Looking for TTC buddies after MC

[W8tingforbaby]

I’m sorry poppie, hope your doctor can be of help
I’m ok just very nauseous all the time but so far so good. Still feel nervous because I miscarried at 6 weeks last time and I’m almost there so I won’t rest until Friday when I have my ultrasound.
I’m missing u ladies, the other group is great but not the same

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

Hey ladies how are you all? Poppie are you trying anything different on your cycles? When I was trying for 2 years I switched to the wellman pills and cup.. maybe try something different? So frustrating as I can imagine!

Ella, how are you and how long have you been ttc?

Brain I hope you are ok x

I think I have finally ovulated after 3 months! I got 3 positive ovulation strips the past 3 days so fingers crossed it's finally happened. I'm teaching a point of just accepting one!

Waiting fx for you. I was nervous second time at week 6 as that was the mark for me. Sadly week 6 came and it happened again.. second time it was easier to deal with. Fingers and toes crossed everything is going well as they do say the chances of a second miscarriage are low!

Imready I hope your pregnancy is treating you well. Have you had any flutters or cravings yet?

 

[flou]

poppie I totally get how you feel. When we decided to ttc number 2 I expected it to take awhile. It did when trying for my DS. But I caught straight away. Unfortunately I mc so I thought as it happened quickly I would have a break for a couple of months and then start ttc. 8 months later still waiting! Im 37 in July and hoping its not too late! Have been seriously thinking that maybe DS is all I need but then I worry if he will be missing out if he doesn't have a sibling and it makes me feel selfish for not continuing to try.

 

[imready4it]

Peanut, all is well. Thanks for asking. I haven’t had many flutters so I asked my dr at ththe last appointment ofibhad an anterior placenta and he confirmed I did. How disappointing!!! Every once in a while I will get some pressure way down low in my pelvis and he did say it was probably her. I go back next week and have another ultrasound. I’ll be 19w then. I can’t believe I am almost half way! No real cravings...no real symptoms at all in the middle of this 2nd trimester. It worri s me a lot. But my bump is growing so i guess she is as well.


Flou, I’m 40 so there’s always hope! I hope you get some answers soon!

 

[Poppiebug]

Thanks for the support ladies, I hate to be such a downer and whinging about it as I'm so lucky to already have kids. I know so many go through this without ever being blessed.

Last cycle I went on Vitex (taking every second day now), which seemed to help lengthen it back to about 28 days, but in saying that I didn't ovulate til CD 16/17 and I had some spotting start on 9dpo so my LP seems to be too short still If there is anything test wise we can do to see if there is an issue, I'd rather get onto it to sooner rather than later. My mum keeps reminding me that she was 39 when she had me, so I know there's still "time" but I am so impatient.

imready - glad to hear all is going ok

w8ting - I will be exactly the same at that 6 week mark. I don't think I'll be able to get excited about anything until I am feeling baby move next time. I am sure all will be well for you.

 

[Rainbobby18]

Anyone on cd3? I could use a cycle buddy.

 

[Poppiebug]

Anyone on cd3? I could use a cycle buddy.

I'm CD 9, but always here for chatting Rainbobby.


Saw my Dr today, she is of the thought that probably all is ok but just taking a little extra time, however she did refer me for a scan to do a follicle count and I guess a general check, which I'll go for next Thursday. Also will do bloods at about a week after Ovulation to check progesterone etc. We both agreed that we'll go through all this stuff this month and not need to worry because this will be my month.........hopefully

 

[Rainbobby18]

Thank you poppie

 

[fides]

Peanut, congrats on ovulating again!

I'm on CD8 here.

 

[Poppiebug]

CD13 today, think I'm gearing up to Ovulate. Flashing smiley on the OPK and EWCM today so that's looking good. So hoping this is THE month. I'll still go for my tests and things next week and see what they say.

How is everyone else doing??

 

[Ella]

Peanut, I'm good thank you, officially finished university now so looking forward to graduating in July! I've been TTC properly for around 3 months after my m/c back in Jan.


Had an operation Friday before last to remove a cyst from my left ovary. Op went well and managed to remove just the cyst and save my ovary so I was pleased with that.


Had a v faint BFP on IC today, against my better judgement did a CB digi and BFN... Not at all surprised considering how faint the BFP was on IC but DH saw the line too so I'm convinced it wasn't line eye! Feeling cautiously optimistic but also the most impatient person in the world lol

Fingers crossed this is your month Poppie!!

Hope you're all well x

 

[W8tingforbaby]

Good luck Ella fingers crossed

 

[Ella]

CD1

 

[Poppiebug]

So sorry you're back on CD1 ella. Really sucks when you start to get your hopes up and the witch shows up.

I'm on CD16, don't think I've ovulated yet, my digi opk still says high with the flashing smiley guy. I have been going through a bit of work stress at the moment so hopefully that isn't going to affect me. Still going for my scan tomorrow so might get to see where we're at with that.

 

[imready4it]

Poppie, any news from your scan?

I’m 19w1 today and had a scan. LO measured at 11oz! That seems a little heavy....don’t you think? I wonder how accurate the measurements are. The other measurements seemed good. Dr did say he recommended I go to the high risk dr to get a more in depth scan and discuss possible genetic issues since I’m 40. Now I’m waiting to get that scheduled.

 

[Poppiebug]

Poppie, any news from your scan?

I’m 19w1 today and had a scan. LO measured at 11oz! That seems a little heavy....don’t you think? I wonder how accurate the measurements are. The other measurements seemed good. Dr did say he recommended I go to the high risk dr to get a more in depth scan and discuss possible genetic issues since I’m 40. Now I’m waiting to get that scheduled.

That's exciting you're almost half way!! I have no idea about how they work out how big babies are in there, I'm sure I've heard people be told their baby will be huge like 10lbs and its only 8lb or so in the end. I hope everything else goes ok with you.

No news on the scan, I'll go see my Dr next Thursday for results. The technician didn't really give anything away although she did take lots of pictures of things in there, which given I was there for a follicle count, meant that these were follies?? Anyway I'll wait and see. I also need to have the blood test, but I still don't know if I've ovulated yet, so that probably won't be until next week anyway. We're BD-ing none the less, so hopefully if and when I do Ovulate, something good happens. Although this week has been awfully stressful, things are starting to calm down now but geeeeeeeezzzzz!!

 

[Rainbobby18]

I think I'm gearing up to O over the weekend. I only have a couple insems with my donor this cycle so :shrugs: it could go either way...

 

[Poppiebug]

I think I'm gearing up to O over the weekend. I only have a couple insems with my donor this cycle so :shrugs: it could go either way...

Good luck, I hope you manage to get that eggy.

Finally got the Peak on my Digi Opk yesterday, but also a bright glaring positive today, still getting O pains so I'm assuming it's just about to happen. I'm on CD20 so the stress of work things must have really delayed me this month. Poor DH is a bit worn out!!

 

[PeanutWhereRU]

CD1.. I write this with tears in my eyes and no hope left in my heart. I'm pretty sure now that I'm giving up.

 

[Poppiebug]

CD1.. I write this with tears in my eyes and no hope left in my heart. I'm pretty sure now that I'm giving up.

Oh hun. I'm so so sorry. I can feel your pain. Xx