Mama Bears TTC a rainbow - join us :)-- (69 ladies so far)-(29 BFP's!)

[Squig34]

Sorry for your loss, Hayles. My AFs generally come back around 28-30 days after a m/c (my regular cycle is 28/29 days).

Bug - yay for crosshairs and TWW!

 

[lesh07]

As my due date approaches my heart is breaking all over again.

It might have been easier if i was pregnant again but no luck.

 

[lesh07]

No strong line on my o test yet either.

 

[Wishing1010]

I'm sorry, Lesh. It does get hard when due dates approach but I know you will have yor rainbow soon

 

[GingerPanda]

So sorry, Hayles and Lesh.

I managed to get pregnant right before my due date with the first pregnancy. Then miscarried again right after. Suuuucked!




AF still hasn't shown.

Getting tired of waiting on her, even though I'm kind of glad the two-weeks-on/two-weeks-off thing isn't happening. I was worried I was going to become anemic or something!

 

[Wishing1010]

Hmm...GP, I hope she shows or stays away for 9 months! No more head games!

 

[Pixiedust22]

Sorry GP... I'm waiting for AF too. Does anyone know how long it normally takes after post-labour bleeding?

 

[laurac1988]

So thankful that the bleeding has almost stopped after my MC. As soon as there is no more blood I will do a hpt to make sure it's negative and then on to OPKing...

 

[Squig34]

Sorry Pixie, I don't know How are you coping?

GP - so odd. I hope they are able to figure out soon what is going on for you!

Laura - good that the bleeding has almost stopped.

Lesh - due dates are hard I don't have any more due dates now til October, when I have two, then Christmas and then January I also hope I'm pregnant with my rainbow before that run.

 

[GingerPanda]

I'm sure it's just PCOS shenanigans. I know I'm not pregnant- It'd be a miracle if I was.

 

[Pixiedust22]

AF has come! I'm scared now though. I can't wait to start trying but I really haven't been well since Oscar was born and I'm still on sleeping tablets. I was going to try to come off them this coming week anyway but I'm worried I won't be able to. I need to be off them before I get pregnant again...

 

[Bug222]

so sorry lesh- im not looking forward to the due dates

pixie- could you transition yourself to something to mellow you a little like sleepy tea? Im sorry you are still struggling xxx

 

[Pixiedust22]

I can go to sleep without it but I wake up loads and have nightmares all night. The next day I feel like I haven't slept at all. I'll just have to try and see what happens.

 

[confuzion]

Hugs to all of you ladies. Hayles I will add you to the list as soon as I am on a computer. Welcome to the mama bears . My AF always came only a few days later than normal in my miscarriage cycles.

Lesh, GP, pixie - special hugs to you girls

 

[Wishing1010]

My AF came too girls. I'm ready to find that witch, and take her butt down so she doesn't come and visit us all!!!

Pixie, I have to take a Benadryl to sleep at night. I can't sleep on nights I have to go to work the next morning. I get stressed out.

 

[Squig34]

Pixie - sorry to hear this. I can understand your desire to start trying again immediately, but on the other hand, you don't have to - please don't be putting pressure on yourself. Maybe you could think about weaning yourself off the tablets this cycle and try next? I'm sorry to hear about the awful nightmares too. Have you thought about seeing someone to talk everything through?

Wishing - sorry AF came it was all looking so promising.

 

[Pixiedust22]

Ugh - I guess it isn't AF, I bled a little for a few hours and now nothing. This is driving me crazy!

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

Right ladies im back and ready for action lol, my body is so messed up at the moment though im not sure whats going on, since my mc in November every other month iv had bleeding inbetween my period (usually for a week) and unsure if i ovulate that month! Well this month is that month and iv bled on and off for over 11 days grr! Got a pos opk on CD 34 which was 5 days ago, but started bleeding again yesterday and cramping but not bleeding enough to call it AF yet because usually af starts heavy straight away, but im hoping the bleeding gets stronger today and i can then start charting! But i havent done charting for about 6 years now so no doubt I'll be really confused lol but anyway im hoping to get my BFP on this first month of charting, because this will be my normal month so i should stand a better chance lol!! And if i dont and the following strange month where im bleeding loads inbetween at least if i chart i will be able to see if i am ovulating and if im not ill have to see a dr! Hope your all doing great I'll be sticking around here now im actively trying! Im so excited for this cycle to start!!! X

 

[laurac1988]

Best of luck Charlie

How long did it take for you ladies to get a negative pregnancy test after natural miscarriage? It's been almost two weeks since I miscarried. The bleeding has stopped but I don't want to take the test and it be positive still

 

[o0oCharlieo0o]

Thank you Laura. And im so sorry for your loss, my pregnancy test was negative by two weeks after bleeding had stopped hun, they told me that if it wasn't id have to go back to the hospital. Xx