Looking for TTC buddies after MC

[W8tingforbaby]

Good luck poppie

 

[mrsmummy2]

Good luck poppie

Sorry for AF w8ting. FX for this cycle

 

[BabyBrain80]

Sorry w8ting fingers crossed for this cycle, hope you have a better idea where you are at on this one x

Flou, that's me off work now too for 2 weeks......although I go to work in the nursery for a rest from these 2 crazy/loud boys enjoy your day on Saturday!

Poppie I'm so excited for you, hope that line gets darker and stop googling things!!! Good luck


Afm waiting on af kicking in properly, had pink on wiping for 3 days now. Cd 28/29/30, think it's getting heavier and starting then it stops again. So won't really know when to call it cd1! Haven't done a hpt today and I'm trying to think when the last time I peed was to see if I can do one now no doubt negative.

I wasn't sure about trying this next cycle (you know how I've been feeling anyway) but it would be like a 2nd/3rd jan due date at this rate....if it came early we might hit Crimbo! The fact there are these holidays puts me off a bit but having my OH at home for almost 2 weeks around due date also appeals (ds2 came out fast....almost on the kitchen floor!) I know I'm ahead of myself and maybe we wouldn't even fall pregnant anyway but it was on my mind. Anyway....will away and POAS

 

[Poppiebug]

I think I'm probably out now. My temp was down this morning and nothing really except line eyes on a test. Still brown spotting. Ugh.

I've decided if I'm out I'm not going to temp next month, it makes me a bit stressed and I don't sleep well, too busy worrying about waking up and getting the temp. I think I'll just do opks around O time.

DH is a little frustrating because he still wants to go with the timing a little out from O for the sway but I'm at the point where I don't really care now. Just want a healthy baby.

BabyBrain - we had always said we didnt want to have a bub close to Christmas, and my DH is still a bit concerned about it too. I always have mine early (induced due to blood pressure) but I know my Obs wont induce me Christmas Day or anything like that, unless it was an emergency, and my DH will have like 3 weeks off over Christmas, there'll be no school drop off for my older one, so that's appealing too.

I hope you all have a nice Easter weekend, whatever you are doing. Much chocolate consumption planned here.

 

[Poppiebug]

and yep, I'm pretty sure the just arrived. Drinks with lunch today!

 

[ANL25]

AF still has not showed I’m 16dpo tested today- it’s negative. I’m sure it’s late just due to the stressing of the two week wait! Just waiting for it to come now so I c an get it over with! I’ve been really busy with work and haven’t had a chance to be on here. I hope you ladies are doing well!

Thinking of you all and I sure do pray that you all get your bfp next cycle along with a sticky bean!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Sorry Poppie enjoy your drinks!!!

ANL yeap same here except Ive had these pink/red streaks on wiping. Nothing this morning and bfn on an ic.

 

[mrsmummy2]

Enjoy your drinks poppie! Hope you get some answers soon ANL & babybrain!

 

[flou]

Have a lovely lunch poppie and enjoy yourself!

Anl and babybrain, hoping a bfp for you both will happen soon!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Af still not starting properly. There was a bit more fresh blood this morning but its like a really really light period that keeps stopping and starting. Its only on wiping too. So I dont know quite what to make of it and if to start at cd1 as there was a bit more earlier? Tested again at what would be 16dpo and bfn. So Im sure Im not pregnant but just want af and to move on.

Still unsure what Im moving on to though. Im still back and forth a lot with ttc, this is all so tough eh xx

 

[mrsmummy2]

Aw that really sucks babybrain. I'm sure whatever decision you make will be the right one. Maybe some time off to clear your head will be what you need, then starting afresh won't seem so bad. Still hoping to see a bfp for you though for this cycle. It definitely seems odd! With my mc i didnt get my bfp until 10 days after AF was meant to show (not sure what dpo though) so theres still hope

 

[Poppiebug]

BabyBrain how are you?


