into a pattern of evening, night and morning sickness now, with a bit of a reprieve in the afternoons.
My MIL arrives this afternoon so we're going to tell her the lovely news. She will be OVER THE MOON as it will be her first grandchild.
DH is still in bed at the moment. He had his work's X'mas do last night, stayed at friend's and then went straight to bed when he got in this morning. I had to get up as the smell of alcohol from him was making me gag!!!! I cannot BARE the smell of any booze at the moment! Hope he gets up soon. The cat litter needs changing!!!!

 

[Antigua08]

What a great thread, can l join in? Have posted before but only just discovered the buddy section.

Well l'm due 25th July so l'm 8 wks today! Counting down til l get to the 12wk stage so l can relax a bit. Finally have my 1st mw appt next wk after a mix up at my docs, seems they forgot to pass my details on to the midwife!

Oh and this might be a silly question but how do you get the dating trackers? Not very good at this, don't seem to be able to upload a pics either!

Thanks x

 

[honey08]

Antigua08
i arent very good at explaining things.....but with ur avatar u prob need to make ur pic smaller,and with the tickers, just click on someone eles' and it will take u to the site they got them from(the pregnancy tickers i mean) then sort ur date out, there will b a link to copy it,then u paste it in ur siggy box....BUT u need to put

....... hope this helps?not very good at explain these things

weclome to other newbie jess_smurf

nikki, sry ur aving the sickness again, uv had it really bad.....defo a girl in there!!and OMG tellin MIL how nice for her!! we cant wait to tell uknow, if we wud of told garys mam already i know she wud b just worryin, with past mc uknow,so its for the best im sure although i feel this LO is guna b fine,im still very anxious

shelly, not long till monday now hun then u will get the reassurence u need hun hope it cums round super fast4u, saturdays nearly over now ! as for the sleeping thro day, im the same, oh gosh after my tea i just after go get in bed for a hr, ur MS might of gone just cos thats ur time for it to go uknow, mine aint even ever started! hope its not guna now tho we'll all b thinking of u hun

ive been fine uknow, but today ive ad a little cramping bk, this went 2wk ago, its not all the time just on and off,i do really wish i cud get scan b4 crimbo,but i cant as the babybond nearest me is a hr away,and also if i went now we cudnt afford to go at 16/17wk, which is the time i really defo wona go, so will just after wait for a couple of more wk. ive first MW app on 18dec, and im hoping to get my 12wk scan booked,im just really wanting to get to the 2nd tri,so can relax more......oohhh who am i trying to kid ! im not guna relax till ive this baby screaming in me arms
were all ready for crimbo, just need a few more things, but not much !! so plsed at that! wot bout every1 eles? av u got all ur pressies bought ?! just the wrapping to do now

take care will post soon xxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Antigua08]

Thanks for that honey08, i'll give it a go!

 

[Antigua08]

Ok so l found the tickers, where do l paste it to??

Sorry l really am rubbish with computers x

 

[Antigua08]

Ooops, sorry just ignore me!! x

 

[wishingonastar]

hey honey when you go for midwife appointment why don't you ask her if she could try and find heartbeat with doppler? might put your mind at ease over crimbo?

 

[SJK]

everone, how are you all ? welcome to all the newbies and congrats xx

Its been quite quiet in here lately, think we are all getting to the same stage,
wondering ...

shelley, hope 2moro flies past for you and then it will be mon, what time is the scan ? Im sure all will be ok, Im praying for you xxx

Ive been really sick today, the worst yet I think, even bringing up tea, still feeling ruff. Im just into work , rather not be here and I had to say Id too many wines last night , god forgive me.
I just cant wait to get home

Are we all watching the x factor, who do you think will win, Im cheering for Alexandra xxx

 

[tabbybartley]

i threw up in a parking lot this morning, the poor people who heard me! (i dont think they saw) hehe

 

[Sarah+]

i threw up in a parking lot this morning, the poor people who heard me! (i dont think they saw) hehe

You poor thing!

Welcome Newbies

Shelley, will be thinking of you tomorrow and really hope all is fine with the LO. I think the exhaustion is a good sign. M/s, and other symptoms do come and go.

My m/s came back worse today, but I still have this nagging pain on my left side (which got worse both times I had the bleeding), so I really want to talk to the dr about this when I go on Friday. Then we fly back to Australia on Sunday for Christmas with the family

Oh, and I've changed my mind about finding out the sex of the baby. I decided it would be a good way to feel more 'connected' to the LO. I think we'll ask the dr to write it down on a piece of paper and seal it in an envelope, then go out to dinner and open it. They can't tell til 16 weeks? Is that right?

