Legs up the wall job

[Jax41]

Okay, so I feel a bit silly and embarrassed doing this in front of my DH esp when as you know he's NTNP and I'm TTC!!! So any suggestions how I can get round this and make it a bit of fun? I really want to give it a go this cycle as so many of you are giving it the !!

xXx

 

[Wendyk07]

I've no idea how you could make it more fun. I was embarrassed as well the first time but when i explained to DH what i was doing he now slides the pillow under my bum for me before shouting "swin boys swim". lol

 

[Macwooly]

Well you could ask him to take the p**s out of you by telling you that you look like a turtle struggling to turn over as you try to wriggle into position ... No? Only my DH then

I'm really not sure how you do it without DH realising you are TTC Sorry Maybe tell him you want a cup of tea and send him out of the room

 

[Wendyk07]

You could tell him that you've pulled a muscle or got cramp and need to stretch?????

 

[Macwooly]

You could tell him that you've pulled a muscle or got cramp and need to stretch?????

Excellent idea

 

[ChrissiK]

I might be enough to just tilt your pelvis with a pillow under your hips for a while (under the blanket?).

My DH would get suspicious, because I usually have to pee right after (TMI!).

You could also try to sneak in a soft cup in the bathroom and increase the sperm availability for the rest of the day...

 

[purplelou]

lol - I like that idea Wendy!! I don't think there is an elegant way to do this "manouver" though

 

[dachsundmom]

I agree with the softcup idea, though I have never used them.

 

[LLbean]

softcup and also you can say you are stretching your back a bit and that position makes you feel better

 

[Jax41]

Thanks girls for the tips If nothing else I know I'm not alone in feeling a bit of a wally

LLBean think the stretch the back bit is a good 'un going to start having a niggly pain me thinks

Macwooly - love the cuppa idea. I did do a few bicyles whilst DH was in the loo afterwards last night, nearly knocked myself out trying to get my legs down quick when he came back in though

OMG, the things we do, flippin' 'eck!!!!

 

[Bubba3]

I love all the suggestions Wendy and Mwooly you cracked me up , I ended up putting a pillow under hip while I was on my side , when we get back to Oz I'll be giving soft cups a go. I'd be ok though cos dh is usually snoring post dancing ....oh the romance eh !

 

[Jax41]

Hey now there's a thought, my DH straight after too, that could be my plan, thanks Bubba!!!

 

[booboo19]

I think you just have to try and get over the embarrassment, i prop my legs up after, i found it embarrassing at first but now its just something i do ! worth it if it helps you to conceive

 

[Shelley71]

Jax - I'm with you! When he would get up after to go to the bathroom I would immediately raise my hips until I heard the toilet flush. I figured even one minute might help the gravitational pull! Hahahaha!

 

[Desperado167]

Thanks girls for the tips If nothing else I know I'm not alone in feeling a bit of a wally

LLBean think the stretch the back bit is a good 'un going to start having a niggly pain me thinks

Macwooly - love the cuppa idea. I did do a few bicyles whilst DH was in the loo afterwards last night, nearly knocked myself out trying to get my legs down quick when he came back in though

OMG, the things we do, flippin' 'eck!!!!

Love,love love it ,I nearly knocked myself out with my boobs trying to get back down also jax,I usually did it wen dh went to the loo and asked him nicely to go get me a cold drink after or anything that was gonna take him at least five mins,bicycles is excellent ,keep going Hun,

 

[Macwooly]

Desperado I did feel like I was being smoothed by my boobs when I got my legs up in the air

 

[Desperado167]

Desperado I did feel like I was being smoothed by my boobs when I got my legs up in the air

Yep,rite up the face whilst doing the whole belly flop thing ,was as well dh was away,not a good sight,

 

[Macwooly]

Desperado I did feel like I was being smoothed by my boobs when I got my legs up in the air

Yep,rite up the face whilst doing the whole belly flop thing ,was as well dh was away,not a good sight,

It was the belly flop that got my DH started on taking the p**s and telling me I looked like a stuck turtle I've decided that there is no air of mystery or glamour about TTC so DH and I have a laugh at it to stop it getting any more tense and stressed than it already is

 

[Jolinar]

This all sounds far too strenuous after all that

 

[Macwooly]

It is But I'll give it a whirl for my BFP