midori1999
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Having a baby is tiring in the beginning, regardless of how you feed them.
It was a decision that you and your OH made so stick to it, you are the parents and no-one elses opinion is needed.
I combi feed, breastfeeding is so hard and tiring and as I understand it low iron makes you tired - so the two combined will be very hard! I am fit and healthy and I found it very very draining! If you are low on iron as well the quality of milk might not be as good - so breastfeeding isnt always best!!
Also I just want to add - I do both and i dont feel any extra bond breastfeeding then bottle feeding - if anything I enjoy bottlefeeding more as its not painful and more relaxing!
Just a tip dont stock up too much on formula as your LO might not get on with the one youve chosen - Ive already swapped twice!
You are not helping.
You may think you are helping.
You are not.
There are those of us that had "support", "knowledge", "lactation consultants","dual electric pumps," "fenugreek", etc., and were UNABLE to BF our children.
That was me first pregnancy.
This time, a lengthy hospitalization, 3 CT scans and drugs I could not expose a newborn to.
No one cares about a study when they are dealing with depression and guilt over not being able to breastfeed their child.
This is the formula feeding forum. We don't come here to be lectured about breastfeeding.
I do not mean to sound harsh. I drove to the river in the city I live in 7 years ago and contemplated driving my car into it over not being able to breastfeed my son. Women on the internet tipped me into suicidal thoughts.
On a so-called breastfeeding support website, the forums were full of such sage advice as "formula causes cancer", "it's rat poison in a can", "your child will be sickly, get cancer and have a low IQ", and such statements as, "I could never be friends with a "bottle feeder." I was shunned in real life by
breastfeeding mothers. I BOTTLE FED in public restrooms because I was afraid of beign accosted.
Breastfeeding pressure is intense, and though well meaning, I am not the only woman who has experienced this. I know that therapists see a lot of women who have to be counseled over this. I had to get counseling.
I thought the formula feeding forum was "safe," but I don't think I'll be back in here anymore either.
Summer Rain, it is a complete and TOTAL FALSEHOOD THAT i CAME INTO THE BF SECTION AND SAID THAT! Here is the entire post that you are talking about. NOWHERE DID I SAY THAT SHE WOULD HAVE TO SWITCH TO FORMULA.
*With my first son, I had GD and I was very shocked at how bad his blood sugars were after birth. My case is on the extreme side, but it CAN happen.
My blood sugars were not that bad really, but the week before his birth, they did spike. When my son was born, his blood sugars were very low. He sank all the way to an 18; for a point of reference, a baby should be around 40, and can go into a coma at 15. Colostrum was not going to bring a baby up from 18 to a normal range.
With my second baby, (I am now a Type 2 diabetic) he had blood sugar issues as well, though not as severe.
You can cup or syringe feed to bring blood sugars up in an infant. It is very scary when their lips are trembling and they are near a coma. Supplemental feeding is life saving in those instances.
As far as GD/diabetes, I did have problems with breastfeeding, which I won't go into here. Diabetic women do often have issues breastfeeding. Lactation consultants that have a lot of experience with diabetic mothers will confirm this. Impossible? No, but each individual situation is different.
Your baby may or may not have blood sugar issues after birth. There is a lot of variance. Since they know you have GD, they will monitor him. Sad seeing the little bandage on the heel from the pokes, but it is necessary*