June Bundles of Joy - 2016

[Starlight32]

Love the name Noelle!

Exciting Dory...Let us know!

I've been breaking out on my chest and back since about 6 weeks pregnant.

I started feeling movement. I love it. I feel it very sporadically and start to worry if I don't feel anything for a while even though I know it's early.

 

[gaiagirl]

Boo, exciting about being our first blue bump I hope the kidney is much less worrying this time, and that his other is fully functioning. My friend just donated one of hers to her niece, clearly one is sufficient!

I'm leaning towards finding out the sex now...I just don't think I can wait!

Thinking of having midwife put results in an envelope so hubby and I can open together and celebrate

Shopping for gender neutral is annoying lol! I bought some clearance christmas and holiday stuff but I can't find much that's neutral...I won't lie it's a factor

 

[Becyboo__x]

I'm being sick again most mornings .. could it be to do with stress? As I dont feel it's the same as morning sickness I had..

I slept on the sofa last night which ended up an argument with OH .. obviously I had the worst sleep ever but we are going through a rough patch atm and It is that bad I don't even want to go to bed with him unfortunately. I have to be up everyday at 7 with my son so I've literally got only a few hours sleep today

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

I'm being sick again most mornings .. could it be to do with stress? As I dont feel it's the same as morning sickness I had..

I slept on the sofa last night which ended up an argument with OH .. obviously I had the worst sleep ever but we are going through a rough patch atm and It is that bad I don't even want to go to bed with him unfortunately. I have to be up everyday at 7 with my son so I've literally got only a few hours sleep today

:Hugs: yeah it might be the lack of sleep/stress. You need to find some chill time =) I hope you and your partner can work through this soon. If not maybe boot him off to the couch.

 

[Becyboo__x]

I'm being sick again most mornings .. could it be to do with stress? As I dont feel it's the same as morning sickness I had..

I slept on the sofa last night which ended up an argument with OH .. obviously I had the worst sleep ever but we are going through a rough patch atm and It is that bad I don't even want to go to bed with him unfortunately. I have to be up everyday at 7 with my son so I've literally got only a few hours sleep today

:Hugs: yeah it might be the lack of sleep/stress. You need to find some chill time =) I hope you and your partner can work through this soon. If not maybe boot him off to the couch.

I wish things were different but I found out a lot of things why him and his ex split up he had a child with her.. but the reason they split has turned out to be the exact reason I'm feeling unhappy .. so he's not going to change we was fine but it's turned to a point I feel nothing anymore regardless being pregnant it would be the same if I wasn't .. too much is happening I just want to leave but I can't .. he said he'd sleep down here but it's pointless when I have to get up with my son for school he wouldn't do it.. so better I'm down here even being pregnant

 

[Starlight32]

Becy, I hope things take a turn for the better with you and your partner.

I felt good bit of movement earlier this week but not as much yesterday. I read inline this is normal early on, but it's making me nuts because I want to feel baby! Anyone else get a bit ansy on a low activity day with baby??

 

[Tinky_82]

I'm being sick again most mornings .. could it be to do with stress? As I dont feel it's the same as morning sickness I had..

I slept on the sofa last night which ended up an argument with OH .. obviously I had the worst sleep ever but we are going through a rough patch atm and It is that bad I don't even want to go to bed with him unfortunately. I have to be up everyday at 7 with my son so I've literally got only a few hours sleep today

Sorry you're going through a rough patch.
It's very likely being tired causing the sickness - I am very noticeably more nauseous when tired. Try to get more rest and relaxation time.

 

[vaniilla]

I'm being sick again most mornings .. could it be to do with stress? As I dont feel it's the same as morning sickness I had..

I slept on the sofa last night which ended up an argument with OH .. obviously I had the worst sleep ever but we are going through a rough patch atm and It is that bad I don't even want to go to bed with him unfortunately. I have to be up everyday at 7 with my son so I've literally got only a few hours sleep today

:Hugs: yeah it might be the lack of sleep/stress. You need to find some chill time =) I hope you and your partner can work through this soon. If not maybe boot him off to the couch.

I wish things were different but I found out a lot of things why him and his ex split up he had a child with her.. but the reason they split has turned out to be the exact reason I'm feeling unhappy .. so he's not going to change we was fine but it's turned to a point I feel nothing anymore regardless being pregnant it would be the same if I wasn't .. too much is happening I just want to leave but I can't .. he said he'd sleep down here but it's pointless when I have to get up with my son for school he wouldn't do it.. so better I'm down here even being pregnant

I'm so sorry to hear you're going through a rough patch, you need to prioritize your health at this point - is it an option for him to stay somewhere else a few days so that you get a bit of space and time to think? you need your sleep and peace, it sounds like the new information has been a bit of a bombshell so you have the right to be alone if you need to be. After a while I would really recommend couple counselling, it makes it much easier when it's someone else objectively helping you work things out. Don't forget to seek our support from family and friends if you want it, there is no reason you need to be alone through the hard times.

 

[MiraclesHappn]

So sorry to hear about the stress you're under right now Becy. I hope you can find a way to be happy and get back to feeling well again, whatever that may take.

