Ladiesssss what do y'all think ???????

[JJsmom]

I've never used it. But one other person on here told me they knew someone that used it and got pg the first time!

 

[Baileeboo77]

Damn sounds good lol!!! I dOnt think hubby wants a baby I'm so torn

 

[JJsmom]

Why do you think that??? Hasn't he been with you in trying?

 

[Baileeboo77]

Not exactly he's more ntnp and I'm TTC ! So he always gets attitude about it think I put too much effort into trying to get pregnant

 

[JJsmom]

Ahh. Well maybe he just thinks you're young and have plenty of time. It puts a lot of stress on men TTC. My OH want's to TTC and I told him no because it's too much stress and I don't want that. He said oh ok. So I'm keeping it more to myself that we are now TTC rather than NTNP. That way he thinks I'm jumping on him for fun, and not for TTC. But he does know afterwards I throw my feet up in the air and leave them there for a bit. LOL! He doesn't know about preseed, that is what I'm going to use myself. I have read though that if you intend to use it, to not use the entire application because it is a lot! That they used about 1/4 of application.

 

[Baileeboo77]

See I feel obligated to let him know when I'm ovulating ! He just swears we're young and no point in trying so early in life! But I want to be a mom so idk what to do !

 

[JJsmom]

Well it is both of your decisions. Thankfully my OH is just as excited as I am now so it helps a great deal! I have told him so far too. As soon as i showed him the almost positive OPK he basically threw it to the side and said lets go! LOL!

 

[Baileeboo77]

Lol that's so great!!! Im sure the support helps a lot! I jut don't know that e is going to wake up and say I'm ready to TTC lol

 

[JJsmom]

I have to say that yes you both are young. He might not be fully ready yet. It is something that requires growing up a great deal and he might still want his freedom. I hate to say it, but with him not being fully on board, once you have the LO, be prepared for him not to help with it as much as you'd like and want to still do things (if he does now). Let's hope that isn't the case and that maybe he's just scared, but since I've grown up I always look at the worst case scenario but hope for the best! I'm hoping for both of us this month though!!

 

[Baileeboo77]

Well considering I miscarried and e has had testicular torsion and epiditamitits his sack always hurts . And I know both of those things can cause infertility. I want to be a mom do badly he will be 21 in about 20 days and I'll be 20 on January granted we are both super young!!! I just am scared that of we wait to long we may need assistance or have to adopt!

 

[JJsmom]

I'm sorry he's had those problems. Has he sought help for the pain? I can definitely understand your want for a child! I have been longing for another one for quite some time to where when I didn't have an OH I thought about finding a random person to sleep with to try and get pg. Grant it, I would never do that, it just popped in my head from time to time. I cry all the time because I see people pregnant and I want it and couldn't have it. Now that I can, it's been over 4 months now and I still haven't had the opportunity to have that wonderful feeling! All I can hope is that OH doesn't have a fertility problem. I really hope that this is our month and that we can both get our BFP's together. I am really hoping and praying for it this month as I know how badly we both want it!! How are you feeling?

 

[Baileeboo77]

Aww that's so sweet !!! It not a constant pain just happens quick sometime before he has traced a erection and sometimes just for no reason! I don't think there is much they can do for him! I know pain medicine would be out of the question! I hope this is out month too! I'm so tired of seeing one line it's so annoying! And I know it seems like everyone is pregnant! It do depressing.

 

[JJsmom]

I know, I agree. For some reason though I keep finding myself going to the pregnancy test page to see but I hate seeing all of those lines on other tests other than my own.

 

[Baileeboo77]

Omg I do the same thing lol goodness we need some sticky beans lol

 

[JJsmom]

Yes we do!! Maybe after AF you should just bd every other day or ever day for that fact and not make it like you are ttc. Just be lovey on him and when you O, do it for two days in a row then skip a day and do it again.

 

[Baileeboo77]

Why do they say to skip a day? And Ok so when the test strip is positive I need to bd everyday for two days then take a day off what I'd the strip is still dark? Once you release the egg does the color start to get lighter again ?

 

[Baileeboo77]

9 people I know are pregnant fml lol

 

[JJsmom]

Mine started getting lighter after my LH spike. I don't know why they say skip a day. It's just what the SMEP says. I guess you can do 3 days and then skip a day and do one more for good measure. LOL! One of the ladies on the other thread that started SMEP this month got her BFP. So I'm sure hoping!!

 

[JJsmom]

I hate when that happens! I know when I sit out at the farmer's market selling my earrings I see all of these women that are pregnant and I'm like..I want to be. I start pouting and hope OH doesn't see it. He did one time and rubbed my shoulder and he said don't worry sweetie, it'll happen. All I wanted to do is look at him and say WHEN?!?!?

 

[Baileeboo77]

Wait 10 people lol and I know It does get depressing seeing pregnant people!!! I will try smep this month probably !