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Dreamer88
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So there isnt much anyone can say or do but i needed to let it out and hopfully get some support and advice
i was going to breast feed but after alot of thought, research and discussions with hubby , mw ect iv opted to formula feed. For many reasons, one being my iron count is extremely low (last count was 6) iv tried all kids off iron supliments over the years and it never gets higher than 8, mw said if i want to breastfeed i could however i may not be able to supply ample iron for both of us but my body will priorities the baby, also that the baby could become anemic and need iron supliments later on, i decided that i would not want to put either of us through that & mw agreed that a happy mummy is more important than breast vs bottle debate.
so was happy with my choice bought a tub of cow & gate with my shopping last week and thought id stock up a little on formula. Well last night MIL rang and i don't normally talk to her as she is a pain but i thought id be civil she was telling me how hubby used to prjectile vomit after feeding and i told her i was going to formula well i got a whole rant about how "im doing the wrong thing" and "i best think careful before finalising this choice as my babys health is more important that the young popular option". I explained about my iron ect she told me "i was a lier and was just saying that so people didnt think im selfish, which i am being!"
I sobbed my heart out to hubby when he was home, he rang her and had ago but to me the damage was all done and now im thinking everyone thinks the same of me Why can people not CHOOSE to formula feed without other peoples opinions, why do i need to justify my choice
i was going to breast feed but after alot of thought, research and discussions with hubby , mw ect iv opted to formula feed. For many reasons, one being my iron count is extremely low (last count was 6) iv tried all kids off iron supliments over the years and it never gets higher than 8, mw said if i want to breastfeed i could however i may not be able to supply ample iron for both of us but my body will priorities the baby, also that the baby could become anemic and need iron supliments later on, i decided that i would not want to put either of us through that & mw agreed that a happy mummy is more important than breast vs bottle debate.
so was happy with my choice bought a tub of cow & gate with my shopping last week and thought id stock up a little on formula. Well last night MIL rang and i don't normally talk to her as she is a pain but i thought id be civil she was telling me how hubby used to prjectile vomit after feeding and i told her i was going to formula well i got a whole rant about how "im doing the wrong thing" and "i best think careful before finalising this choice as my babys health is more important that the young popular option". I explained about my iron ect she told me "i was a lier and was just saying that so people didnt think im selfish, which i am being!"
I sobbed my heart out to hubby when he was home, he rang her and had ago but to me the damage was all done and now im thinking everyone thinks the same of me Why can people not CHOOSE to formula feed without other peoples opinions, why do i need to justify my choice