yay for predictable sleep patterns! des has one too...out from 11 ish (give or take a half hour) to 2ish, up for an hour, then down for 2 more. after that it's unpredictable; he may nap after a quick feed, or he's up for a few hours before napping again.
ok, MIL rant. because i'm seriously irritated!
so i know i've complained about little stuff before (like poking a hole in my bottle nipple)...but now i'm pretty irked.
she was supposed to take turns with my mom to watch Des while i worked. she agreed, then she got a job. fine, whatever, no biggie, it's part time so she could still help.
then she says "oh, btw, i'm going back to florida for the first couple weeks in June", which, of course, is when i'm starting work again. whatever, mom can handle a couple weeks.
so with mom having to help nina move, i knew this may cause some schedule conflicts with my job if i have to watch Des while MIL is in FL. so i asked her when she's going/coming back so i can let my job know. she writes back "this saturday until June 28th"
O_O
THAT IS NOT THE FIRST COUPLE WEEKS! THAT'S THE WHOLE DAMN MONTH!
what. the. fuck. so i express my obvious irritation to hubs and tell him he has GOT to figure out what's going on with her. at this point i'm really worried she's not even going to be able to help out as much as she originally said, which fucks everyone over.
worse case scenario i'm going to have to look into home care which scares the living daylights out of me.
AND. she's always late for every single thing she plans. today she is supposed to take care of Des for a little while I nap. she said she'd be here around 11-12. it's now almost 12:30. Des is currently napping...i'm worried she's not going to be able to stay long enough for me to sleep; i would have just napped the same time he was if i had known
honestly, i really like her as a person, but i can't help but feel a little annoyed with everything lately.