Queenie121
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Hi everyone. I thought it would be good for me to start posting in a community. My husband and I have been married for 3 years. I know this is the perfect time to try and I'm so grateful that we have had this time together - but - for over a year we have been talking about TTC and, although we've had a couple of close calls, for the most part we (I) have been chickening out each month! I keep feeling like I want to hold off just a little bit longer. I'm 28 and always wanted kids in my late 20s. I am not sure if I will ever feel ready. Does anyone else feel this way? Is it just a case of plunging in? I keep thinking, I do want a baby, but I know how much work it is, and I like my life and my independence the way it is! Sometimes it just feels like starting a family is like opening up a huge can of worms... Horrible to say but that is the feeling I sometimes get. Help?