Hi ladies, I am new here but need some positive wishes and support. My husband and I have been basically TTC'ing for almost 6 years. 6 years ago I had an ectopic pregnancy and had to have surgery. It ruptured and I lost one tube. I had the test 3 months later (ink/dye test) to make sure my remaining ovary and tube were open and useful. LOL. That came back very well (although I'll give everybody some advice, they tell you take a Tylenol a couple hours before, my suggestion, take lots, it hurts soooo bad I actually screamed.)
Anyways, 6 years later, still have not gotten pregnant, not even a miscarriage, nada! We were not officially trying (not preventing but not tracking) until about a year ago. We got married this past Valentines Day and thought that it would happen during our honeymoon but nope. So I've been tracking days ritually, our BDing, AF's and using OPK's. I have an extremely short cycle. 23 days and it's like clockwork. AF and O comes on time every single month. We BD exactly when we are suppose to and it hasent happened. We are so prepared to have a little bundle of joy in our lives but I'm losing hope. Month after month I symptom spot and track and for some reason I have hope every month but deep down inside I feel like it will never happen for us. I've cried, I've prayed I've researched I don't know what else to do. I went to the doctor 4 months ago and they referred me to a fertility specialist. I have my first appointment in 1 month tomorrow. I'm sorry to vent so much but I'm lost. Every month gets harder. 6 years since I got pregnant, I just don't get it. I'm 28 years old my DH is turning 31 next week, it should take under a year for us.
Anyways, 6 years later, still have not gotten pregnant, not even a miscarriage, nada! We were not officially trying (not preventing but not tracking) until about a year ago. We got married this past Valentines Day and thought that it would happen during our honeymoon but nope. So I've been tracking days ritually, our BDing, AF's and using OPK's. I have an extremely short cycle. 23 days and it's like clockwork. AF and O comes on time every single month. We BD exactly when we are suppose to and it hasent happened. We are so prepared to have a little bundle of joy in our lives but I'm losing hope. Month after month I symptom spot and track and for some reason I have hope every month but deep down inside I feel like it will never happen for us. I've cried, I've prayed I've researched I don't know what else to do. I went to the doctor 4 months ago and they referred me to a fertility specialist. I have my first appointment in 1 month tomorrow. I'm sorry to vent so much but I'm lost. Every month gets harder. 6 years since I got pregnant, I just don't get it. I'm 28 years old my DH is turning 31 next week, it should take under a year for us.