Mama Bears TTC a rainbow - join us :)-- (69 ladies so far)-(29 BFP's!)

[Renaendel]

Welcome Nikki, you won't find a greater group of ladies for support. I am sorry to hear about your losses and I bet you will get that sibling made soon!

 

[Fairydust22]

Hi ladies can I join please I had 2 mc last year I had my first mc in aug and mmc in dec I had a break now I'm ttc again xx

 

[lesh07]

Hi ladies. Hope your all good. It's coming to that time again but just not feeling it anymore. I hsvr kind of come to terms that it is likely not to happen again. So much so that have booked an appointment with the docs about bc. Haven't told the hubby yet as he is adamant that he wants another and keeps trying to be so sweet by cuddling my tummy and saying how lovely it will be. I am just hurting still to much about what should be happening now. My friend is 4 weeks behind where I should be and is about to find out the sex of her baby. All I can think is I should already know mine and as I have always delivered early (37-38wks) in a matter of 13-14 weeks I should have my baby! And yet now in my 5th month after I have not fallen pregnsnt again. Sorry to ramble but got no one else to talk too.... xxxxx

 

[Squig34]

Welcome, Fairy!

Lesh - but perhaps you should think about discussing how you're feeling with DH rather than just getting BC? It seems fair enough to me if you want to take a break, but on the other hand, 5 months isn't that long to be trying although I know it feels it. You have a good chance of falling pregnant within the next few months if you decide to keep trying. I know how you feel about other people having babies around the dates you should have been - my SIL had one just before one of my due dates and one of my best friends just after. Try to keep positive, I know it's hard when you really want something but you're not out yet.

 

[confuzion]

Hi ladies can I join please I had 2 mc last year I had my first mc in aug and mmc in dec I had a break now I'm ttc again xx

fairy fust. I'm so sorry for your losses. You are very welcome here. We are here for support so please update and vent away as you need to. Where are you in your cycle?

Hi ladies. Hope your all good. It's coming to that time again but just not feeling it anymore. I hsvr kind of come to terms that it is likely not to happen again. So much so that have booked an appointment with the docs about bc. Haven't told the hubby yet as he is adamant that he wants another and keeps trying to be so sweet by cuddling my tummy and saying how lovely it will be. I am just hurting still to much about what should be happening now. My friend is 4 weeks behind where I should be and is about to find out the sex of her baby. All I can think is I should already know mine and as I have always delivered early (37-38wks) in a matter of 13-14 weeks I should have my baby! And yet now in my 5th month after I have not fallen pregnsnt again. Sorry to ramble but got no one else to talk too.... xxxxx

I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time lesh. But like squig said, even though it feels like an eternity, 5 months is not that long to try. I hope you do what it right for you and take a break if you need to.

I hurt too. My first MMC My SIL was due in February with me. Well she has a beautiful baby boy now and I'm still TTC. Then my second MMC I was due in June and we've got two women in the family pregnant right around the same time. One the end of May (2 weeks apart), and another due in July. Both very heavily pregnant now. And here I am. Yet another loss. And still trying. So you are so not alone.

And don't ever apologize for venting your feelings. We are here to support you .

 

[krulci]

Hi Nikki! Hi Fairydust! Welcome!! You'll love it here.

Thanks Krulci. I'm feeling a little better today! Are you going to put a ticker up for your pregnancy? How are you feeling?

I was avoiding putting one up for the jinxing purposes, but... eh, why not?! What happens happens. I'm just trying to enjoy my pregnancy for as long as I'm allowed. Check for a ticker soon. And thank you for asking how I'm feeling... All I can describe it as is a boob throbbing zombie. I swear I've never been this tired in my life!!

