K4th how awful, hope it stops now. Are you having a scan?
Medzi sounds like quite a struggle, you put in some serious work! I didn't even realise you could feed at all after any breast surgery! The human body is amazing. Good luck for this time, hopefully everything has reconnected up now it's been a while
We also had a tongue tie, with ds1. Went right to the end of his tongue and not one person noticed it. I did, as it made his tongue a funny shape and he couldn't poke it out at all. After much moaning, and lots of phone calls, I managed to get the 'secret referral' to a local midwife qualified to snip them here. She literally just wrapped him in a towel, waited for him to open his mouth and snipped it with scissors!
They keep it very hush hush as the nearest other person is 150 miles away and they don't want to be inundated
The difference was almsot immediate and he fed until an extended nursing strike just before he turned a year old. It's still completely untied now, he can point his tongue properly and its lost its forked shape now he's older.
Ds2 had an upper lip tie, but being my second it didn't cause too much of an issue and stretched before long. His tongue wasn't tied at a all, makes such a differnece. The lip tie hasn't affected his front teeth, so wont need anything doing now.
Wonder what this one will have? I'll be having him checked throughly before leaving our local hospital this time, as that's where the tongue tie lady is based!