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Looking for TTC buddies after MC

This month i had ewcm for 5 days, day 3 being O day. Not sure whats the norm for me as ive never really taken too much notice. As babybrain said, BD every other day when you see that ewcm.

Hope you are all doing well. Im 8dpo today and feeling quite normal... had on off nausea up until yesterday and now I'm fine :shrug:
I thought i may have had a squinter yesterday but pretty sure today was bfn. Still early, but preparing myself for bfn and AF to arrive. I have to remember to look at the bigger picture.. 9 months no protection (and LOTS of BDing) before we got our surprise bfp with dd... 2 cycles for ds (bding every other day) then 1st cycle pg (then mc) this time.. its all luck. Thankfully i got a bfn at 6dpo (3w post mc) so i know any new lines are a new bfp :thumbup:
 
What urine did you use yesterday? Maybe todays was a bit more dilute? I never got good early lines with fmu, 2nd or even later was better. Good hold, no drinks. And mind hcg apparently takes a couple of days to double. Still early too.
Im very hopefull!!! Xxx
 
Used fmu on first test, then one in the evening but wasnt a great hold.. maybe only 2 hours and id been drinking LOADS all day. Todays was fmu but i did pee at like, 12.30am, then tested at 5.30am. Also drunk 1.5 litres between 8pm and 11. I have to admit, fmu today looked quite diluted.
When i invert the pic i can see something on both of yesterdays tests but nothing today. However of course i may not have even implanted yet... so obviously no bfp before that!
 
True lol It messes with your mind so much doesn't it!

Afm I had no blood when I got up this morning but a little appeared later but it's been very light today so I'm hoping it's stopping.....TWO WEEKS!!! I did an opk too just to see (probably more because I'm having POAS withdrawal symptoms so just need to pee on something! :haha:) it was very clearly a negative. But I could be cd12-15, who knows? :shrug: so worth checking.

Last night on the way to bed I was feeling a bit upset, so I had a wee snuggle in with my little rainbow baby and I just cried. I couldn't sleep afterwards and I had all sorts of thoughts on why I've lost 2 babies. Thinking of 'Tiny' and that little heartbeat. I ended up logging into my maternity notes online and studying the blood test results. Not really helping myself at all! I'm so scared it happens again.

Anyway, I'm sorry, I don't mean to bring you guys down. I always think I'm so doom and gloom on here! I'm really not that way normally but I suppose I can let it out here. Xxx
 
I’m itching to test right now but af is not due for 8 more days so trying to hold off for a bit longer. Hope this is our cycle ladies!!
 
It really does! Its allllll im thinking about :haha:

Glad the bleeding is finally coming to an end! Hopefully you'll get a positive opk soon!

Its understandable you feel that way :hugs: this site is brilliant for being able to let out all those feelings and emotions that sometimes you feel you cant in real life.. and more so with women that understand those emotions :hugs:
I really hope your bfp is right around the corner with a sticky bean <3
 
:hugs: BabyBrain - it's ok to have those moments, I have to tell myself that too sometimes. Night times are my worst too, DH will drop off to sleep so easily and I'll just lay there, thinking of things that might have been, a few tears here and there. I would have been about half way now, sometimes I pop into the pregnancy thread (which I created, but had the admin transfer after it all went wrong) and read how everyone is doing in there. I shouldn't do it to myself but it happens.

Fingers crossed for your Mrsmummy!! I hope that turns into a lovely bfp for you!!
W8ting I have everything crossed for you too!!
:dust:

AFM - I tested about 1:30pm yesterday with the digi opk, flashing smiley, then again at about 9pm and it was solid smiley and the lines were strong as!! :happydance: So dtd last night. DH is adamant that we still "go with the sway program" as in, stop dtd now until after O is passed, but I really don't want to run the risk of missing that eggy so I hope to try and persuade him for tonight too. I do admire his persistence in wanting to get that baby girl, even though I've been telling him it doesn't matter now.
 
Thanks poppie! Got another temp rise this morning... promised DH i wouldn't test til Friday so I dont have to sit there squinting at tests :dohh: :rofl:
I'm laying here now regretting making that promise. I know hes right though! 9 dpo still may not show anything.

Yay for positive opk!! I hope you catch that egg!! :dust:
 
Woohooo! no bleeding today so Im hopeful thats that over. Just don't know if it was a proper period or what? Ive got plenty of opks so will keep an eye on things. Trying not to stress!

Also Im watching One born every minute....not a good idea!! Lol

Whats happening with you all? Xx
 
Yay! Glad its finally stopped.
I can't face one born at the moment.. it was my fave program.. but now.. nah. I've got them recording for when I'm pregnant lol.

Im testing in the morning .....the ones ive bought dont have great reviews so may pop to the pharmacy and get a frer... We'll see! My cb rapid result and tesco are both test from 1st day of a missed period :nope:
 
Ive been avoiding one born for months but it came on after supervet and I was watching before I realised and Ive been ok with it tonight for some reason.

Good luck in the am, let us know asap. What dpo are you now? 10? 11? X
 
I thought i was doing ok, but was meant to visit my friend tomorrow who just had a baby girl 2 weeks ago and suddenly found myself crying because i shouldve been nearly 12 weeks now and getting my first scan :cry:
So definitely not sure one born would go down well with me at the mo :nope:

Thanks! I'll be 10dpo tomorrow. The tests i have say from 6 days before a missed period .. but we shall see...!
 
I totally understand, I should be 25w3d. Or have a 2month old baby in my arms. Thats why Im so surprised I sat through it! I struggled holding a friends baby back in October, he was less than a week and I cried. I held him a couple of weeks ago and was ok, maybe cos hes a bit older?. It was too soon the first time. Dont push yourself into anything, its really hard and maybe its all too fresh for you just now. :hugs:
 
It's definitely hard thats for sure. Im glad you found it easier this time around.
Think ill definitely give it a little while before i visit. Its the whole newborn thing and pregnant women :nope:

Heres to hoping all these emotions are a sign of a new pregnancy!
 
AF still has not showed I&#8217;m 16dpo tested today- it&#8217;s negative. I&#8217;m sure it&#8217;s late just due to the stressing of the two week wait! Just waiting for it to come now so I c an get it over with! I&#8217;ve been really busy with work and haven&#8217;t had a chance to be on here. I hope you ladies are doing well!

Thinking of you all and I sure do pray that you all get your bfp next cycle along with a sticky bean!
Did Af ever show or bfp??
 

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