Ladiesssss what do y'all think ???????

[JJsmom]

I'm 32, getting married in May, have one son that is almost 9, were TTC for 6 months.

 

[sunflower82]

Oh nice to hear how you doing

 

[JJsmom]

Not too bad. My abdomen has been cramping today which is a pain when I have to turn and what not. Trying not to give it away to people at work but they moved me from a corner cube to one that many ppl face me. LOL! I liked being sitting in the back where I was. I'll have to move back once the girl that will be going out on maternity leave gets back. She called in today and then came in with a doc note that they are not allowing her to work this week until she is checked by them next week. So I should have my cubicle back sometime next year basically. They are hiring a temp to do her job while she's gone and they are having her sit in my seat since she was going to train her but now who knows! I am feeling sick throughout the day when I need to eat. I have to say, I love this feeling!

 

[sunflower82]

Aww good to hear your doing well

 

[JJsmom]

This wind is freaking me out! So thankful we don't have the storms too! It says the gusts are up to 30 mph but wow! It's shaking the house! Think I'm going to go to sleep so I dont' have to keep hearing it! LOL!

 

[Baileeboo77]

Good to hear y'all are doing good!!!! I made appointment for January 2ND to start checking my fertility. Hopefully I get a bfp before then though. I never though I would be in this situation

 

[JJsmom]

I truly hope you get it before then too!!!! Maybe you can get answers though if for some reason it doesn't happen! I'm still holding on to hope for you!!!

 

[Baileeboo77]

I don't know what it could be, my only guess is my weight gain. My heart is just breaking not getting a bfp. I don't feel like a women

 

[sunflower82]

Aww don't worry girl you will get your bfp
Soon

 

[JJsmom]

Bailee You'll get your bfp!!! Unfortunately weight gain can cause your fertility chances to go down. But maybe it's not that. Maybe it's just that it hasn't been right yet. I know nothing I can say will make you feel better because I understand how you feel. I just know you'll get your bfp!! I can't remember, but has your DH had a sperm analysis done?

 

[Baileeboo77]

No, we are about to look into that. It just sucks being almost 20 I know that my doctor won't take me serious

 

[JJsmom]

You MAKE them take you seriously or find a new doc! If you've been TTC for over a year they should take you serious!

 

[Baileeboo77]

He's going to say IM not stable enough! IM stable enough to pay for the damn testing !

 

[Baileeboo77]

I really think it's because of my weight gain though

 

[JJsmom]

Like I said, you make them listen to you! Or find a doc that will! I'm 214 lbs. And guess what? I've got pregnant twice at this weight. Well, technically 3 times with my loss I had when I was 20. I just didn't try to get pregnant again after that and got pregnant with DS by accident.

 

[Baileeboo77]

I was about 210 when I got pregnant but I was pure muscle from softball all.of.net life. Now in 250 I can't believe how damn fat I am I wear a size 13 !!!!!!

 

[Baileeboo77]

I would be a decent size at 220 and I would be pure muscle at 200! It's just hard to loose weight !

 

[JJsmom]

a size 13 isn't bad! I'm in a size 16/18 :-/ But muscle does weight more than fat. All you can do is keep trying. Has AF shown yet?

So I told DS and my mom and older sister. My mom wasn't happy. My sister was a lot more supportive.

 

[Baileeboo77]

Why isn't your mom happy ? IM due for af on the 8th

 

[sunflower82]

Why isn't your mom happy