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Hey girls
I'm 24, DH is 25. Together 6 years now, married for 6 months. Ready to TTC #1! After like, 4 years NTNP and not falling pregnant I feel like that's a red flag; but at the same time I know the conception window is so small that it doesn't surprise me either.. I have always wanted a big family of my own; and while I'm super excited to start trying for this, I am scared out of my mind as to "what if" I can't have children.
I have long, irregular cycles (32-46 Days long) that I'm trying to manage with Vitex, also DH & I taking multivitamin. Willing to see Dr/Specialist soon, but also want to actually *try* before going. But we also don't want to waste time trying if there is a true issue, so we will touch on that when the time hits. Started using ic opk's this cycle but wasn't consistent enough to find out my Ov date (should've tested all cycle to pinpoint ov, wasn't always home and missed testing for days at a time; got discouraged and didn't test some days too); if there even was one.
Using opk's more diligently next cycle, and might start a Kindara BBT chart. Really trying to focus on finding out if/when I ov first before feeling like I'm a true TTC'er.
Love all the support I see going around on these forums, can't wait to start talking to you all! Praying we get our BFP's!
I'm 24, DH is 25. Together 6 years now, married for 6 months. Ready to TTC #1! After like, 4 years NTNP and not falling pregnant I feel like that's a red flag; but at the same time I know the conception window is so small that it doesn't surprise me either.. I have always wanted a big family of my own; and while I'm super excited to start trying for this, I am scared out of my mind as to "what if" I can't have children.
I have long, irregular cycles (32-46 Days long) that I'm trying to manage with Vitex, also DH & I taking multivitamin. Willing to see Dr/Specialist soon, but also want to actually *try* before going. But we also don't want to waste time trying if there is a true issue, so we will touch on that when the time hits. Started using ic opk's this cycle but wasn't consistent enough to find out my Ov date (should've tested all cycle to pinpoint ov, wasn't always home and missed testing for days at a time; got discouraged and didn't test some days too); if there even was one.
Using opk's more diligently next cycle, and might start a Kindara BBT chart. Really trying to focus on finding out if/when I ov first before feeling like I'm a true TTC'er.
Love all the support I see going around on these forums, can't wait to start talking to you all! Praying we get our BFP's!