Hi ladies. Hope your all good. It's coming to that time again but just not feeling it anymore. I hsvr kind of come to terms that it is likely not to happen again. So much so that have booked an appointment with the docs about bc. Haven't told the hubby yet as he is adamant that he wants another and keeps trying to be so sweet by cuddling my tummy and saying how lovely it will be. I am just hurting still to much about what should be happening now. My friend is 4 weeks behind where I should be and is about to find out the sex of her baby. All I can think is I should already know mine and as I have always delivered early (37-38wks) in a matter of 13-14 weeks I should have my baby! And yet now in my 5th month after I have not fallen pregnsnt again. Sorry to ramble but got no one else to talk too.... xxxxx

Oh Lesh, I'm so sorry. I have these mile-markers all the time as well. It seems everyone around me is some sort of reminder that I'm starting over (as grateful as I am, it still hurts and I still miss my LO). Maybe taking some time away from TTC would be more beneficial than anything? I would use caution in birth control, though, as the hormones can leave lasting effects should you decide to start TTC again soon. Maybe the pull-out or rhythm method could provide some temporary relief? Sending all my love in your direction!

 

[krulci]

Confuzion - your siggies are killing it! Lol, I love the superhero theme. Very apt considering the TTC journey.

 

[Nikki1979]

Am on cd 4 today. Bleeding has stopped and just spotting. I usually ovulate on cd 13/14 and hopefully it stays the same after the chemical.

 

[lesh07]

Thanks ladies. Well spoke to the hubby about the bc and he really doesn't want me on it! He thinks we will get there eventually. I know 5 months after a mc isn't long but i know about 4-5 women on here who lost there lo's when i did and are 6-8 weeks pregnant again and although i am so happy for them i just wish i was as lucky as them to fall pregnant again. xxx

Thankyou for all your kind words. xxx

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Hallo ladies, how are you doing?

I will hopefully be cd1 tomorrow and then can join in all the talk again wil start with smep from cd8 and can't wait. Hubby wants to bd, but I am trying to put it off a bit to keep the good swimmers. Lol

 

[Squig34]

It'll do no harm to BD tonight Angel, you don't want the swimmers staying in him too long anyway! Your poor deprived DH, he's probably keen to make up for last month!

 

[Leinzlove]

AngelBaby: I think it'd be good for him to get rid of the bad swimmers!!! Eeeek, this month is the one for making rainbow!

Squig: Your update?

 

[Renaendel]

Angelbaby, the maximum that the swimmers can be viable is like 5 days. Maybe if you aren't up to it have him keep up smep on his own so on cd8 you have pro swimmers ready? Some guys aren't cool with it, but mine took it all in stride and agreed right off the bat.

Squig, I hope you are enjoying your little vacation!

 

[confuzion]

Good luck Nikki...I hope ovulation comes on time.

Angel - if you're up for it, I would definitely do it! Yay cycle buddies! I'm CD1 today so we are only a day apart this cycle . Hoping for SHBFPS!!

 

[confuzion]

squig - enjoy your time away. Hope AF is a no-show and those lines get nice and dark!

lesh - glad you're deciding to keep on going. You will get there soon hon

krulci - watching for a pregnancy ticker!

 

[Angelbaby_01]

Confuzion, cycle buddies! I am cd1 and ladies we did bd 2 days ago lol. In fact, we did a lot............so can do with a 6 day break now at least whilst af is visiting..............

 

[confuzion]

Oh wohoo, so we're on the same schedule so far! I'm super excited!!!

 

[Squig34]

Yes got to inlaws safely and having a great time so far - food made for me and an epic nap this afternoon!

Leinz - I think I've posted all over the place so you've probably seen an update elsewhere, not testing again unless I miss AF on Monday! Not hopeful though, I just don't think it's going to go anywhere. But will keep everyone posted! Thanks for asking!

 

[Leinzlove]

C & Angelbaby: Yay, for being cycle buddies. Can't wait for testing! This SMEP is going to work!

Squig: I always see your postings but its hardly ever about yourself. Can't wait to see that AF has the best of reasons for staying away.

Dang if I don't miss TTC with you all. Can't wait... for these dark lines!!

 

[Tennessee]

Hello ladies, can I join your group also. Im still pretty new to B&B
I am on CD 2 today. I usually have normal cycles from 26 - 28 days
This is the 3rd cycle TTC after losing our twins at 9 weeks followed by D&C in November

Hoping this month is lucky for everyone