Okay, catch up time, sorry its taken so long to reply!
MJ - Glad Adam's jabs went okay, JP's next lot are due, I'm dreading it! Great news about the weight gain too! Was it weird thinking about "the anniversary" last weekend? I reflected on it. What really was ironic is that the morning after I woke up to found JP's dad in the bathroom being sick (he had come down with a tummy bug, I thought I'd given him food poisoning!) and the same day this year when I woke up and had cuddles with JP she promply vomitted over me! I just hope this won't become a recurring feature of Nov 17th!
For Christmas I'm going to email out a list of things I might need for JP to my family as they want to give her useful stuff and I don't want to be inundated with piles of cuddly toys! I'd actually like things like books and educational games as I don't have those yet, at the momnt we're reading JP the local takeout menus. She finds them very interesting!
How often do you get monster days with Adam? JP has been a horror the last couple of days for no apparent reason, yesterday I had to do the leave the room and count to 10 thing twice. As soon as my friend got home, she was smiling and gurgling for her! Some days I think she just gets really bored of me!
As for pumps, I have the Isis and I find the "flower" a bit painful, it turns my breast purple while I'm using it and I have to keep moving it around to help the discomfort.
Shiv - Great proudest acheivement, I think its amazing you managed to get through 10 weeks of pain too, I would probably have wanted to give up, it's bad enough JP taking nips at me when she has gum pain! I like that Caramac doesn't count as chocolate. I've just eaten a Caramilk bar which is South African Cadbury's version but full thickness like a normal chocolate bar - yumm! The chocolate range over there is so much better than here!
AE - Thanks for the cat reassurance, we'll have to see how she goes. One of my friends is on my back saying I should rehome her, she'll be happier etc. I see her point but I also know that if I can get her to stop feeling rejected she'll be happy here.
Cleck - It would be wonderful if you came over for a meet! Sorry to hear about the flood drama, its bad enough nipping out with a baby nevermind evacuating!! Hope everything is okay and your settled back home now. I think I would have cried to lose all that frozen ebm, its such hard work! Great that Emma's gaining weight, I know what a worry it is with our skinny babes! Like Shiv, I'd read that bottom two teeth come through first, maybe those spots are it! I've been trying to look at JP's gums but she won't open wide lol! My stepmum felt her gums and said they were very hard but I'm not sure what she meant by that! That they hurt? We're getting that loud and clear!
Jelr - Thanks for the vaseline tip, not sure what it does but the CC is almost gone so I'm guessing it is softening it so the washing/massaging works better? Baby shopping is too addictive isn't it?! I'm planning a big shopping day with my sister for JP, I've even made a list of what I want to buy. I don't want to buy things for me anymore, just cute stuff to dress JP in, that makes me much happier! Talk about dolls for adults!! How is Natasha now? JP wakes up because she gets bad wind pains but it could be any pain so maybe Natasha is teething or something?
Boothh - We haven't really chatted before so I wanted to say hi! I hope Jesse is improving and eating again. Did the doc say its ok to give Calpol for teething? Hope you're feeling better too.
Shadow - Hope you're feeling well, lovely to see your pics of Vince on FB, he's super cute! Swimming looks really good. I'd like to get JP swimming as young as possible because I have a water phobia and want her to enjoy swimming, but then again I think the reason for my phobia is probably due to nearly drowning when I was a few years old so I have an irrational fear she'll go through something similar! Look forward to hearing what Vince makes of Water Babies!
Sam_Star - So sorry to hear Elin may need more surgery, you're amazing for being so strong, forget what your fb friend says, Elin is a person that you love not a gimmick for getting attention, how insensitive of them to say such a thing! Its strong fighters like Elin that remind us how delicate and precious life is and to appreciate our good health. I'm ranting on your behalf, sorry!
Jai_Jai - Lol. I'm just as bad for not chatting, I come on here read the posts, click on a few thanks and then run out of gracetime and have to attend to madam, I feel bad for not doing enough individual msgs! We're good facebookers at least
AFU - Just another week lol! JP is a little madam this week, I've really been hoping for a belly laugh now several of you are hearing them, all I'm getting is whinging. On the development side she now rolls both ways quite easily and the shuffle/wiggle is back so even if I try to escape her she follows me!
I am intrigued that people are starting to go out without baby, I've been discussing the possibility of doing some work early next year but I can't imagine anyone wanting to babysit JP more than once! It's not that she's a bad baby, she's like that nursery rhyme, "when she's good, she's very, very good and when she is bad, she is horrid!" I've been recommended a book to read because she ticks the boxes of a high need baby, apparently its a personality type, I'd never heard of the term til this week. I had the insensitive friend experience this week when she told me that JP's clinginess is my fault for socialising too much with her when she was born. According to her I should have spent the first few weeks at home bonding, no visitors and no going out. Instead because JP was introduced to a few family and close friends she suffered some kind of seperation trauma from being passed around.
After that conversation I went out and then had someone tell me how small my baby was for 12 weeks, so was not a happy day! I'm a bit worried about her weight/size atm because I don't think she's growing enough, she's sliding down the percentiles. It doesn't surprise me because I've been ill and not drinking /eating as much as I should. I wondered about introducing baby rice to help but have been told that will have an adverse effect as BM is more nutritious for her.
I don't really want to start solids until about 6 months ideally because of the allergy thing and tbh I'm too lazy to want to think about routines just yet, it's all I can do to get through each day never mind making a weaning plan. That said JP is interested in food, especially since she sits at the dining table with us in her highchair, so I'll probably follow her lead. She put her arm in my sister's ice-cream a few weeks ago and spent a happy evening sucking it off her sleeve!!
Sorry for the whinge, I think its all I ever do on here, but it helps just to type it out of my system!
I saw today that they're introducing a Swine flu jab for babys over 6 months. Who would accept/refuse the jab and why?
to you all