Hi. i was just wondering if anyone who already has a child/children is doing it with out much help? My dh has been offered a job in a different town so we will most likely be moving in a few months. We have lived in the same area all our lives and both families are within a 10 min drive from us. We sometimes babysit for SILs children and other members of the family do too. she says she needs that break. I'm wondering what it will be like for us without that support. we plan to ttc soon. Has anyone got any experience of this? Am i worrying about nothing or is it going to be really hard?