also, question for everyone:
we JUST saw my parents, grandparents and my husband's mom in the states, so we won't be seeing them any time soon - how are people planning to break the news? and when?
oh my gosh...my dad MAY have just set us up perfectly for announcing!!
on vacation last week there was "light" conversation
about when my mom would get to be a grandma (and grandma desperately wants great grandkids) and my husband and i didn't know we were pregnant yet, so we joked, "better tell (older brother) and (SIL) to get on it!" and "hey, we're doing the best we can...
" and other comments like that. WHICH, if we want to wait to tell them, makes it easy to continue down that road, and also younger brother is getting married next september, so i hinted a few weeks ago that i wasn't going to get pregnant at the risk of missing the wedding because i couldn't fly. so i could easily say we are waiting to try again in the spring. basically, i have several lies...ahem, ways...to keep from telling my family until i'm further along...BUT my dad just sent a text message to me and my SIL.
the text says,
"Happy Halloween!
And, no pressure!"
with two photos attached. the first is him as Jack Sparrow and his office assistant as a similar pirate (not up on my movies obviously
) and then 2nd is a picture of him, still as Jack Sparrow, holding a little baby.
so now i'm thinking maybe i should take a digital today, take a photo, and send it back saying,
"Happy (early) Birthday!
And, no worries!"
my due date is my dad's birthday
the downside to this whole thing is that my mom is a total blabber mouth, so it means the whole town (i'm originally from small town Ohio) will know within days...
thoughts?