I also have a male OB and I find him better than the female dr I was originally seeing.
At one point, I had booked an emergency appointment because I thought something was wrong with me because of terrible back contractions. When I saw her, she literally seemed to roll her eyes and be bored with my "panic" because she herself was pregnant and I felt like she was like "oh get over it, its not that bad".
With my new male OB, even though he knows when things are normal, he'll at least look empathetic and listen to my concerns first before dismissing them.
At one point, I had booked an emergency appointment because I thought something was wrong with me because of terrible back contractions. When I saw her, she literally seemed to roll her eyes and be bored with my "panic" because she herself was pregnant and I felt like she was like "oh get over it, its not that bad".
With my new male OB, even though he knows when things are normal, he'll at least look empathetic and listen to my concerns first before dismissing them.