March 2015 Pots of Gold

[Tmb0047]

Afm - I'm getting anxious and have decided to book a private scan on Wed or Thurs....just waiting for hubby to tell me which day works better. As I get closer to how far I was at my loss I start feeling more anxious and it seems the hospital is not in a rush to get me in. So I'll book a private and then get the dating scan shortly after. I just need to see that all is well!

 

[swampmaiden]

oh ladies, I feel for you.. blood is always a scary scary sign, and even though the u/s showed baby is fine, its still a giant worry.. ill send a prayer out for you

tmb, best of luck to you too, I hope your reassurance scan goes well. even though i am now well over 2 weeks past my mcs dates, I still worry over everything... lack of nausea, lack of tiredness, crampiness.. even though I already know from personal experience those symptoms come and go with no prediction. I hope your reassurance scan goes well

 

[Lbrum]

Hey baby tots, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Just rest up as much as you can and go back and push to see someone if it gets any worse. I had a bleed this pregnancy around 4 weeks ago (although not as heavy I don't think) and they found a haematoma so there really can be harmless reasons for it. I know how worried you must be, but just keep thinking about that healthy scan xx

 

[babytots]

Babytots - I'll keep you in my thoughts! Try to relax much as you can....feet up and don't attempt too much the next few days. So scary....glad baby is looking well. Did they say where your placenta was? Or did they see a bleed on the ultrasound?

No she didn't mention the placenta. Nothing showed up on the scan to say were the bleeding was coming from all looks normal. Got my feet up on the sofa with a duvet and don't plan to move from it unless I need to.

Hope your private scan goes well keep us updated hun.

Hey baby tots, I'm so sorry you're going through this. Just rest up as much as you can and go back and push to see someone if it gets any worse. I had a bleed this pregnancy around 4 weeks ago (although not as heavy I don't think) and they found a haematoma so there really can be harmless reasons for it. I know how worried you must be, but just keep thinking about that healthy scan xx

That's what I had with 2 of my previous pregnancies and assumed this time would be the same but no sign of a haematoma or anything else to show a cause for the bleeding which makes it all the more frightening not knowing what's causing it.

Thanks swamp maiden hopefully it's nothing to worry about. That's great you have passed the stage you were with your m/c I think after a loss it's normal to worry even when you pass those milestones x

 

[babytots]

I think I'll be leaving you ladies bleeding has stepped up a gear and is now clots so I know its only a matter of time. Can't get through to anyone as it goes to answer machine so won't be able to speak to the epu til the morning.

I feel so numb x

 

[Lbrum]

I'm so sorry x

 

[Tmb0047]

Babytots - I feel sick for you right now I hope the will see you again and check things out. I hope you are wrong and it's just some weird, unexplainable bleeding.

 

[flou]

Babytots i am so sorry. I hope that everything is ok.

 

[babytots]

I hope so too ladies. I'll update tomorrow but I'm preparing myself for the worst x

 

[Smiler79]

You are in my prayers baby tots xxxxxxx

 

[Tmb0047]

Any news babytots? Has your bleeding lessened? Praying for you.

 

[chelsealynnb]

I hope so too ladies. I'll update tomorrow but I'm preparing myself for the worst x

So sorry

 

[Tmb0047]

Chelsea - Just noticed your name choices in your signature...I love them both! Kyler has always been on my boy list but DH has an ex named Kyla so we've opted not to use it I really like Harper as well, it's such a pretty name! Are you going to find out the sex?

 

[LilFooshFoosh]

Praying they find the reason for the bleeding and everything is ok with baby, Babytots!!

 

[babytots]

Hi ladies thanks for your messages. The bleeding is still heavy and been cramping on and off all day. Rang the epu who are seeing me tomorrow but they said it's unlikely they will scan me again since I've been scanned twice already x

 

[flou]

babytots I hope everything is ok xxx

 

[babytots]

Thanks Flou x

 

[Tmb0047]

Babytots - Hope today brings you good news. Thinking of you.

Afm - Private scan booked at 4:30 on Thursday - Will be 9+3 I can't wait to actually see that something is growing and thriving in there. Also, I'm booked in Sept 8th for my dating scan at which time I'll be 12 weeks exactly.

How is everyone doing? It's been kind if quiet in here...hope all is well.

 

[babytots]

Hi ladies sadly I will be leaving you all. The scan comfirmed a miscarriage. I hope you all have a happy and healthy 9 months x

 

[Tmb0047]

Babytots, I am so, so sorry for your news. I hope you have a good support system around you to help through this difficult time. I will keep you in my thoughts....take care of yourself.