MrsPear
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Just interested in what people think of male midwives (if any opinion at all) after reading this article. I really couldn't care less if my midwife is male or female. In fact, some idiot male once told me they were a midwife and I didn't bat an eyelid, and he got all offended asking does he really look like a midwife? Well I don't exactly have this clear vision of a midwife in my head so the joke was kind of lost on me.
Someone said to me that they don't really understand why a man would become a midwife. I don't really get that mentality either. Like, my husband is an endoscopist. He spends all day every day doing colonoscopies. I mean, on a superficial level, why would anyone want to do that? But it's not about looking at bottoms and poo, like being a midwife isn't about looking at birth canals. My OH does it because it's a useful job that diagnoses bowel cancer and needs someone who is understanding and skilled and empathetic and knowledgeable and caring and trustworthy, and he is all of those things. I would have thought (hoped) that man or woman, anyone could potentially feel the desire to support women bringing new life into the world and be responsible for guiding and educating them, and helping them, and looking after them, and acting in an emergency, and diagnosing problems for them, and listening to them and so on.
What do other people think? And if you would rather not have a male midwife (I won't judge btw, it is a personal choice- a lot of things in healthcare people do feel that they want to be treated by someone of the same sex and there are also cultural reasons, so even though I don't feel that way I am not judging it) how would you feel with a male obstetrician?
Someone said to me that they don't really understand why a man would become a midwife. I don't really get that mentality either. Like, my husband is an endoscopist. He spends all day every day doing colonoscopies. I mean, on a superficial level, why would anyone want to do that? But it's not about looking at bottoms and poo, like being a midwife isn't about looking at birth canals. My OH does it because it's a useful job that diagnoses bowel cancer and needs someone who is understanding and skilled and empathetic and knowledgeable and caring and trustworthy, and he is all of those things. I would have thought (hoped) that man or woman, anyone could potentially feel the desire to support women bringing new life into the world and be responsible for guiding and educating them, and helping them, and looking after them, and acting in an emergency, and diagnosing problems for them, and listening to them and so on.
What do other people think? And if you would rather not have a male midwife (I won't judge btw, it is a personal choice- a lot of things in healthcare people do feel that they want to be treated by someone of the same sex and there are also cultural reasons, so even though I don't feel that way I am not judging it) how would you feel with a male obstetrician?