Ashley - I could've written that myself! My husband and I are on and off. I dont think Im still attracted to him, but we do have better days where we are happy as a family. There's days where I start looking up "how to get a divorce" in my state. I am capable of leaving, I'll just work my butt off to take care of my kids because I currently already have a job, but whats holding me back are my kids. I dont want them to grow up in a broken family. I am pretty sure my husband will still be a part of their lives but it wont be the same. Trust me, if it werent for the kids I would've gotten a divorce a few years ago. Things are just more complicated when kids are involved. Most days, I also ask myself what in the world did I see in him.