LTTC with 'unexplained' infertility?

[babyvaughan]

Wow- We are so similar with this.

I suffer from Migrane's to it was passed down from my mother,
but I actually have auto-immune diease that is passed through genetic's
so I thought about that but I will be tested to see if my baby has it,
it's nothing life threatening but can be very painful if not controlled!

So I've been checking my cervix for the last few day's just to see its always
hard and position changes but in generally low!

Well today it's like medium is spot but it's actually soft!!
It's never been soft, ( I never check at O timing because I know I O)
I always check around my period time but where the opening on my cervix is,
it's soft That can be a sign of Prego! I'm try not to get excited but I kinda am
a little haha! 3 days til AF is due! Praying god gave me my miracle!!

 

[HearMyPrayers]

My fingers are tightly crossed for you babyvaughan I hope this is your miracle!

 

[babyvaughan]

Thank You, I just keep praying that god blesses me with a baby!

If it's not this month I have a feeling in my heart it will be soon!

 

[HearMyPrayers]

Thank You, I just keep praying that god blesses me with a baby!

If it's not this month I have a feeling in my heart it will be soon!

I love your attitude!

 

[babyvaughan]

Not sure if witch has arrived or not I had a dot of brown when I checked my underwear after shopping. I'm going to see if it continues or increase's I felt it happen like 2 hours ago and no more since then but I guess i'll see!

 

[HearMyPrayers]

Not sure if witch has arrived or not I had a dot of brown when I checked my underwear after shopping. I'm going to see if it continues or increase's I felt it happen like 2 hours ago and no more since then but I guess i'll see!

don't lose hope, its not over till AF rears her ugly face! Could be worse, you could be in my shoes, spotted for 3 weeks, then got my period a week and a half ago and I'm still bleeding... depressed.

 

[babyvaughan]

I forgot to update but it was AF
I'm just going to take it easy these next two months,
I'm going to enjoy myself lastnight I went out with DH
had a couple drink's it was nice to relax.

We are getting him checked urologist, and then SA for the first
time on monday but after that if he has no issues we are just going
to NTNP for 2 months and relax!

This many years of ttc has taken it's tole on me!

 

[HearMyPrayers]

I'm sorry babyvaughan

I think a couple months of is a great idea, try and relax don't think about anything regarding TTC and just enjoy yourself. Its a cruel place to be (infertility) but just keep the faith, do what you need to do in order to regroup and don't look focus on what all this hard work is for.

 

[popchick75]

Hi ladies! I find it interesting that most of you have not had a bfp in all of your years/months of ltttc. I'm in the same boat, but it seems that eventually most women have a chemical or miscarriage (not that i would wish for either of these things!) over time. I've been ltttc for 10 years with out a bfp....secondary unexplained infertility.

I've had about every test and procedure in the book, so at this point we're not actively trying anymore. If it happened it would be a welcome surprise, but i just don't have the energy for any more drs appts, shots, etc.

 

[babyvaughan]

Thanks, I feel more relaxed already!

We just got back for DH first Urology appt,
and doc checked him and he does both his
vas so that's good but he said for him to
get a SA (never had one before) We got the lab
sheet so now I just have to call to set that up!

But if it's not him then I'm going to wait til June
and in june i'll try fertility treatments!

 

[PyrusEK]

Hi ladies! I find it interesting that most of you have not had a bfp in all of your years/months of ltttc. I'm in the same boat, but it seems that eventually most women have a chemical or miscarriage (not that i would wish for either of these things!) over time. I've been ltttc for 10 years with out a bfp....secondary unexplained infertility.

I've had about every test and procedure in the book, so at this point we're not actively trying anymore. If it happened it would be a welcome surprise, but i just don't have the energy for any more drs appts, shots, etc.

After 10 years, I'm sure I would be (or will be, if that happens) right there with you as far as giving up. I'm almost 2 years in with no BFP, but I don't take tests at all unless I'm a few days past a missed period (rare) so I could be missing a chemical or something. I'm already way over the entire thing and considering going on hiatus from TTC.