...katie...????????????????????

[Emerald87]

LAURA I SEE YOU. Talk to me...

 

[ashiozz]

LOL Emerald, Did you ground him? I hope so.

I have now gotten all of our medical bills between tyler and I we owe about 2500 bucks to everyone >< guh. childbirth is so damn spensive and we have NO plan for how this is going to get paid at the moment =/

 

[Emerald87]

Stop. Breathe. It's going to work out. Now I assume they give you time to organise payment? Do they give you payment plans?

 

[ashiozz]

no, they all just say pay immediately -.-


My doctor is the fist I will pay cuz uh i have to go see her again 2 more times.

But the hospital is the high bills -.- Theyre 1600 of the 2500 we owe.. The rest is spread out between a million other individuals involved in my c-section >< guh

Im relaxed, his grandparents offered to help -- I just dont like asking for money.

 

[Emerald87]

The gardener was at your c-section too? I know they charge a lot

Stupid bum heads thinking money can be pulled out of people's arses instantly. I know what you mean about the asking for money. Sadly sometimes there's no other options. I think Colin is going to leave work for me to go back to uni so we're going to be mooching for a while Mostly from the inlaws

 

[Emerald87]

WTF another fire alarm? It's gotta be the same people. We had some crazy asians cooking on our floor last week who set off the alarm within their apartment. Lucky they got the smoke cleared before it set of the central building alarm.

If this changes from warning to evacuation alarm I'm going to get so f-ing pissed off. I don't want to move off my lounge. I'm still in PJs (it's 1pm)

 

[Emerald87]

Well... there's the evacuation alarm... *sigh*

 

[ashiozz]

Evacuating in pajamas? sucky. Not cool. If its the same guy, give him a piece of your mind!

 

[Emerald87]

Of course it was a false alarm. But it got me motivated to shower.

I can't sit at home for 18 weeks; I will not look after myself. I barely get showered and dressed on weekends. If Colin is working I don't get up to feed or water myself.

 

[ashiozz]

^ I Do this too. well I exercise, and I try to clean when tyler allows, but yeah i end up in my pajamas all day

I shower when mitch comes home (Mostly so he can watch tyler while i do so.)

 

[..katie..]

.... I need to breath, If I go back to work this is going to get even worse 0.o ..

Maybe not. It might not be the same for you, but while I was at tyson's, after work during the night, even though I knew I had to be up early (or had just gone to sleep, depending on day/swing) I actually really enjoyed waking up and feeding him, and i got jealous when I was there and tyson changed his diaper. Know what I mean?

 

[..katie..]

i want to live vicariously through you because i kind of miss being pregnant recently.

So I'll live vicariously thru Em too. Cause I don't think it's happening again for me!

Hrm....... but I don't have enough drama left in my pregnancy to keep it interesting hehe. I do, however, have more squee. Please stand by.

i'm sure someone has already said it, but it will come. even if it's not medical drama, it'll be dramatic. tying your shoes will become an olympic event...and I want to hear about it.



confession: i'm fucking baby hungry. Maybe its because I want patrick to stay at this age forevvvvvvvvver and I know he won't so I'm craving more babies?

glad I have birth control inside me that I can't take out lol.

 

[..katie..]

But the issue is i never went to school for either, and going to school costs money I dont have either =/

hey, quick, get a divorce. don't leave the hubs, but just divorce him. Awesome scholarships if you're single and a mommy. Awesome scholarships just for moms too, married or not, though.

look into it.

 

[..katie..]

as requested, more pics of kaida

long legs and buff arms hehe

omfg how can she already be so pretty????

 

[..katie..]

Nope, I'm 5 foot 7 and Colin is 6 foot 1, so not exceptionally tall

you're a foot and an inch taller than me...

 

[..katie..]

Hoping Kaida takes after her aunties. They're 17 and over 6 foot 2.

Okay, ignorantAmerican question...
are Austrailian folk taller than everyone else?? because seriously, 5'7 for a female would be what I would consider 'tall'...my father is only two inches taller than you. Or am I just stuck in BFE where we're all hobbit-esque?

 

[ashiozz]

you're 4'6? I thought you were 5'0?

hmm, Ive thought about divorcing and not leaving mitch for tax reasons too lmao, but I couldn't do it. Id feel too bad divorcing for my own personal gain. it feels wrong..

But odd, cuz we'd still have the same last name, im sure he'd still call me his wife 0.o

 

[..katie..]

GUH how do single moms do this stuff?

Grandparents, sisters, and good friends...

Dude, I have no idea though, in the real world. I have so much support from everyone ever, and I'm still struggling. There are women out there who are by themselves (with their baby) and working two jobs and doing school and shit, BY THEMSELVES. I dont know how the fuck that would work. They must have superpowers beyond supermom or something....

 

[ashiozz]

Nah, Katie, I consider 5'7 tall for a woman, from what Ive researched 5'4 is now average for women, whereas 5'6 used to be 0.o so maybe we're getting shorter in the us? IM AVERAGE BUT BARELY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[..katie..]

I cant believe they're doing an unpaid internship these days for you >< they dont seem to do those here..

Law firms and hospitals...internship is unpaid. I think it must be some universal rule that "hey, you just spent more money than most people make in their life time to get to this point...now you're going to work yourself to death, and we're not going to pay you!"