Mama Bears TTC a rainbow - join us :)-- (69 ladies so far)-(29 BFP's!)

[Wishing1010]

Soanxious, I understand how you feel but maybe you should give your body a break just for once cycle. It may feel like forever in TTC world but you don't want to have scar tissue or anything clogging up your tubes from lots and lots of MC, especially back to back.

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks all... just so messed up in head

 

[Wishing1010]

You aren't messed up, you have just been through far too much recently. Maybe try to focus more on OH than TTC this cycle. Enjoy yourself this month

 

[GingerPanda]

What the others are saying is spot on. I don't think you'd forgive yourself if you tried, had another loss, did the testing, then found out there was a simple fix. I know it's gonna be hard, though hon. Sending hugs!

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks girls x

 

[confuzion]

I agree with everyone soanxious. 5 early losses does indicate a problem. It's worth it to wait and do the tests. But I know it's hard .

GP - FX the inositol does the trick and helps you ovulate, lose weight, and all that good stuff! Hoping your RPL testing either gives you an answer with an easy fix or reassures you that nothing is wrong

 

[Soanxious]

Im going to ask for a new consultant.. as even my OH said that my consultant just seemed to think I was wasting her time.. she was not interested in helping me, she only agreed to the blood tests when I said well something must be wrong.. she just put it down to the age of my eggs she was not interested.

 

[confuzion]

Definitely pays to have a caring health professional. If they're not giving you the attention you deserve find a new one immediately!

 

[GingerPanda]

What a bitch. I'm sorry she's treating you like that. I think you should find someone better, too.

 

[Wishing1010]

Definitely get a new doc!!! Took over 3 years for me to find one that actually wanted to help us. FX you find a new and good one soon!

 

[Soanxious]

Im just hoping its not too late to go on another friggin waiting list wish I had money to go private.. x

 

[Leinzlove]

I had 4 early losses. I saw the Dr. and he said he'd send me to a fertility specialist if I had another...

One loss is to many. Definitely get a new Dr.

 

[Soanxious]

saw my gp she said that my consultant wanted 2 tests 6 weeks apart.. I said well she only gave me one lot of blood test paperwork and told me to have tests 6 weeks after a pregnancy.. so she said go get bloods done now and then again in 6 weeks so dont get pregnant.. hopefully we can find the cause and maybe there is something that can help.. she said you are very fortunate to be able to get pregnant so easily so dont worry about taking a cycle off.. so she wrote me a 2nd bloods form and told me to use the 1st one off consultant today and one she wrote up in 6 weeks... she said because of bank holiday it may be 2 weeks before my consultant gets results from 1st lot of tests and it may be worth while contacting her secretary then to see what is happening.. she said she will inform her of my further 2 miscarriages as they were unaware.

 

[Button#]

Sounds like they're on the ball and trying to help.

 

[Squig34]

Soanxious - I agree with Button and your GP - I was also going to say that you and your OH seem to be a very fertile couple so FX you will fall pg again easily once it's time to try again, but I think for your own sanity, it's better to take a break and get these tests, plus give yourself some time to recover emotionally. Plan some nice things for yourselves Some consultants if you see them once privately will refer you onto their NHS waiting list. There is still some waiting around, but you don't have to wait to wait, if you know what I mean. Would that be an option for you, to go to one private session?

GP - FX the Insolitol does the trick for you And great news that your doc has agreed to start off some testing for you.

 

[Renaendel]

I am glad you are considering getting a new consultant. You need answers, and unfortunately those of us of AMA don't have as much time as the others. I did have to wait a cycle for my testing, but it was worth it, hands down.

What blood tests are they having you start on?

 

[GingerPanda]

Day two of inositol, and my weird, persistent brown CM has completely gone away! Coincidence? Maybe. Maybe not!

 

[Soanxious]

Thanks girls.. well I may possibly go and get a private consultation if I get no proper treatment from my consultant... will see what happens in next few weeks..

The blood tests I am having are for the clotting and antibody tests. Antiphospholipid Antibodies testing x

 

[confuzion]

GP - yay no brown CM! Hoping the inositol is doing it!

soanxious - FX you'll be well on your way to your rainbow soon enough.

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Confuzion are you still taking baby aspirin? What was your reviews on it? Anyone else using it? I am thinking of trying it since we have a family history of blood clotting problems. At the moment I am thinking of trying anything because if I have to wait until June for the docs appointment I might waste a cycle if it's something small I can treat myself. It will be end of June then before I get answers IF the doc would test me. My old gynae never came back to me after phoning him and I left a message. A week later and still no answer. I am scared the new doc will take just as long then.

Give me all your tips and advice that you can give please.