So I decided to tell my dh last night and wish I hadn't have bothered!!! I think his exact words were well it's too early so don't go getting excited because we know what happens. Thanks!!!! I think I'm aware of my chances of loosing this one too I'm the one that went through it last time! I got upset and he tried to explain that he said it more to stop himself getting excited. I'm just so upset because i didn't want/expect him to jump up and down and shout etc I just wanted a "cool, fingers crossed".
My dd was conceived straight after a mc and me telling dh I was pregnant again was horrible and I hate that its the same this time too, I hate that their announcing isn't a happy one although they are wanted so so much. Now I don't want to talk to him about anything, he asked what do we do now and i said just forget it I'll sort things. I know he thinks he's trying to protect us but it was gutting