~ * ~ July Beach Bumps ~ * ~

[RedRose19]

mine are very sore.. esp with the close weather..

 

[RedRose19]

I'm really REALLY upset this evening. A good friend of mine has been TTCing for a similar time to me (3 months). I told her i was pregnant the day I found out as I was in shock. She said to me "I'm happy for you but I'm kicking off it's not me, I just wish it was me not you". Then today, we were talking on msn and she got a bfn and I was trying to console her and I said how awful TTCing is and she just turned to me and went really nastily "so says the pregnant woman". I couldn't believe it. A mutual friend of ours was shocked too. I didn't say anything as I was soooo upset.

It's not that I don't get where she is coming from. We all know how horrendous it is and how horrible it is to get bfns all the time. But I know for a fact if I hadn't gotten my bfp and she had I would be estatic for her like I have been for my ttc buddies on here when they got their bfps. I'm not upset that she's jealous and hurting, I'm just upset in the way she said it and how the majority of it is 'why isn't it me'? Instead of 'congrats you lucky moo lol'.

Am I overreacting? It's hard, I'm feeling very vulnerable since getting my bfp and this hasn't helped.

it def sounds like shes hurting.. but thats no need to be mean to you.. i mean wishing it was rather than you is a mean thing to say tbh...

i mean we all understand how it hurts to see other ppl get bfp's before you etc.. but your still happy for them and esp since shes meant to be a friend of yours.. try not to stress over it hun because you've got a precious bean to keep safe hopefully she will get over it and say sorry and realise how mean she was.. id say just give her some space maybe

 

[Starry Night]

Hey ladies! I think I'll be joining you. Got my bfp last week. I think I'm due July 8th but it's hard to say because of my highly irregular periods--especially since my miscarriage in the spring.

I have a scan next week so that will confirm where I belong. My LMP says I actually belong in May but hpts are generally accurate so I'm thinking I truly belong here.

 

[MrsWez]

Well said babyhopes, My best friend got pregnant right after my last miscarriage. I was so hurt and devastated, but I would never hurt her feelings. Her baby and ability to get pregnant has nothing to do with my hard time. She is probably hurt, I'd give her some time and space.

 

[butterfly25]

Hey girls! I am glad to hear that I'm not the only one having acne problems. It's rather weird for me too. I usually don't have these issues. I hope it passes soon. Sorry if it's tmi but us anyone having watery cm. I thought that should go away.
Oh and I have also been very short tempered. Man almost sounds just like pms. By I know it's not.

 

[MommyWishes4]

Hey girls! I am glad to hear that I'm not the only one having acne problems. It's rather weird for me too. I usually don't have these issues. I hope it passes soon. Sorry if it's tmi but us anyone having watery cm. I thought that should go away.
Oh and I have also been very short tempered. Man almost sounds just like pms. By I know it's not.

Mine seems to be changing. I was all blotchy over the last two weeks or so. Now today I noticed it was clearing up...hopefully it'll stay like that!!

 

[Jenni4]

Hmmm.... Hi Ladies!! After reading all of your symptoms I'm beginning to think i'm not even preggers!! Lol!! my tummy is just a bit bigger but that's it. I am a little bitchy but that's normal for me!! My boobs feel totally normal and my appetite is the same...no sickness. just a little more tired than normal i guess. I didn't really have any symptoms with my first one, but since I had a great appetite I gained 65 pounds!! I am trying to be much better this time, but some nausea would definitely help me out!!

 

[caity88]

Hello Ladies!
I got my BFP on October 30, so I'm guessing my due date will be July 3rd. Slight nausea, tired, oh so tired.

I have a 20 month old son, Wyatt Dalton, who keeps me busy as well. Loving being pregnant again. Yay! So excited!

 

[celine]

mine are very sore.. esp with the close weather..

wow ive seen many of your posts and i clicked this thread to add me and saw this post and Im so so happy for you

i got my bfp today, well been getting some lines since sunday but refused to beleive til now
Havent told dh yet will tell him Sunday as he goes for a church camp over the weekend and I wans this mind to be clear.

 

[Genie Doo]

Hi All,

just came back from doc and the ultrasound detected our little beany in the right place! ("Grav.s.5" - sooo beautiful!)
I will have to wait for the blood test results till Friday.

