Looking for TTC buddies after MC

[Poppiebug]

May I join? We thought we were done with kids, but then get pregnant this year only to lose it. Being pregnant again and all the hopes/dreams that go with it made me realize I really would love another baby if we can. Not too hopeful (turn 40 this year), but would like to try while we still can.

So sorry for your losses fides, welcome to our little support group. Here's hoping it won't be too long before your rainbow. x

 

[W8tingforbaby]

So sorry for your loss fides, these ladies are amazing and so supportive. They helped me out tremendously

 

[Poppiebug]

How is everyone doing??

6dpo here and you know I'm going to be caving and testing early, probably on the weekend. Send all the baby dust pretty please. Nothing really to report symptom wise, really trying not to symptom spot. Yeah I'll probably be super bummed next week if af shows up, but i have a few distractions coming up so hopefully that'll help a bit.

X

 

[BabyBrain80]

Hi ladies x

Congratulations w8ting!! I'm so happy for you. I hope everything is going ok

Welcome fides


Well, I've been keeping busy as we have a fundraiser for the nursery coming up and it's a big event that takes up a lot of time, so it's keeping me occupied. At home things haven't been good with my OH. To be honest I don't have the energy to even think about it or talk about it much. I don't know how to sort it out either.....he said if there aren't changes then he's gone. I think he just needs more appreciation for his work in the house (DIY going on, any cooking etc), for supporting us (he pays for nearly everything) he's angry at things left lying about or certain things not done....but there is so much to do! I can't explained myself anymore. So he has a fit about it every now and then but because I don't make big changes and I'm not house proud (it's a home with children and a dog, not a showroom) (my part time job also isn't a real job) he's gone proper off on one the past 2 weekends. Anyway I can only give you my side of things and i don't see what he's annoyed about which makes it worse. It's like living with a boss. Feel like I'm walking on eggshells constantly. I don't argue or say anything back now, any explanation is shot down, so I stay quiet.....it doesn't help but I really don't know what to say anymore.

So ttc.....well I don't think so. That's another thing, he really doesn't understand my grief.

I feel really hurt that clearly I don't mean enough to him if he would want to leave me cause the house isn't as tidy as he would want. Or that some things lying about make him think we (me or kids) don't appreciate the work and money he's put into renovating it.

 

[Poppiebug]

Oh BabyBrain, I'm so sorry you're having this difficult time with OH. I really don't know what to say but I hope you are looking after you.

 

[BabyBrain80]

Thanks Poppie, yeah I dont even know what to say! Hes been fine past few days. I guess Im just waiting for him to kick off again.

Good luck for testing this weekend. Got my fingers crossed for you

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Hey brain, so so sorry you are feeling such strain in your life. Its balance and me and my husband are the same he can be a housewife and I can be the depressed bum but we make it work! I would get spurts of energy and the house would be dazzling and at other times I'm just to tired to do anything. I'm feeling more down now that it's been 2 months since my last miscarriage and still no signs of ovulation or af! Maybe your OH doesn't know how to express himself so he gets mad about small stuff but sometimes for people like that they like to find some order in things like that.

I hope you guys work it out. The stress cannot be good for either you two and the kids. We are always here if you need x

 

[Poppiebug]

Tested today, 9dpo. BFN. Despite some other promising and weird symptoms this week (like metallic taste in my mouth) I had a tiny bit of pink cm last night and then some red this morning on wiping. So I think I'm probably out if it doesn't get heavier today, I'll test tomorrow but if I do get AF I'm going to go to the Dr this week and talk about stuff as really think that my LP is too short now as I've had spotting at like 9/10 dpo the last few months before AF.

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Don't count yourself out still poppie. I only get a positive at 14dpo. I'm 9 weeks and no period and no signs of ovulation still. Really feeling my body is broken. Just had weird spotting for a couple of times.. any ideas?

 

[Poppiebug]

Don't count yourself out still poppie. I only get a positive at 14dpo. I'm 9 weeks and no period and no signs of ovulation still. Really feeling my body is broken. Just had weird spotting for a couple of times.. any ideas?

So sorry you're still waiting peanut. Have you been to see your Dr at all?

 

[Poppiebug]

Just checking in. 11dpo, test still bfn Having some weird symptoms though, a little nausea, things taste funny and I'm a bit off my coffee (a prego symptom for me), still a bit of brown spotting on wiping but feel like there's more cm going on down there but hardly anything. Usually I've got a faint line at 11dpo in the past. Holding on to hope while there's no red AF flow going on and my temps aren't down yet.

I hope everyone else is doing ok. x

 

[W8tingforbaby]

Good luck poppie. Still got my fingers crossed for you!!

 

[BabyBrain80]

Thanks very much Peanut x things have been ok since I last posted but I still feel a bit hurt by his attitude. See how we go x

Got my fingers crossed Poppie, I had spotting like that when I've been pregnant. Most clear time was with ds1. we were on holiday in Australia and I had taken a test before we flew out, a wee but early but totally bfn, so didn't think anything else of it. Then on cd28 i had pink on wiping, and it was pinky brown for a couple of days, I genuinely thought it was just my period taking a few days to kick in. A few days later I noticed my nipples we big and dark so I took at test...bingo BFP!

Never had the same syptoms in any pregnancy and before a BFP there were no actual obvious symptoms until a good few days or weeks after it. I get symptoms when it's bfn lol

Good luck honey xxx

 

[Poppiebug]

CD1 Gutted

 

[Ella]

SS the witch got you Poppie

Not been around much lately, final exams and then I'm officially free of uni forever! Had my employment law exam today and then got another exam on thurs and it will all be over!

Hope all you lovely ladies are well, I started using OPKs this cycle because my last cycle was so short and I got my first positive this morn! Tested again this eve and still positive so guessing I should O soon?! Getting the BD-ing in anyway!

 

[flou]

Sorry the witch showed Poppie

 

[BabyBrain80]

Im so sorry Poppie

Good luck Ella....with exams and catching that egg!!

 

[imready4it]

I hope everyone is doing ok???? Haven’t seen anything in quite a few days on this thread.

 

[W8tingforbaby]

I hope everyone is doing ok???? Haven’t seen anything in quite a few days on this thread.

I was just thinking that same thing. I still peak in here because I miss everyone. My group I’m in right now is nice but it’s not u guys.

 

[Poppiebug]

I'm here, just had the worst week last week. AF, work issues and sickness

I'm going to chat to my Dr this week to see if maybe I need tests to see why it isn't happening for us just yet after happening so easy in the past. I know it's not really been that long in the scheme of things, but I'm not getting any younger or slimmer and I feel like depression is creeping in.

I hope everyone else is ok.

How are you feeling W8ting??