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LTTTC, want to be buddies?

I had another miscarriage this month Ugh....I just want my sticky bean.
 
Awe!! jeoestreich! I didnt even know you had gotten a BFP?!! :cry: I'm so sorry to hear that!! We're here for you girl :hugs:
 
OMG! I'm shaking so much right now! I had a positive test! POSITIVE! The pics are in my journal if you would like to see, but there are (faintly) 2 clear lines! I called my OB's office and they are having me come in and do a blood test today!!

Pray for me! I want this to be a sticky bean so badly!!
 
WHAT HAPPENED WITH THE BLOOD TEST?!?!? YAY I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!

I POAS again today, and the test never showed a control line :| Didnt feel like going back out so I'll just HAVE to wait until Wednesday I guess. YAY FOR DODGERCPKL!!
 
WHAT HAPPENED WITH THE BLOOD TEST?!?!? YAY I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!

I POAS again today, and the test never showed a control line :| Didnt feel like going back out so I'll just HAVE to wait until Wednesday I guess. YAY FOR DODGERCPKL!!

I should have the results tomorrow (hopefully!)!! I'm soooo :happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance: right now! :D

Ugh without the control line it means the test was a bust. I'm hoping for great things on wednesday for you!!! :D
 
Awe!! jeoestreich! I didnt even know you had gotten a BFP?!! :cry: I'm so sorry to hear that!! We're here for you girl :hugs:

I got one last Monday and Tuesday. Then by Friday it was negative. I was without a computer last week so I wasn't on anywhere.
 
Awe, I'm so sorry :cry: I was wondering why we hadn't heard from you in a few days. Maybe it'll be your chance for the new year! :hugs:

Dodgercpkl, You have to let us know as soon as you hear anything!! Yeah, I was bummed about the test, but only one more day. My appt is early in the day, so I'll know pretty early whether this is it, or I need to start another round! I really hope this is it, I'm not sure if it isnt that I can tell what the symptoms of pregnancy are...Cause I've had so many I just don't know lol. So I'd like to say if I am not, and I start another month that I won't symptom spot I'll just wait it out. But lets get real, who can really do that?!?!
 
WHAT HAPPENED WITH THE BLOOD TEST?!?!? YAY I'M SO HAPPY FOR YOU!!!

I POAS again today, and the test never showed a control line :| Didnt feel like going back out so I'll just HAVE to wait until Wednesday I guess. YAY FOR DODGERCPKL!!

I should have the results tomorrow (hopefully!)!! I'm soooo :happydance::happydance::happydance::happydance: right now! :D

Ugh without the control line it means the test was a bust. I'm hoping for great things on wednesday for you!!! :D

Any news?? I'm living in hope through you guys :happydance:

I know this is WAY tmi but im trying that hard this month that if I do OV, there will be no chance of missing it as we are BD like it's going out of fashion! :blush:
 
sammylou: Haha, thats what we did! We were BDing like CRAZY! Every other night so his little swimmers had time to recuperate lol. And I hiked my butt in the air after wards so gravity could help lol. Ohhh, I'm so excited for tomorrow (: I hope you get a BFP this month too! What CD are you on??
 
I'd be excited too!! You have to let us know when you get back!!

Only CD14 so still early but thanks to ac my cycles having been pretty much 1 a month so half way through if you look at it that way! Took Soya too this month so hoping i might have ov.

Off to see the doctors still friday to get my referral for clomid and get my lapdye done to check no other problems as it were!

Finally feels like things are moving for all of us and let me tell you after 3 years of on and off ttc, about time!
 
Haha, I hear ya!
I was soooooo ready to start Clomid, but I was so scared too because my insurance won't start until January. I figured I couldn't afford it, but when I got my refund check from school I decided I was going to do it no matter what. And it was only $9 at walmart!! I mean come on! I got three refills on it, and if that don't work then I go back and get more at a higher dose. But I'm hoping it worked haha. I want to be one of them people that clomid worked on my first round!! But then again, who doesnt? lol
 
Well exactly, we all want it to work first time round!

Well the big day is finally here, will be keeping this page closely monitored lol!
 
Sorry I disappeared yesterday ladies. The blood work came back negative and that put me in... well.... let's just say I wasn't in a happy place yesterday. This morning I'm feeling better, but still so confused as I'm still getting positive HPT's within the time limits. I don't know what to think. I've taken SOOO many HPT's over the course of the last year and a 1/2 and none of them have ever even showed a glimmer of a chance, so I can't quite wrap my mind around these being false positives.

Anyway, I'm just going to try and sit back and relax a bit and let the world take a few turns while I just keep an eye on things and see what the next week brings. I want to try and get a copy of the blood test for my records as well.
 
