light hearted ttc

[AC1987]

Awww Lily that sucks!! My mom only said once that when I was pregnant with Rose that I won't be able to appreciate Cassidy as a baby... which didn't make any sense to me, I then asked her if that's how it was with her and my sibling and I hahahah

Having 2 kids is hard no doubt but I don't think its up to parents or in laws budding in with their opinions.


Cassidy will NOT stop picking up Rose.... nothing is working getting her to stop.

 

[hello_kitty]

Awww Lily that sucks!! My mom only said once that when I was pregnant with Rose that I won't be able to appreciate Cassidy as a baby... which didn't make any sense to me, I then asked her if that's how it was with her and my sibling and I hahahah

Having 2 kids is hard no doubt but I don't think its up to parents or in laws budding in with their opinions.


Cassidy will NOT stop picking up Rose.... nothing is working getting her to stop.

My mom constantly reminds me that I shouldnt have had Jayden in the first place...anyways we are having a cold war right now so I dont really care.

Zachary hasnt tried picking up Jayden...yet but he constantly comes over to kiss and poke at him. Thank Godness its a gentle poke. Sometimes he also grabs is toys and shoves it in Jayden's face and Jayden's truly annoyed.

 

[sg0720]

Hello ladies it's been forever since I been on here how is everyone?

 

[hello_kitty]

Hello ladies it's been forever since I been on here how is everyone?

Sarina! I hope I got your name right. How have you been? Congrats on your little girl! How old is she now? Last time you were on here, I think you were pregnant dont remember how long ago that was. Wow, ttc no. 3 now?

 

[sg0720]

Hey yes u got it right! Last time I was on here I was ttc number two and thank you and yes we would like 2 more kids and want to get them out of the way right away so after baby #3 we might wait a year and go for #4

How about you what's new and exciting?

 

[hello_kitty]

Wow you are fast! I just had baby no. 2 almost 4 months ago...I'm waiting until at least baby's first birthday to try again possibly 2nd birthday.

 

[sg0720]

Congrats on the baby.

 

[magicwhisper]

hello!


nope not ttc for a bit yet

went to look at nurseries for february because my maternity pay runs out jan and my oh osent have a job so its up to me

 

[AC1987]

Welcome back Sarina!!! wow lots has changed!!

bahah I was thinking about how I miss being pregnant... then I was like wait... NO NO NO I don't want to be pregnant, especially not while I still have 2 young kids... I think I will wait til Rose is close to 2 years before thinking about it again, and also we can't afford to at ALL right now.


Gah the heat keeps konking out

 

[sg0720]

Welcome back Sarina!!! wow lots has changed!!

bahah I was thinking about how I miss being pregnant... then I was like wait... NO NO NO I don't want to be pregnant, especially not while I still have 2 young kids... I think I will wait til Rose is close to 2 years before thinking about it again, and also we can't afford to at ALL right now.


Gah the heat keeps konking out

Thank you. I bet u stay very busy! We haven't decided if after the 3rd baby we'll try again or wait a couple years. We kind of want to get it out the way 😃 I had my 6week check up today and u ladies should have seen the look I got when I said no to birth control and we are planning to try again haha

 

[sg0720]

Hello magic!

Good luck on finding a nursery I hope they aren't too expensive by you I was looking and they all want 200 a week! So I asked my mom n told her we will pay her 100 a week she didn't want to take the money but I told her she was saving us 400 a month !

 

[hello_kitty]

Happy Halloween to those who celebrate! I took my 2 boys trick or treating..well I took Zachary, Jayden just pretty much slept in the ergo. We had loads of fun though I wish I had some help so I could take pictures. He grew tired after an hour lol.

Some days I miss being pregnant but then I think about how much pain I was with Jayden's labor and I feel so glad I am not atm...maybe each consecutive time is worse idk, with Zachary I felt I could do it again and this time with Jayden it was soooo horrible. Thank God for a fast labor and delivery. The afterpains were soo much worse as well, felt like I was giving birth all over again. It took a week before I felt a little better.

 

[AC1987]

the afterpains are pretty bad 2nd time around aren't they? I almost forgot about that!
A video.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZOdiCkaZewU

 

[hello_kitty]

So adorable Ashley! Zachary stopped what he was doing to watch lol. I am half anticipating and half scared for this time to come. How are doing now that Rose is more mobile?

I read somewhere that women are meant to forget their pains of childbirth right after they have baby. I honestly dont remember what the pain feels like, all I know is that it was really painful...and that is the reason why I kinda want to stop at 3. I seriously considered stopping at 2 when I was in active labor!

 

[josephine3]

See for me my 1st birth was so long and painful i remember it still so traumatic but my 2nd was so smooth and far less painful. I remember saying i could do it all again the next day if i had to! I wonder if people almost get 'addicted' to the birth part?! Cos for me it was about wanting to experience it again but made better which it was! Maybe people have more children partly to get their perfect birth? I dont really remember much about the afterpains either time. One thing i do kno for sure is my belly is a hell of a lot saggier this time around! X

 

[sg0720]

Jo- mine too!!

And for me the second time was a lot longer and more painful! But it was great after I got the epidural I couldn't handle the pain anymore. After she came out though I was a little sore but nothing major no stitches or anything this time which I am grateful for 3pushes and she was out! The doctor said he will deliver all my babies it went so we'll lol. I am looking forward to doing it all over again. And the pregnancy for baby 2 was more painful then with my son so I hope that the 3rd time around isn't bad

Ashley how adorable

 

[hello_kitty]

Dont know if any of you ladies have the same problem as me, but it seems like my sil is always in competition with me although she is 6 years older...feels like she is always competing to see who produces more milk (she exclusively pump), who's baby is able to babble first, and she originally wanted 2 babies now that she knows I want 3 she changed her mind last minute and wants 3 as well...I just find it annoying.

 

[hello_kitty]

tomorrow is Zachary's 2nd birthday! Same ol phrase: time flies! I remember it was like yesterday when I had him.

we will be taking him to chuck e cheese and buy him presents and birthday cake.

 

[AC1987]

awww happy 2nd birthday to him!! I feel like he just turned 1 Time does for sure fly!!


Yes there must be a reason why we forget the pains of childbirth, like it hurt SO much more this 2nd time around... but it was over SO fast.. I can totally see how it can become addicting..

Aww Lily there is really nothing to compete over about kids, each are unique and each person, so it really doesn't matter who produces more milk or offspring I'd just ignore her and concentrate on your babies
Omg its CRAZY now that Rose I mobile!! I'm running after her a lot she has this thing where she tries to crawl under the coffee table but doesn't duck her head so she cries then tries to do it again etc.... so I hafta keep moving her from it..

 

[sg0720]

I would also ignore her too! And Ashley aww they are fun at that age. Our household is getting sick again I'm trying so hard to protect my baby! Manny is in school now so he's getting all the germs I can't keep him healthy no matter how hard I try. We were just sick for over a month!