I've been a bit depressed over the weekend. I don't know how you'd do this month after month. Falling pregnant has always been easy for us now I feel like it's not going to happen (yes it's only been one month ttc since mc). I guess part of my sadness is that I would have been about 18-19 weeks now and would have told our boys around Easter time. There's several other friends / people I know who are around the same time as I would have been, all showing off their bumps on social media etc. I'm on CD 5, AF still lingering making me feel like she'll never go away - just want to get back into the BD stuff.

Sorry for the whinge, I feel awful because many of you have been through this many times, I just have no where else to put it or talk about it as no one else would understand. I think I've put on about 10kg since everything went to shit (after losing about 12kg last year), so that's also making me feel like a complete failure too.

Hope you are all ok. xx

 

[mrsmummy2]

Sorry you're feeling down poppy

I totally get you. I see some people on here battle through month after month and feel awful that I've complained already only being the first cycle after my mc, but we are all entitled to feel the way we feel. We will have up days and down. All that seems to be around me is pregnant women, babies and announcements. It cuts deep doesnt it.
I really hope this cycle will be yours

 

[flou]

poppie. Im sorry your feeling down. How you are feeling is perfectly normal and to be expected. You are grieving the loss of your baby and what could have been. But trust me when I say it does get easier. It never goes away and the smallest thing bring it back up, but it gets easier to cope with the loss. I have a work colleague who had a baby 4 weeks before my first pregnancy was due. So we would have had little ones only a month apart. Her boy is coming up for five and still now when I see him it brings it all back. But I do believe I am stronger for going through what I have. I hope you get your rainbow soon. Sending babydust your way!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Yeap totally understand Poppie
My emotions are up n down every day at the moment. One minute I feel really positive that everything will be fine but the next Im ready to give up. I feel fat (put on a bit recently myself) and a total failure, nothing is working out.

I still have bleeding but its just been the same weird on /off, mostly on wiping. It got a little heavier at one point so looked like very light af starting but that same day it stopped again. So this is day 8 of this frustrating carry on.

 

[Poppiebug]

Thanks ladies, I know you understand and I'm sorry we're all in the boat. I hope we're all out of this one and onto the pregnancy train soon.

BabyBrain how annoying. Why do our bodies feel the need to muck up on us when we need things to be clear cut as they always once were?? When we first started TTC with our first, my regular 28 day cycle that was like that forever decided it would just change up to being 33 days!

 

[W8tingforbaby]

So I’ve been doing the clear blue ovulation test stick things and it says I’m peak fertility today which was interesting since it has said low the last few days and today it jumped lol we shall see. My back is killing me since yesterday which doesn’t make me in the mood much but will try to make the most of this cycle
How is everyone else doing?

 

[mrsmummy2]

My opks went from pretty faint to positive over night it seemed! I had a good positive monday, then blazing positive yesterday. Bit lighter today. FF seems to think O day was Monday so fx ill get 1 more high temp tomorrow to get crosshairs then we wait...
Im so hoping this cycle will be mine. My due date should be Christmas day if it is!!

Fx for you

 

[Poppiebug]

Oh I'm so excited for you girls W8ting and mrsmummy! Have fun doing that BD. I'm sending your way.

CD6 here, finally AF has buggered off. I'll grab a clearblue ovulation kit tomorrow and probably start testing in a day or two. I thought I wouldn't temp this cycle but I am, i like to have that confirmation of O but I'm telling myself not to stress too much. Last month i was waking at all hours, shoving the thermometer in mouth, trying to get temps at like 2am! So I'd say nothing was really all that accurate anyway!

X

 

[mrsmummy2]

Thanks poppie if I'm honest.. ill be glad to be fully in the 2ww to give the BDing a rest

That's how i feel about temping. I wasn't going to do it at all.. then we got pg and then mc so i thought theres no way im not doing it now. Although i do find myself not getting as good a sleep because im anxious to see what my temp will be...! Sending you lots of luck for this cycle!!