Lost our baby Friday =(

Discussion in 'Miscarriage Support' started by btfljenny, Apr 5, 2011.

  1. btfljenny

    btfljenny Well-Known Member

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    I was almost 11 weeks. I noticed bleeding Friday and called my nurse right away, she told me to rest and call if it got worse. I went to work the next day and as soon as I got home I was bleeding. I called my Dr the next morning and they had me come in right away. Just from my description he was pretty sure it was a miscarriage =(
    He did an exam, tried to hear a heartbeat and we did an ultra sound. Me and my OH are pretty upset. Dealing with it in two VERY different ways, but were inseparable right now.
    He was super excited to be a dad and has cried everyday since (he's not a crier) so it makes me sad to see him like this. I'm still numb to it, I've barely cried. I'm still not exactly sure what I'm feeling right now.
    It's hard. I know that...
     
  2. aviolet

    aviolet Mommy of 1 angel

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    I am so sorry, but it is good you have your OH to lean on - many men don't like to show their tears, so that's actually very strong of your OH to cry and share his pain with you when you both need each other the most. best of prayers to you :hugs:
     
  3. Andypanda6570

    Andypanda6570 3 Boys and an Angel Ava

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    I am so deeply sorry for your loss :cry: I lost my Ava 5 weeks ago at 18 weeks and I am still devastated. I just hope this gets easier. :cry::cry::cry:
     
  4. SarahJane

    SarahJane Well-Known Member

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    I am so sorry for your loss :hugs:
     
  5. HollieQ

    HollieQ Well-Known Member

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    I'm so sorry :cry::hugs:
     
  6. Alpinestars

    Alpinestars Well-Known Member

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    I'm So sorry My MC also started Friday devastating :cry:
    Im thinking of you and all the ladies on here
    Take care
    Jo
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  7. StephBord

    StephBord PAL

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    I am very sorry for your loss. :hugs:
     
  8. Ducktales

    Ducktales Well-Known Member

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    i am so sorry for your loss.
    My husband also cried a lot - the first time i ever saw him cry, but i promise it gets easier, i dont think the grief gets any less, you just find you can deal with it better as the days go on. I am 6 weeks after my MC and feeling more positive and not so tearful with the exception of a few teary moments now and then
    take care and take the time to deal with it in whatever ever way is best for you
    xxxx
     
  9. pink_bow

    pink_bow Mummy

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    So sorry for your loss sweetie :hugs: xx
     

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