Ladiesssss what do y'all think ???????

[Baileeboo77]

I swear I see a line lol idk if it's a evap but that's the only test of your I'm 100% positive I see a line !

 

[JJsmom]

I dont' know either Bailee. LOL! Only thing I can do is take this dollar store test tomorrow and see what it says. otherwise I'm waiting a few days to see if AF shows. If not, then I'll take another frer.

 

[Baileeboo77]

Yeah I hope it's a bfp! I really still think that pyscic might have been right! I still think October will be my month!

 

[JJsmom]

That would be really strange!! But I hope you get it no matter what!!!

I got another bfn today on an frer. I told OH I shouldn't have to "search" for the line. But my temps are still up.

 

[Baileeboo77]

That's what Patrick says, if he has to look for it it's not there lol! But I feel the same way just look for any line since I wanna see one so bad lol

 

[JJsmom]

OH told me it was my fault we didn't bd enough when I actually may have O'd instead of when i thought I had with the OPK. He blames me if I don't get pregnant this cycle because I didn't choose to go to bed between midnight and 1am every day for 21 days in a row. After 11 days I was so cranky it was unreal! I'm so upset about this!

 

[MrsHopeful2]

Ugh how frustrating! You should tell him that BDing every day can lower your chances, my fertility Dr even told me so. He said my DH should "build up" for 3 days (no ejaculating what so ever) before I normally O. If you have a positive OPK to BD every day for 3 days. And after that, no more than every other day. He also said if things don't match up with the OPK, that the OPK is more acurate than tracking... As weird as that may seem. Men's sperm take about 2 days to mature to a point that they are nourished enough and have built strength and mobility. So doin it daily lowers his count of HEALTHY productive sperm. But building up more than 4 days is bad, as they slowly start to lose mobility and die. Him
Stressing you out isn't going to get you prego either!!! I'm sorry, are you even 100% that you're not prego? Did AF come?

 

[JJsmom]

No, no sign of AF. But if I O'd a week later, then I'm only 7dpo today. I didn't get a complete positive OPK. I didnt' have a lot of them so was trying to space them out and had my darkest ones on CD 16/17. Then they started getting a bit lighter then I ran out. So I just went with O'ing on the 19th. So I'm not entirely sure when I O'd w/o a complete positive OPK. My test this morning though was BFN again. So we'll see. I'm having back pain but that's it right now. No cramping but when I got stressed out a cpl hours ago, I felt this weird pain about 2 inches below my belly button. Was weird. But no actual cramping yesterday or today.

 

[Baileeboo77]

That's not cool ! It's not your damn fault if you don't get a bfp this month! I hope you do get it though !

And me an hubby bd almost everyday! Is that bad?

And no sign of af here either I'm due the 26th!

 

[JJsmom]

With taking out my positive OPK, which I really never saw go positive, it changed me to being due on the 26th. So I guess we're on the same schedule again. I'm just unsure how my cycle added 8 days. I'm always normal. And my lower back is so sore.

 

[Baileeboo77]

When will you test again ?

 

[MrsHopeful2]

Well as long as you guys havent gotten AF your not out of the race this month! Dont get discouraged! My cycles are all over the place, I know how frustrating it is when all the sudden my cycle is 6 days shorter or longer. Which i found out was do to the fact that i dont always actually release an egg even tho my body tries. Im do for AF tomorrow, and im so nervous. I took a digital FR this AM, and it was a BFN. Broke my heart, but i will wait to see if AF shows her hideous face tomorrow!

Bailee- I paid a Dr a lot of money to have fertility testing and surgery and i am under his counseling for the best way to get prego. Everyone thinks BDing every day is the best, i know i sure did! But according to the Dr its not! Just try to stick to every other day if you can, so he has a lot of good mature sperm when you really NEED it. Until you get a positive OPK - Then BD for 3 days! For example this month, i got a positive OPK on CD18 so we BDed CD18, CD19, CD20. But before that we BDed CD11, CD13, CD16. This is my first month trying this method, and really the first month that counts on my TTC journey because i had surgery last month, and before that i literally had ZERO chance of ever getting prego. Which i didn't know until he cut into me and found that my tubes were completely closed. So the last 14 months havent really counted!

Of course you guys should do whatever you feel is best, but i thought i would share the advice that was given to me. I like it because there is less "pressure" on HAVING to have sex all the time. It honestly made our relationship better

 

[Baileeboo77]

I think I'm out this month ! I would have gotten a bfp by now I think ! And dang girl sounds like you have had a hard time !!! ! Yeah having sex everyday does get exhausting sometimes! I might try that method next month !

 

[MrsHopeful2]

Im just telling myself im out too, i cried this AM with my BFN. But i have read alot of stories of woman who got BFNs 11,12,13 DPO and then got BFP on like 14,15,16 DPO. I am only at 13. Its amazing how hard it is to just wait... I want to believe it still possible, but then again i dont so i wont get hurt... Do you ffel like AF is coming or just discouraged because of BFNs?

 

[JJsmom]

Bailee, you're not out! You had a pink line!!! You still have a week before AF is here!!

I'm still holding out hope for all of us!!! You need to watch the digi's!! I've heard they aren't very sensitive at all and you should use a frer instead of the digi at first. Once you get a line on the frer to use a digi.

I have one frer left to use because I'm not going to buy another pack of them right now. OH is bringing home a couple of the dollar store tests for me to use. Might take one tomorrow but might wait another day so I'd be appx 10dpo. Since according to ff and countdowntopregnancy I'm 8dpo based on my temps. I've been having horrible lower back pain the last few days. have been having some cramping in my left abdomen today.

 

[MrsHopeful2]

I didn't know that about the digi's! that makes me feel a bit better! What exactly is a FRER? Is that the regular first response test? I am still all kinds of hormonal, boobs, back, achyness in my uterus. Sucks that pregnancy and AF have the same symptoms! I just want this so damn bad. My husband already has 2 kids, i just want one of my own so bad that i dont have to love to death then give back at the end of the weekend. ugh Anywho.. i just looked at your chart! Your temps look really good! staying quite a bit above you're average!!!
BTW, what does "OH" stand for?? I know its your man, and i know what DH is, but i am still new to this TTC lingo!

 

[JJsmom]

Yes, OH is Other Half. In 10 months he'll be my DH!!! LOL! Yes the frer is the regular first response early result. I know!! I hate how they both seem the same!! My lower back is killing me too. BB's are still a little sore. not like real painful but it is very uncomfortable to sleep on them! I sure hope you see your bfp!!! Having your own is nothing like having step kids. You love them but yes you get to keep yours home all the time. good luck!!

 

[Baileeboo77]

I'm sure AF will be here! Had a little uterus pain! That's it my boob usually hurt but not this month! So I say I'm out, I still swear October is our month lol

 

[JJsmom]

Did you take another test today?

 

[Baileeboo77]

Yeah bfn