Hi all,
I am really just looking for some reassurance. I am recently out as gay and with a partner who is older than me, he's quite broody and made me aware of his intentions to adopt before we got together almost a year ago. I always wanted a family before I came out but I'd never really thought of being a same sex parent family. I come from a conservative background and upon coming out my mother and sister shared their views on the idea saying something along the lines of 'don't even think about it' and 'it's not fair on the child'...(a lot of things were said and this could have just been shock but I've never approached the topic since that day).
The thing is I don't know any same sex parent families and so I don't have the comeback of 'well so and so turned out just fine'.
So I guess my question is, do the kids get treated any differently in daily life, what struggles are we going to face as a family, and how can I convince my family that our child isn't going to suffer because of his/her dads' sexual preferences.
Thanks
I am really just looking for some reassurance. I am recently out as gay and with a partner who is older than me, he's quite broody and made me aware of his intentions to adopt before we got together almost a year ago. I always wanted a family before I came out but I'd never really thought of being a same sex parent family. I come from a conservative background and upon coming out my mother and sister shared their views on the idea saying something along the lines of 'don't even think about it' and 'it's not fair on the child'...(a lot of things were said and this could have just been shock but I've never approached the topic since that day).
The thing is I don't know any same sex parent families and so I don't have the comeback of 'well so and so turned out just fine'.
So I guess my question is, do the kids get treated any differently in daily life, what struggles are we going to face as a family, and how can I convince my family that our child isn't going to suffer because of his/her dads' sexual preferences.
Thanks