As for the spotty skin, totally a factor for me this time. I normally have very clear skin but it has not been clear a day since being pregnant this time. My skin is also very sensitive too, drives me crazy. So many things are almost exactly the same as my first pregnancy but so many are totally new!

 

[tinkerbelle93]

Sorry about what you're going through Beccy I really hope things take a turn fo r the better, Vanilla has given some really good advice xxx

 

[mommyxofxone]

We have had a set boy and girl name since before I fell pregnant. Obviously we had the boy name from last time. Girl name was a little bit of a challenge but I finally landed on one when we were still trying so it's nice not having to worry about choosing!

we are the same! we had the name for dd picked out in june and conceived her in november lol. this time, we took the middle name from the boys name and made it the first, and chose a new middle name, then we had to come up with a girls name, and that was actually really easy. we did that the first week we found out i was pregnant. i had to change the boys first name cause i met too many little boys with the same name that were royal terrors

I'm being sick again most mornings .. could it be to do with stress? As I dont feel it's the same as morning sickness I had..

I slept on the sofa last night which ended up an argument with OH .. obviously I had the worst sleep ever but we are going through a rough patch atm and It is that bad I don't even want to go to bed with him unfortunately. I have to be up everyday at 7 with my son so I've literally got only a few hours sleep today

:Hugs: yeah it might be the lack of sleep/stress. You need to find some chill time =) I hope you and your partner can work through this soon. If not maybe boot him off to the couch.

I wish things were different but I found out a lot of things why him and his ex split up he had a child with her.. but the reason they split has turned out to be the exact reason I'm feeling unhappy .. so he's not going to change we was fine but it's turned to a point I feel nothing anymore regardless being pregnant it would be the same if I wasn't .. too much is happening I just want to leave but I can't .. he said he'd sleep down here but it's pointless when I have to get up with my son for school he wouldn't do it.. so better I'm down here even being pregnant

UGH my dh would be like that about the couch as well. he can only sleep in the bed, and he will not be budged. i'm so sorry about things that are going on with your oh hun, do you think it's a real valid reason, and do you think that maybe you wish you could leave due to hormones at all? i'm just asking cause i tend to get irrational over nothing sometimes and it's all hormones. Not saying he isn't giving you issues but i'm just hoping that maybe it's not as bad as it feels. either way, i'm sorry you're going through this and i hope that it works out for you. try to just take it one day at a time and get some rest!

Becy, I hope things take a turn for the better with you and your partner.

I felt good bit of movement earlier this week but not as much yesterday. I read inline this is normal early on, but it's making me nuts because I want to feel baby! Anyone else get a bit ansy on a low activity day with baby??

just like i was saying the other day, freaks me out when i can't feel anything! i did get some tapping last night before i slept, and then i don't know if i dreamed it or if i really felt even more movement lol!

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

I'm still not having any movement. I have started the mammoth task of tracking down a double buggy. My almost two year old already weighs 30lb and apparently 33lb is the limit within the eu for basically every pram... But u can look at the exact same pram on the American version of the website and it gives you a weight limit of double per seat! So I'm going to have to just a bit of common sense. As it seems all prams sold here are tested to 33lbs(15kg) and as such the sales advisors keep telling me he is too big. As if my two year old is too big to use a buggy. He's a chunk but he's not "fat" I hate using that word when talking about children but yeah he's in like the 95th percentile.

 

[Dory85]

Looks like a girl for us! The sonographer said it was a textbook shot so little doubt really!

I tried to attach photos but they're too big and really don't know a simple way of making them smaller on here.

 

[SecondNote]

Aww, yay for a girl!

 

[Rhi_Rhi1]

er stop pinching all the girls you lot ! haha.

Congrats I have ten days to go still.... omg time is moving so slowly haha

 

[Becyboo__x]

I dont know vanilla

Everyone is telling me it might be hormones but I did feel that at first but it's led to me not having any feelings towards him he just doesn't understand that 1 day doing things to help isn't going to solve everything I can't bare to look at him anymore that's all we argued earlier .. I walked in the down pour of rain to the vets carrying the puppy he was still in bed .. but he was asking why I'm not saying anything and tbh I barely said anything because there's nothing left to say.. and he just ended up walking out front room slamming the door and I don't know if he's gone out or upstairs I just heard slamming of doors and tbh dont fancy checking up there. I messaged him to explaining everything and whenever he comes from where he's gone its likly going to be a horrible conversation I imagine ..

 

[tinkerbelle93]

Omg another girl?! Congrats Dory!! x

 

[Teeny Weeny]

Congrats on the pink bundle Dory. Xx
Rhi, I still use my baby jogger city select with my 3 1/2 yr old. It can be a double or single. I loved it and still do. It may be worth a look?

However, it will be going so I can have a brand new buggy! Lol xx

 

[GeralynB]

Congrats on a girl! Can't believe there are so many pink bumps!

 

[gaiagirl]

Congrats on pink again!

Becy I'm so sorry to hear this, that sounds so stressful and I'm sure it's contributing to feeling sick.

I really recommend counseling because sometimes you just get stuck in a rut of the same conversation and patterns and having a third party to facilitate just makes ALL the difference. Hugs.