Looking forward to no more pregnancy dreams!

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  1. craftymama

    craftymama Mama of 3!

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    Ugh I just want to dream about something other than my kids or husbanf being harmed..and I can't seem to do that. Seems to make me feel better to talk about them, and this one really shook me up. Last night I had the worst one yet:

    I didn't know what was going on through like the majority of the dream really. Through out the dream I was making all these plans to get people together and gathering flowers. I was picking fresh flowers and people were helping me. People kept looking at me with such sad eyes. Then I would break into tears and cry a bit and go back to my planning. It seemed to go on forever like that. Then finally we started driving somewhere, and it ended up being a cemetery. We walked right to the spot we were headed, and from a bit of a distance I could see all this pink stuff around the headstone we were headed towards. I started to shake and sob and then when we got close I sat down on a bench that was in front of the stone and set the flowers near it along with a letter. There were tons of letters there, all saying "Love Mama". Then I saw the stone and it said my 5 year old daughter Lily's name and the death date said 2014. For some reason that was all I could see of the death date.I woke up shaking and crying uncontrollably. I have yet to have a good pregnancy dream and just wish this would stop!
     
  2. Rymel12

    Rymel12 Well-Known Member

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    I'm having bad dreams as well. Two nights ago, I dreamt that everyone was trying to kill me-strangers, friends, coworkers. I just kept running away from every single person I got near as they were all armed and vocalized wanting to hurt me. I woke up covered in sweat. I too could do without the pregnancy dreams. :wacko:
     
  3. craftymama

    craftymama Mama of 3!

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    This is my 3rd pregnancy, my first two I only really remember having a couple of these types of dreams. This time its been easily 3-5 nights a week since late first tri. I don't know if I just have a lot of worries I'm not aware I have or if its epic hormones. Either way, I'm so freaking over it. What sleep I do get between peeing and being kicked and everything hurting is riddled with awful scenarios in which I usually lose the people who mean the most to.me, and feel all too real.
     
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    Amsan Well-Known Member

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    We're almost there! :hugs: I know it doesn't help. I've had some pretty horrific ones too.
     
  5. craftymama

    craftymama Mama of 3!

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    I'm hoping it ends soon! The date on the stone creeps me out to no end. She's home from school sick today, and all I can do is stare at her and think about this dream.
     
  6. zanDark

    zanDark <3 IVF mom <3

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    The nightmares are terrible aren't they?? :hugs::nope: I wonder what causes them!

    I try not to dwell on them once I wake up...I know it's easier said than done, but just try to think that it's just hormones and our anxieties freaking us out while we sleep! :hugs::kiss:
     
  7. whittnie117

    whittnie117 Well-Known Member

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    Awe :hugs:, I've been having those really vivid pregnancy dreams too. The nightmares are the worst. I'd say I only have the night mares once a week or so, thank goodness. Though I think I have gone through agonizing labor in my dreams at least 20 times since reaching third trimester. I got my first vivid pregnancy dream a few days before my BFP. I was chasing after a little baby girl (Im having a boy) and she was on a ledge of a tree house :shrug: and just reaching crawling stage. I finally caught up to her and grabbed her up and said, "my baby" and woke up. I went out and bought pregnancy tests a day later and took them ALL, lol. But yea, I keep having labor dreams and it's painful.
     
  8. teacup22

    teacup22 Mummy of 2

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    Horrid isn't it... Stupid hormones!
    I woke up sobbing after a horrible dream about my mum dying :cry:
    It's going to be a crappy day looking after DS on little to no sleep :(
     

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