Mama Bears TTC a rainbow - join us :)-- (69 ladies so far)-(29 BFP's!)

[confuzion]

Hallo ladies,

Can I join? I had a d&c on the 4th of December and I am hoping for a rainbow sticky bean since we are not using protection.

I love the thread name because I always say that my DH is "papa bear" and DD my "baby bear". My DD's nursery theme were baby bears at the time

Sorry for your loss

Should I put you down as waiting to test?

We're happy to have another mama bear on board :

Thank you!

Yes please! I tested a week ago to see if previous hcg levels were down and 4 different brands were negative so will test next week to see if I am lucky or will have to wait for af.

Hopefully you are lucky with a new little bean! FX!

 

[mapha2]

I'm sorry Leah, hope it gets darker. Do not loose hope. Hugs

 

[Angelbaby_01]

I'm sorry Leah, hope it gets darker. Do not loose hope. Hugs

Hi!

I see you are from South Africa. Where in South Africa do you live?

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Well, I tested and it was bfn and on top of that I have a yeast infection.

 

[lesh07]

Hi ladies well I ended up ovulating on cd 16 after my loss, so normal for me. I was amazed how quick my cycle went back to normal. I am now 2 days late and waiting for my new batch of pregnancy tests too show up in the post to see if i am pregnant or not. I doubt it if i am the 1st month after my loss but i am feeling rather sick and very sore boobies. x

 

[LeahLou]

Fx you are lesh!!

Bfn on a FRER this morning. AF is 1 day late

 

[sailorsgirl]

Hey ladies,

After spending time away from certain pressures and being able to actually have time to think about what I want, I have decided to wait a little longer to try for a baby. I need more time to grieve and I want to enjoy my two babies before we add more to the mix.

Plus I'd like a bigger age gap now. We've missed the small gap we were hoping for so have decided to wait until Cohen is a little older.

So I will be making a doctors appointment asap to go onto the pill.

I will be keeping my fingers firmly crossed for you lovely ladies though.

 

[confuzion]

Well, I tested and it was bfn and on top of that I have a yeast infection.

Sorry . That's a bummer.

 

[confuzion]

Hi ladies well I ended up ovulating on cd 16 after my loss, so normal for me. I was amazed how quick my cycle went back to normal. I am now 2 days late and waiting for my new batch of pregnancy tests too show up in the post to see if i am pregnant or not. I doubt it if i am the 1st month after my loss but i am feeling rather sick and very sore boobies. x

Sounds like we might be looking forward to some good news. Come on pregnancy tests!

 

[confuzion]

Hope your tests are just being shy Leah. Being late is promising!

 

[confuzion]

Hey ladies,

After spending time away from certain pressures and being able to actually have time to think about what I want, I have decided to wait a little longer to try for a baby. I need more time to grieve and I want to enjoy my two babies before we add more to the mix.

Plus I'd like a bigger age gap now. We've missed the small gap we were hoping for so have decided to wait until Cohen is a little older.

So I will be making a doctors appointment asap to go onto the pill.

I will be keeping my fingers firmly crossed for you lovely ladies though.

Sounds like you're sensibly making the right decision for yourself. we'll miss you partaking in the TTC journey but you're always welcome to come and chat! Enjoy those little ones! Wish I had some of my own to distract me.

 

[confuzion]

Tonight is going to be our first night doing the dance for baby making purposes. Finally I feel like we'll be doing something!! I hate sitting around waiting

My hips will propped up on pillows tonight ladies

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Tonight is going to be our first night doing the dance for baby making purposes. Finally I feel like we'll be doing something!! I hate sitting around waiting

My hips will propped up on pillows tonight ladies

That's how I conceived DD go catch that egg!!!

Xxxx

 

[LeahLou]

Glad you're making a healthy decision for yourself sailor! Hope to see you back sometime!!

I hate bfn's for the record! I just want to get the next cycle going so we can try again!!

 

[confuzion]

Glad you're making a healthy decision for yourself sailor! Hope to see you back sometime!!

I hate bfn's for the record! I just want to get the next cycle going so we can try again!!

I hear you. They're the worst. I feel horrible that you're in limbo

I wish there was a surefire way to know if you're pregnant or not as soon as the baby implants

Like your fingernails turn pink or something

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Well, I still have to wait for af now that I got a bfn and have no idea when that will be. My body feel so messed up and it's making me miserable.

 

[confuzion]

Well, I still have to wait for af now that I got a bfn and have no idea when that will be. My body feel so messed up and it's making me miserable.

Nothing to offer but hugs

There's nothing worse than limbo. I know I've been there.

Maye you should try temping? Maybe that will help you understand what's going on? I know it helps me TONS.

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Well, I still have to wait for af now that I got a bfn and have no idea when that will be. My body feel so messed up and it's making me miserable.

Nothing to offer but hugs

There's nothing worse than limbo. I know I've been there.

Maye you should try temping? Maybe that will help you understand what's going on? I know it helps me TONS.

I started the day afer d&c, but couldn't keep up and it's been 4 weeks now. Maybe I should wait for af again before I start again or can I temp now? I did notice that my body tried to O twice now, but don't think I actually did.

 

[confuzion]

Well, I still have to wait for af now that I got a bfn and have no idea when that will be. My body feel so messed up and it's making me miserable.

Nothing to offer but hugs

There's nothing worse than limbo. I know I've been there.

Maye you should try temping? Maybe that will help you understand what's going on? I know it helps me TONS.

I started the day afer d&c, but couldn't keep up and it's been 4 weeks now. Maybe I should wait for af again before I start again or can I temp now? I did notice that my body tried to O twice now, but don't think I actually did.

Well if you know what the range is for your post-ovulation temperatures is, then you can keep temping until you see your temperatures dropping, and maybe you'd have an idea when AF will come.

But if you didn't ovulate. I don't think it would help

You can just wait for AF without temping. It stinks but all this TTC and pregnancy is a big waiting game anyway. Waiting to ovulate, waiting to test, waiting first scan, etc.

 

[mapha2]

I'm sorry Leah, hope it gets darker. Do not loose hope. Hugs

Hi!

I see you are from South Africa. Where in South Africa do you live?

Hi Angel, I'm live in Johannesburg hun. Are you also South African?