 

[honey08]

awww sarah+ thats grt ur finding out the sex !! im guna also as i feel the same, u can call him/her by there name,and i think ,well i feel u wud connect better,this is why were finding out
u can find out at 16wk on private scans hun x im hoping to get one at 17wk, also they do normal health checks aswell, and u get pics etc, if for wot ever reason they cant tell u on that day they will see u again a wk later for free, i feel i just want to know !!

shelly we'll all b thinking of u and LO 2moro, wishing u the best of luck,sure u and baby be ok uknow, must be so scary....well it is and i know it is
dont know if whitelilly is in this july mummys thread but shes also a scan 2moro, thinking of u aswell hun

hope every1 is ok ? im fine, part from me and OH keep aving silly arugments but he NEVER listerns to me....i can sit and talk for 15min and he turns round n says "wot" ,last night we bought something off tv and they phone u bk to confirm payment etc, but he had to go online and do it! so the woman phones us bk and i say "oh hes doing it online now, she says thats fine,put phone down and he says well there aint any left online not my fault is it ! then this morning the phone was ringing at 830am and it was them, he answered it, i got up, when he put phone down he says see we wudnt of had that if it werent for me !HELLO !! i said so how dy think she had r number to phone us bk, he then said so have we ordered 2 ! oh great ! u cuda bloody said....blah,blah,blah.........(no i never ordered one, thats why she was phoning bk) then he went bk to bed, going down passage saying "wot a bitch uv turned in2....blah,blah,blah "
we had an arugment few wk ago aswell, i sometimes think OMG am i guna end up a single mother? cos it was both of us that wanted this baby the same,weve both tried for mths and mths.......and all of a sudden i feel un sercure in my relationship
anyways rant over......... take care and good luck to shelly and whutelilly with there scans 2moro

 

[honey08]

wishingonastar
i cud do, but then ive read in some posts they wont even try till ur 16wk cos of un nessary stress incase of not finding the HB,,,,,but yeh think i will defo ask uknow......thanks xxxxx

SJK.... so glad alex won ! i did want her to win, but then with there been 4lads....therefore 4sets of there familys/friends/mates etc i thought they wud win it ! !

but yeh SO plsed alex did

 

[Sarah+]

Honey, sorry to hear your OH is being a little boy. Doesn't he know the rule? Pregnant women are always right! (And not to be messed with!)

 

[NikiJJones]

Honey: I posted in your journal. Hope you and OH manage to sort it out. It is all hormones, and men need to be more tolerant towards us right now.

Shelley: thinking of you tomorrow.

Tabby and Sarah: sorry to hear you are both so I actually had about 24 hours of no vomit yesterday. Brought up my stomach lining again this morning, but yesterday afternoon, dare I say it, I actually felt human for a few hours. I have discovered that tomato soup is the ultimate MS cure. I just want it ALL the time now!!! (and it's not too nasty if it comes back up either!!!!)

My MIL is here this weekend, so we told her yesterday. She is delighted!!!

 

[shelleylu]

Hi girls,

How is everyone? Had a good weekend?? Ive been a busy bee this weekend. Havent done a lot the last week or so, so Ive been busy making up for it.

SJK ,Niki, Tabby and Sarah - so sorry you've been feeling crappy. My m/s has gone all weird. It went from evening sickness (when Im meant to eat) to after dinner sickness and general feeling like crap all day - bit like my last pregnancy. Not sure whether its been the lurgy, or the pregnancy, but Ive had a right dodgy couple of days!!

Welcome to our thread Antigua and Jess smurf. Feel free to post away - we're all freindly here and will listen to your moans and groans lol..

Well tomorrow is the big day. It has dragged by like you wouldnt believe. I have the outcome around 50/50 in my head now. I seriously have no idea what they are going to say to me, and Im very very scared.

Luckily my appointment is at 9:10am, so I dont have to wait all day to find out. I'll let you all know as soon as I get home (whenever that may be).

SJK I thin you're right about the way this thread has been going. Everyone is really worried and seems to be in a simialar boat. I am so pleased I've had you girls to chat to. You've all been so supportive, and whatever happens Im really happy about that. OH doesnt quite understand the bond I dont think - and honey - dont worry about your OH. They are simple creatures who are always right (in their heads) - well thats just fine as long as we know the truth!!

Well girls, Im off to bath and relax. Catch you all tomorrow hopefully xxxx

 

[Jellybean2009]

I am due on the 9th July

Still waiting for dating scan

 

[Peanut78]

Hi Ladies, I have been posting in the 1st tri section, but also just found this thread now. I am due 22nd Juky 2009 (hopefully!!!!!!).

xx

 

[honey08]

Peanut78
just been looking to see if u av preggo journel, but cant find one maybe start 1 if uv time welcome to july mummys

well just poppin in2say were thinking of u shelly....and sure some1eles was having there scan? oh yeh whitelilly but not sure if she posts in this thread.....were all thinking bout u both, shelly u need some goodnews,uv had it hard for few wk now

im feelin much better 2day uknow, still feeling un sure bout this relationship tho,its as though its ok when it suits him uknow, i know hormones will play prob a big part but then he shud be more understanding !

hope everyone eles ok ? cuming very close to chrimbo ladies ! wot we all getting ?