March 2013 babies

hi ladies can i ask why so many of you have had such early scans? i saw my midwife on friday and she said they wouldnt do an early one(before 12weeks) unless they're was a problem. even though i have had a mc before. i desperatley want to know if bean is at the right size for its age...and everything else. its going to be a lonngggg 5 weeks to wait!

I've had two early scans (one at 6 weeks and one at 9 weeks) because I was seeing a fertility specialist and going through fertility treatments when I got pregnant. It was hard to wait for even those so I can't imagine how hard it would be to wait til 12 weeks!!
 
Im on canada......my dr.does an early scan then one at 12-14 one at 18-21 and one at 34
 
Is anyone else finding themselves really grouchy since being pregnant? I can't bear it! My moods are usually really steady. Before getting pregnant I loved meditation & yoga & reading & spending time with family & friends, being the shoulder for them etc. Nowadays however I'm just grumpy all the time, I don't want to do anything that I used to enjoy, can't focus on yoga or meditation & don't have the patience to see anyone! I used to let things wash over me as I pride myself on being calm & rational but now i'm feeling like if someone snipes at me i'm going to fight fire with fire. Tit for tat stuff which really isn't me. And even though i'm aware of it, i'm not trying to be any nicer. I'm hoping that this is just my way of adapting to the hormonal changes & that it'll improve at 12 weeks onwards. People are probably starting to get a bit fed up with me! x
 
And I officially have the lovely MS. On the upside, honey cherrios apparently never lose their smell. *shrug*
 
hi ladies can i ask why so many of you have had such early scans? i saw my midwife on friday and she said they wouldnt do an early one(before 12weeks) unless they're was a problem. even though i have had a mc before. i desperatley want to know if bean is at the right size for its age...and everything else. its going to be a lonngggg 5 weeks to wait!

It seems they do the scans earlier in different parts of the world, USA being earlier than UK. In UK it's standard to do the first scan at 12 weeks, unless you've been through IVF or are deemed high risk, ie 3 previous miscarriages. That's my understanding of it, it's such a struggle waiting til 12 weeks isn't it!! My last midwife did say that at my next appointment (10wks) they would try to listen for a heartbeat, so maybe you could also request that, although they did say that in some cases it can increase anxiety as the baby may not be in the right position for the heartbeat to be heard. You're not alone though, I've also had a miscarriage before which makes this wait all the more agonising! Fingers crossed for you xx

I had an early scan because my last pregnancy was a blighted ovum missed miscarriage (MMC) plus when I went to my doctor at 6 weeks I was having stomach pains - which was trapped wind etc but I was really poorly with it that day - and I was a bit upset and stressed about it all. So she got me in that same week.
My MMC was found more than 5 weeks after it should have happened naturally and I had to go to outpatients for an ERPC. :cry:

Good news is that this time there really was a little bean there with a little heart beating away :happydance:
 
Is anyone else finding themselves really grouchy since being pregnant? I can't bear it! My moods are usually really steady. Before getting pregnant I loved meditation & yoga & reading & spending time with family & friends, being the shoulder for them etc. Nowadays however I'm just grumpy all the time, I don't want to do anything that I used to enjoy, can't focus on yoga or meditation & don't have the patience to see anyone! I used to let things wash over me as I pride myself on being calm & rational but now i'm feeling like if someone snipes at me i'm going to fight fire with fire. Tit for tat stuff which really isn't me. And even though i'm aware of it, i'm not trying to be any nicer. I'm hoping that this is just my way of adapting to the hormonal changes & that it'll improve at 12 weeks onwards. People are probably starting to get a bit fed up with me! x

Yeah - same here. Gave my boss a bit of a surprise the other day as I am usually very calm and level too. I knew I was doing it but could not help it. :wacko:
He forgave me though as he knows I am pregnant and is a dad of 3 himself so used to it. :winkwink:
 
thanks ladies. im not seeing my midwife again until 15weeks so will have to wait till 12 for my scan. im just impatient and almost wishing time away...

anyone else reallly bloated? if i saw anyone today i would of had to cover up my 'bump'...think my ibs is playing up too...it does with stress sometimes.
 
Yeah I'm mega bloated! I didn't even know it was possible to be this bloated!

Just picked up my travel set woohoo :) so exciting!! I know it's early but I think it's better to be prepared and this was a bargain.
 
YUCK ms started with a big entrance last night :cry:
I have it this morning too :( :(
 
does anyone have a belly picture yet? i'm 9 weeks now, and i know its just blooat, but i'm wondering if anyone else has a 'sort of' belly :p
 
I have my first scan tomorrow as being having some problems hoping I see my little bean wish me luck girls x x x
 
My symptoms (the little ones that I did have) are starting to taper off, except for the bloating, fatigue and the irritability. In place of that I went in to urgent care for ear pain to find out I have an ear infection. Dr wouldn't prescribe any meds due to the harm it could do to the baby so I've been suffering to say the least. :(
 
yes, i am still very bloated. i think i've gained somewhere around 2 pounds (which i hope isn't too much for this stage) but for the first 8 weeks my appetite was crazy and i felt like i had to eat constantly to ease nausea.
I'm not fitting properly into most of my clothes. can't wait for my actual bump!
 
Oh sharn.. I feel for you!! Hope it doesn't last too long

Heaveneats- I have a bloat belly!! I took a pic of it cause it looks like I have a bump. Yesterday I was in a wedding and used spanx to hold it in, but once most of the guests left I took off the spanx ( it felt amazing to let my bloat out!!) my oh kept rubbing my belly ( lol he was pretty drunk) I just laughed and told him he was rubbing my bloat.. He just said he likes to think of it as the baby's home and not bloat
 
hi all
well my ms seems slightly better sohopefully its calming down now.
i am now daring to let myself believe that bumpy is going to be ok and in 30 wks time ill be holding him/her. i may even go crazy and buy a little outfit today!!
am off for a little break with my mum n little girl down to my nans for 3 nights. gunna miss the hubby loads.
x
 
Good luck bumblebee!

I've been taking pictures of my belly every week so I can compare, will be good to compare if I have future pregnancies too :) obviously not much to see yet apart from bloat but it will be interesting to see how I progress!
 
Hi
I think im about 7 weeks preg :) was trying for this baby for almost a year, i also have a son that turned 2 3 days ago. With this pregnancy i feel somethings wrong :( i constantly have a sore stomach (not over the top pain but a niggly annoying pain) and am just wondering if its normal just because my first pregnancy was so nice
 
Hi
I think im about 7 weeks preg :) was trying for this baby for almost a year, i also have a son that turned 2 3 days ago. With this pregnancy i feel somethings wrong :( i constantly have a sore stomach (not over the top pain but a niggly annoying pain) and am just wondering if its normal just because my first pregnancy was so nice

Hello
I am not really an expert as this is my first (although my second pregnancy).

My doctor said that as long as pain is not severe and there is no blood then it should be ok. :thumbup:

But if you are worried then might be worth speaking to the doctor about it. :shrug:
Mine gave me an early scan as I was so stressed - esp after last time.

Feeling some stretching etc must be a good thing though right? :hugs:
 

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