I'm a bit less bitchy today and my sole other symptom is the sore BBS so I guess I'm lucky. Wonderig if I'll feel anything else though - I haven't had any other symptoms with my daugther either.

My boobs are really getting in the way though. I tried to play tennis yesterday as each week but I simply couldn't really move my hand around my BBS!

 

[CatMum]

Ooh, I think I'm all alone on my date - July 10th. 5 weeks pregnant today. Not really feeling any strong symptoms - a bit of an achy abdomen/low back, trouble sleeping, stronger sense of smell and a bit achy bbs and shoulders. No sickness yet, although I think that's coming as my mouth and throat feel odd, dry and slightly sicky.

Really excited though, it's our first! I'm seeing the midwife on Tuesday, but probably won't have a scan until December (I think 12 weeks is Christmas week, what a great present).

 

[foxforce]

Morning all and hi and congrats to all the newcomers :wave:

Feeling bit better this morning little less nauseous. Had a bit of a nightmare last night..... I tried on a dress I 'was' going to wear to a wedding this Saturday, good job as because my bbs have swelled up it won't fasten up at the side!!!
So I have to go get another today tut! Gutted as this dress is gorgeous and was looking forward to wearing it Trafford centre after my dh finishes work!!

Excellent news on the scan Genie you must be happy!

How's everyone else this morning?

 

[CatMum]

Mine seems to be changing. I was all blotchy over the last two weeks or so. Now today I noticed it was clearing up...hopefully it'll stay like that!!

Same here. I have had acne since I was 13 (not bad, but always 1/2 blemishes minimum). For the first time probably in 14 years, I have no spots! I should name the babt Derm, short for Dermatologist, as it's the best cure I've ever tried! LOL

 

[CatMum]

So I have to go get another today tut! Gutted as this dress is gorgeous and was looking forward to wearing it Trafford centre after my dh finishes work!!

Shopping for new clothes, one of the better side effects

 

[Tinkerbellxxx]

Morning ladies! Well my BBS hurt like crazy today, thought I had escaped it! lol Ah well. Anyone having dreams? I dreamed I was covered in acne, must have been reading these posts lol I used to suffer really bad, but mine are cleared up now, really hoping they dont return during pregnancy! Hope everybody is well and healthy. I peed on another test this morning just to check the HCG is rising. Silly really, just as waste of money to see more lines lol x

 

[foxforce]

So I have to go get another today tut! Gutted as this dress is gorgeous and was looking forward to wearing it Trafford centre after my dh finishes work!!

Shopping for new clothes, one of the better side effects

Yes I know it's nice to get new clothes but I really can't be bothered going to try the dresses on... also the dress I had was expensive so wanted to get at least another wear out of it

I was the same Tinkerbell but got so much better after been told off by epu nurse as she told me it's doing myself no good other than stressing me out, so I stopped then did one more cb digi last saturday got a 3+ so that's it now ......hopefully!

 

[CatMum]

Yes I know it's nice to get new clothes but I really can't be bothered going to try the dresses on... also the dress I had was expensive so wanted to get at least another wear out of it

Oh, that's no good. I think I might be feeling the same soon about underwear - I replaced nearly all my old, grey stuff with nice, properly measured matching sets about 2 months ago; judging by the rate I'm growing, I might only have a couple of weeks left in them! A pricey trip to the Traf for me too soon I think.

 

[Sofiekirsten]

Urrrggh I feel really sick this morning

Worked out I will either be 6+1 or 6+4 when I have my next scan so I am hoping to be one of the lucky few who can see the HB.

Much Love

x

 

[Razcox]

Hey everyone how are we all doing today? Welcome to all the new ladies and i hope i have added you to the correct date x

Foxforce - Sorry about the dress! i have an xmas party on the 4th and god knows what i am going to wear thanks to the bloat and the boobs.

Feeling a bit queasy again today but the boobs are not as sore which is a nice break, have a bit of heart burn but my chewy renne will sort that out.

ETA - Spoke to soon the baps are throbing again!!

 

[Worriedk]

Hi all
I went to the doctors yesterday. She dated me for being due 7th July. Thought it was sooner cos I got bfp 11 days ago. I got my 3+ on digital on Saturday. So confused.
I'm getting slightly sore bbs at night time only- the feel bruised but by morning they r ok again. Is this normal or should they be sore all the time?
Just so stresses cos of last mc.
Hope everyone is well. X