An angel in the book of life wrote down your babies birth,
Then whispered as she closed the book,
"Too beautiful for the Earth"
Sending lots of hugs your way hun, cant even begin to imagine what your going through xxxxx
Thank you! This is actually 1 of 2 quotes/verses we chose to put on our babies head stone. They were laid to rest this morning in one of the most beautiful cemeteries in our state, that has a section called "Lullaby Land". It's specially dedicated to stillborns and infants and is such a beautiful place. We did have my parents hold them after they were born and I'm glad we did. My parents are glad they were able to say goodbye as well. We did put their pictures on our bedroom dresser and they were very beautiful peaceful pictures. My husband's boss went to the HR department at his work and asked that he be granted bereavement leave, which they had no issue with. Any pregnancy loss after 20 weeks is deemed a death and not a miscarriage by the company. He'll be returning to work Monday, which I feel is more than appropriate. I think he would have been fine going back today, but his boss asked that he take until Monday. It makes it easier to pick up the pieces and move on when he's able to be home for a few days.
We truly do appreciate everyone's support through this. We've been shocked and thankful for the support from our family and friends as well. Initially I never wanted to get pregnant ever again, but we've decided to take a semi permanent route, so that in 3-4yrs when our boys are in 1st grade we can try again if we want. My doctor said that I would always regret doing something perm immediately after, and my husband and I think she's right. We did want some answers and I guess it brought some comfort know it's not really anything I had any control over, but makes trying again not something I want to do again either.