Moomette
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Sorry, a bit of a rant, but this is what I've just been told Basically, DH's brother is getting married at the start of November and they emailed everyone a save-the-date back about a month ago with links to book accomodation as it's about 3.5h drive away, and luckily we hadn't booked anything yet as we've just heard yesterday second hand and confirmed today that they are not inviting any kids They'd even promised one of the nieces that she could be a flower girl previously when she asked.
Obviously it is their wedding and they can do what they like, but they've got a baby themselves, who will be 11 months then, and all of DH's other siblings have kids too, about half of them under 3, so going away for 2-3 nights isn't that easy, and for us means that I won't be going at all (I've only ever left LO for about 5h max, and that was with DH) and DH is yet undecided. I'm just glad we didn't book anything yet as were looking for us as well as DH's other brother, his wife and two toddlers, who are still in the dark about their LOs not being invited.
Obviously it is their wedding and they can do what they like, but they've got a baby themselves, who will be 11 months then, and all of DH's other siblings have kids too, about half of them under 3, so going away for 2-3 nights isn't that easy, and for us means that I won't be going at all (I've only ever left LO for about 5h max, and that was with DH) and DH is yet undecided. I'm just glad we didn't book anything yet as were looking for us as well as DH's other brother, his wife and two toddlers, who are still in the dark about their LOs not being invited.