Well, I seen the two separate tests on your journal that had a second line. I mean, its pretty unlikely to be getting a bunch of "evaporation lines". And I do know that blood tests can be falsely negative, so just keep hope. Especially if you keep POAS and getting two lines. I've always heard that an hpt is WAY more likely to give false negatives than false positives. So the odds are with you! And I've also always heard a line is a line is a line. So no matter if its SUPER faint or DARK AS HECK, you're preggy :) So fingers, toes, and elbows crossed that things keep getting better for you!!

I have my DR appt in a little over an hour. I'm soooooo sleepy and hungry, but I'm feeling a little nauseous. I think from the excitement. My friend told me that if I am, by now they should be able to tell from a physical examination. Based on how my cervix is and my uterus and whatnot. Well, I know my cervix is SUPER high and pretty soft. Which I don't believe is normal. I mean, its usually pretty high, but not that hard to find. And its usually like the tip of my nose, but it just kinds moves around when I touch it now. Which means 1 of two things. I am pregnant, OR I'm just in a very infertile part of my cycle. So both are possible. AHHH, I can't wait. I'll post as soon as I find anything out, good or bad! Keep your fingers crossed!! :)
 
Dodgercpkl :hugs:

Im keeping things crossed that the bloods are wrong too, after all how can you still keep getting positives when you're not??

Our bodies are so weird sometimes!

I'm currently at the checking for dc and getting down that not seeing anything good, even though my husband thinks im nuts, and a little bit gross when I tell him about it.

Keep your head up hun and until any of us gets an AF, there is always chance!
 
Well, I seen the two separate tests on your journal that had a second line. I mean, its pretty unlikely to be getting a bunch of "evaporation lines". And I do know that blood tests can be falsely negative, so just keep hope. Especially if you keep POAS and getting two lines. I've always heard that an hpt is WAY more likely to give false negatives than false positives. So the odds are with you! And I've also always heard a line is a line is a line. So no matter if its SUPER faint or DARK AS HECK, you're preggy :) So fingers, toes, and elbows crossed that things keep getting better for you!!

I have my DR appt in a little over an hour. I'm soooooo sleepy and hungry, but I'm feeling a little nauseous. I think from the excitement. My friend told me that if I am, by now they should be able to tell from a physical examination. Based on how my cervix is and my uterus and whatnot. Well, I know my cervix is SUPER high and pretty soft. Which I don't believe is normal. I mean, its usually pretty high, but not that hard to find. And its usually like the tip of my nose, but it just kinds moves around when I touch it now. Which means 1 of two things. I am pregnant, OR I'm just in a very infertile part of my cycle. So both are possible. AHHH, I can't wait. I'll post as soon as I find anything out, good or bad! Keep your fingers crossed!! :)


Ok I have to ask, I hear all about checking the cervix stuff and have no idea what to check for, without going ott, what should I be looking for???:shrug:
 
Well, they did a pee test at the dr's and it came back negative. He didnt order a blood test even though I've been having symptoms like crazy. I was actually a little surprised but now I'm not sure what to do...I mean, I didn't need to spend $65 to take a pee test, I could do that at home for $1. He examined my breasts because I told him about the pain I'd been having, and he said they looked fine. But I'm still like what the hell? So I don't know if I should start the Provera again, or wait. I don't want to waste month after month if I'm not preggy, but then again...If I am I SURELY don't want to harm him/her. Taking Provera while pregnant would surely make me miscarry. Its all so annoying. I mean, its not like I would ever know if I did miscarry because I'm bringing on a period, but the thought of not knowing 100% for sure before starting another round of provera is just scarey. I mean, if I'm not I am sooooo ready to start trying again! Trying was so fun, and it brought me and my hubby closer. But its just the thought of MAYBE the test is wrong thats killing me. Anyone have any advice?


Oh, and sammylou to answer your question: When I'm feeling for my cervix I put one finger in "there" lol, and feel for my cervix. Your cervix is almost like a pencil in size, I guess you could say. Its long and skinny. And it will either feel like the tip of your nose when you touch it, or it will be soft and flexible. When its lower and firmer like you're nose is around the time of ovulation. Then it kinda goes a little higher up and softens. Usually meaning A) your pregnant! or B) your not fertile right now.
 
Bless you that is sooo rubbish, and like you said, to have to pay that much to get the same result you could have done at home :shrug:

I don't know what to suggest now as Id be worried like you.

IF and only IF this isn't a preggy, have you tried agnus castus to get your cycle down so then if you are back in this situation you'd KNOW it was because baby was in there? Im not sure if you said you've tried before (sorry long posts lol) but it has been a lifesaver for me. Ive gone from once every 3 months to 3 in the last 3 and I know that is very unusal for me.
 

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