Keep worrying

[Dannib247]

I'm really struggling to enjoy this pregnancy and just wish I could snap out of it! It although I'm just waiting for something bad to happen does anyone else feel like this or am I just going crazy?
I think I feel like this because all 3 of our previous losses we both though this is it we are going to be parents and then it was over does that make sence?
Thanks in advance x

 

[nabo86]

Hi

I just wanted to let you know I think its normal to feel the way you do - I still feel like something is going to go wrong even at my stage..

You must be about 3 months..? Have you had a scan yet?

I was so paranoid I had 3 scans before my proper 12 weeks scan! I bought a doppler which I could use after 15 weeks so any time I feel worried I can have a listen and check she is OK. I use it less now though as she wriggles away to let me know she is fine so i guess i am panicking less!

hope everything goes ok

 

[Dannib247]

That's the thing we've had scans every 2 weeks since 5weeks and everything is perfect and will continue to do so until 20 weeks as under specialist in recurrent miscarriage. I just don't know what's wrong with me!!? Thanks so much for replying x

 

[nabo86]

after each scan i had, the first week i'd be fine and then the next week leading up to the next scan i drove myself mad thinking something was wrong...!

The 10 weeks scan was a good one as my mmc had happened at 9 weeks so i knew i was past that stage. Then after the 20 week scan everything was ok so i relaxed a little bit...

Hope you get to enjoy things more soon