Im so sorry, sometimes its better to say nothing at all, just seems some people dont seem to remember that. It doesnt matter at what stage/egg/baby was etc. it just matters how that person feels about it, so if your upset and he doesnt seem to be, then he needs to just be there for you in whatever way he can........... maybe you need to say to him, lets not have a discussion over if you think I should handle it differently, this is how I feel, and you can either say something supportive or nothing at all.
I remember spotting before the mc and started to randomly cry, and oh said 'what are you crying for now?' ........... so I just said 'because I know what is coming' and afterwards I did break into tears a few times in front of him and he just said nothing ..... but that was ok as it was better than him saying something that would upset me further.
Take care xx